She is complaining about guy pulling his punches. Is she so stupid as to not realize if he didn't pull his punches her skull would get crushed in and she would be in concussion protocol for weeks if not killed during a punch gone wrong.
Try your local ymca. Also local game stores/comic shops sometimes have adds looking for players. You might have to consider playing with her in some of these groups or even dming for her and some of her friends.
I was also in Catholic school and I recall a classmate who would bring his porno mags to school in those old school yellow folders with random sports on the front. At recess there would be a swarm of us around him checking it out. We never did get caught. Yard duty ladies were negligent back...