Vanessa's Tranny AMA Blog Thread

Oh crap, also:

I got a PM from a member here who is pre-everything trans that has hundreds of posts and I think they're in the closet! Let the witch-hunt begin!

To the person: I'm not going to out you, promise. But, hey, you should post here and come out; we're all friends

Also, I honestly appreciate your kind words, but you may misunderstand who I am. I'm not brave. I'm not inspirational. I'm not raising awareness of our plight. I'm an attention whore. I throw around pejoratives like tranny, she-male, t-girl without flinching. I don't give a shit about trans suicide rates, trans restroom rights (I'll go take a shit at a NC courthouse with no hesitation), or really anything to do with the social aspects of being a t-girl. I post nudes here and on dating apps without any qualms like a slut, and talk to guys like a slut. I'm a vulgar girl who curses all the time and has a penchant for racist, dirty jokes. I'm a shitty, lazy person who has all sorts of nerdy, weirdo crap around my apartment. I am the one who knocks. Now... say my name.

gauze said:

Sorry to come at you like that while in depression, it's just a general curiosity I never really had the balls to ask a trans because either they're stuck in a delusion or i'm coming across as insulting their efforts. Your brows are on point, eyes up is perfectly fine to me. I mean if you're talking about the hair on your head, you can easily just go into other methods to fix it the way you want. Ever look into like the apple cider ect method instead of shampoo/conditioner? when I had long hair, it was my go to, but I also have straight long asian hair haha. I will never condition my hair, that shit destroys texture. As far as myself, there really aren't many details I care that is there that I can't fix(like extra fat,) thus why I ask the question because its a radical swap and there are a lot of things that work against you mentally/physically/socially.

I don't know shit about hair removal, being that I barely have any to begin with. I get like one spruce of chest hair, and -girl i'm seeing at the time- usually 100% always wants to pluck it and I never see it again for the next 8 months.

I figured you had a nose job XD I have 5 members of my family that all have some sort of nose work; looks fine though.

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It's okay, honestly I'm not in a depression per se, just getting over someone if I can be 100% blunt about it. We still talk and see each other which makes it a bit harder, but w/e. Like I said, just normal life stuff, nothing to do with said thread topic.

Maybe I'm a bit biased, but i'd put it at "lips up" is on point. Again, my chin and jaw suck and I totally see a dude if I look in the mirror from lips down

Asians make the best trannies, bar none!

Good pic showing hip-waist ratio and my face profile. Ratio is okay and I'm happy, don't get me wrong, but it's not quite cis-female proportions and that's a bummer. I think just +1 inch on hips and -1 inch on waist would be "it" but oh well~



Edit: Also, after all these posts, I certainly HOPE that at this point you know me well enough and trust that you can ask me anything AT ALL without feeling like you're going to hurt my feelings or feel like it's too sensitive or cruel or mean a thing to say, ask, comment about. I realize, as Gauze has pointed out, that the general 'zeitgeist' of the trans-world is one of overly-sensitive snowflakes that you need to walk on eggshells around and respect. Rofl, fuck that noise~ We chop our balls off, true, but we should still have a pair mentally.

More pics, less clothes

Y'know, if y'all (<--hint of my location! Alabammy clearly, hoho) really can just access that information at the drop of a hat and out this person, that's fucked. I wouldn't have said anything. Let her (LoL, CORRECT PRONOUNS PEOPLE) come out on her own time, k? I was trying to have a lil' fun and drama about it, but don't be straight up dicks.

Sylas said:

After you have the bottom surgery and are all "done". If you meet a guy, idk Mr Right, who tells you up front that he doesn't want kids. Do you tell him? I mean if he doesn't want children and doesn't notice otherwise, would you still tell him?

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To start with, as I've said a few times before, my insurance needs to change its tune regarding SRS before I even plan to have it done. I ain't paying for it, so I'll be pre-op for years to come I assume.

Secondly, I don't go through life assuming I would pass that perfectly, y'know? So I've never legitimately thought that through. With that said, however, I've had situations that beg to differ. I've met friends of friends and they knew I was trans upon initial meeting due to said friends telling them. The rule of thumb is that you should either not discuss a friends trans-status to someone else, or get their permission first. Well you know me, idgaf, so it's not like that crap applies to me. Regardless, I've heard a couple times directly from my friends that Soandso wouldn't have known I was anything but just a girl had they not been told beforehand. I honestly tend to believe it just because it's one thing I think if I go, "So, Friend, how did Soandso think I looked? Did I act okay around them?" etc etc. Y'know... like openly seeking validation. But my friends brought it up first, just casually saying, "Oh, Soandso said you look real pretty and they don't think they'd have known if they weren't told first". Also, new co-workers are a good litmus test so to speak, and, again, was told a few times the same thing... wouldn't have known and were surprised when they were told.

So I dunno... if I could forecast the future and assuming I had a perfect looking vajayjay (no frankenpussy) and such, I think I'd still be up front about it. It's just my personality; blunt, honest, and to the point... I don't really do bullshit in general.

Hurry up and rate the posts "Jew", Sterling...you must still be asleep. Christ almighty, what's up with that guy anyway???