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BTW I may joke - but I sort of was looking down the same barrel awhile back. It had been months (I lost count) and in my head I was going "Well, if she isn't going to do it with me... I'm going to find someone that will." I had to take a step back and realize that wasn't the way. Besides, any...

I don't know how to relate that to her, but I definitely would not relate it like you laid out. Calling stuff menial and time investment will probably rub her pill-popping body the wrong way.

I'm going to be honest, I don't know. In school I imagined making this much money at the end of my career.

I'm probably gonna start up again soon for the 18th time. Not really playing with anyone though. Maybe that is a mistake.

I think my ceiling is pretty high. This job I'm getting is only a Senior engineer role.. still several big bumps coming

I think I made $75k at my first job out of school and that was more than anyone in my class (except the one guy that worked at the same place as me). A couple people now make significantly more than me but work in the city. That dude that worked with me is now at Google, but he has a condo in...

You're basically a millionaire now, might as well

Boston is high COL but I've found they don't really pay at a level to meet that COL unless you work at google, amazon, VMWare, Oracle, etc. Akamai paid me like $85k and that's sort of laughable in that city. My internship at EMC paid $24/hr and I felt like a million bucks at the time.

Ok to put it into better perspective for you, it'd be like if you bought 1 dildo, but the guy next to you got 2 dildos for free.

Could be skewed by location too. For instance bay area pays substantially more. Also..

Just rumors but I hope it's true

That was a concern for what... A couple months?

And it failed

You could be right. They changed what ingredients were in their food minutes after ordering and the waiter had to run back to the kitchen

Honestly though who could've guessed that would've ruined the loot system? "You think you do, but.."

RESIST :emoji_punch:

Son's 4th birthday in a couple weeks. Turning into quite the charming little man. I hope he stays this cool forever, but I know in about 10 years he'll be a douche.

Oh I know, my friend rubbed it in The weird part now is I need to wait to give my notice (start April 29). I think dell is probably going to confirm with Raytheon that I work there so not sure how it'll go. I'm worried about being walked out but maybe they won't because it isn't a competitor

8%. I don't know what all the numbers and letters map to. I'm sure it's listed somewhere here

This ain't sounding good. Sounds like a lot of issues coming together all at once. She probably said "fuck the patriarchy" behind your back after you told her to see another doctor.

I probably wouldn't hang anything in my house that said"fuck" while I have young kids. Wtf

Someones gotta say it git gud

Listen here you little shit I don't need to answer your 400 questions

I've never seen a boot camp.kid get hired anywhere I've worked

Easier to automate for one

Of course it's one-sided venting

You're married dude! Decisions should be made together! You're right that it's not a money issue, its a respect issue. You assumed she'd say no before you even mentioned it and just did it. None of us know your family dynamic, but it seems like you two are on different wavelengths.

Is she depressed by any chance?

You're acting like it's your money vs hers in this situation. Or you have a greater claim to it. It doesn't sound like it's an equality to me.

Me and the wife discuss anything over like $50. Overkill maybe, but there's never a surprise like that.

I mean I get the idea that divorce is a last resort, so in that sense it's a shame. If it's amicable then who cares. @Foler we combined ours, but my brother and his wife are separate. They both work. I prefer combined because I have her pay all the bills (I'm terrible at procrastinating)

That's a shame man, no joke

Are you saying this with a tear in your eye as you're crumpling your ALCIDE poster? They accepted my counter offer. 126k. Moving up boys

They always do flying because people would flip, but they delay it a year??ish

After the recent postings I wouldn't trust Lendarios about anything marriage related. He's looking at divorce

Good news for you is blizzard hates flying

Ok Im glad you're a true blood fan

Id be happy if she published anything to be honest. Even an Eric and Al-seed romance novel

I wonder if it's worth talking to a professional about this. Surely you arent the only dude ever who has dealt with this

Honestly? Tell her you're pissed. Sometimes my wife jokes and they are ill-timed and if i hold it in I just resent her.