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  1. Tarrant

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I don't think to many are talking about your dilemma anymore and rather are just discussing cheating in general.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I can see what you're driving at Deathwing and I think that's probably a valid thing for some.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    There's a difference between choices and accountability though. He made a choice sure, but he wasn't accountable for it or to me. Thus my anger and other negative emotions weren't directed at him.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I suppose, but the blame still lay with he, imo. Like I said, the other guy wasn't fully innocent either but I never thought of him as a home wrecker. I thought of my then wife as the homewrecker because she was the one who I shared a home with and the one who made the decision to wreck it.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Eh, not his fault my wife was a whore.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    The cheatee isn't innocent but again, it's not on them. When my wife cheated I wasn't happy with the other guy but he didn't ruin my marriage and wreck my trust. My wife did. Our oath and promises were to one another and between no one else. Why get angry at someone else because she broke those?
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    The ultimate decision was up to your cheating parent. They were the ones to"wrecked your home", not anyone else.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Same here, so it's something we will do together a lot. She even called my mom to get some of her recipes that's shes heard me talk about loving to make them. Shes a pretty cook chick and considering where I came from as far as relationships, I consider myself pretty damn lucky these days.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm right there with you Soy, current gf is that way, though a bit attention needing at times (but then, who isn't sometimes?) However shes a good cook. :)
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    As far as my ex goes, I told her at the time I think she would just be happier single than she was with me or maybe anyone else really. She needed to be able to concentrate on herself and even with how crazy she was I tried to be understanding of her condition and issues. Something I am very...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Yeah, I should note I'm clearly not angel either. The girl I'm seeing now will call me on stuff and I know when she does its with valid reason. Very rarely is she ever truly unreasonable unless she just got done working a crazy overnight shift at her work and is stressed from it and even then 10...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    the cheater is the homewrecker, not the cheatee. This coming from soneone who's first marriage was ruined by that. My trust and bond is with my wife, not the dude. If she breaks that, why be mad at anyone else? Mind you, not condoning it if Mrs. Gravy goes down that road, but there's not much...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    My ex wife would go to bed and be angry if I got on the computer after she went to sleep because "didn't I have anything better to do?". She would tell me I should watch TV instead....for whatever reason, but would then get angry as she would come out randomly to check the volume on the...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    That's your fault though. Or so we've been led to believe.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Yeah, I'm right there with you man, I did that shit for years (walking on eggshells) and I refuse to do it again.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'd be the guy randomly tipping waitresses $1,000. I know I'd have to get a good financial adviser to keep tabs on my money. Not because I'd spend it on myself but because I'd want to help so many others with it.
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    Middle-earth: Shadow of War (Shadow of Mordor Sequel)

    Oh I am. I'm just being impatient and a bit salty because of it. lol
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    My ex wife was that way, due to all the above. If she won $32 million on the lotto she'd complain about it in some way. "Oh well, it was only $32 million, it's not like it was the $400 million that someone won a few weeks ago. Just my luck, ugh." Man, that shit is toxic to be around.
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    Middle-earth: Shadow of War (Shadow of Mordor Sequel)

    Its frustrating that after how hyped I am for this with watching that video that I have to wait till Aug. to play it. :(
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Yikes
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    Losing your Job

    This guy fucks.
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    Losing your Job

    a_skeleton_03 promised cake pops to me and a few others. Ned Stark ones if I remember correctly. He failed to deliver. There's more to is but it's not that interesting and frankly, still hurts to talk about.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Personally I didn't want to be in my mid to late 50s when my kids graduated high school and run the chance in missing out on grandkids due to men in my family not often living long beyond 60 and even if I lived longer I wanted to be able to play with them without worrying about breaking a hip...
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    NFL 2017 Offseason - Where does Romo go?

    safe to assume Romo is being traded to the Texans now then I assume.
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    NFL 2017 Offseason - Where does Romo go?

    Kalil wasn't bad, the whole year he sucked he was battling injuries,he improved the next year and was doing great again until another injury. Also, when you put"best" in quotes you insinuate he wasn't your best. He was. Have fun with Clemmings filling his spot.
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    NFL 2017 Offseason - Where does Romo go?

    This is what I keep telling people. His contract isn't what people should take exception to, it's the market. Dude, as of now is a bottom tier starting QB. He's in the bottom 8 or 10 of pay for a starting QB in the league...so his pay, in terms of market is right where it should be. I don't get...
  27. Tarrant

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Fixed. And maybe..... Yeah, oooooookay.
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    Losing your Job

    Dude every time I see them Its the first thing I think about, even these years later.
  29. Tarrant

    Losing your Job

    Or cakepops. :(
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    Losing your Job

    Personally, even when upset at a boss or I'm really unhappy and I move on elsewhere, I always keep it professional in terms of putting in a notice. I've never wanted to take the chance of word getting back to my new employer, which I've seen with others and had a job offer rescinded. Also, since...
  31. Tarrant

    Losing your Job

    Awesome man, congrats!!
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    Losing your Job

    Rofl
  33. Tarrant

    Middle-earth: Shadow of War (Shadow of Mordor Sequel)

    There's lots more here, more engaging environments, having your own minions that can help or betray at any time, raising your own army and stronghold basically. There's a bunch more here.
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    Losing your Job

    My 6 year old loves putting pine needles in his mouth so that's not true at all.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Glad you feel so at home you post here with us.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I've never been in hiding, I've always been around.
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    NFL 2017 Offseason - Where does Romo go?

    If he goes to the Texans, do they bench Brock or use him to rip off the Browns for draft picks?
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    the spouse murder is new to the last few pages, it's not a recurring topic. At least out loud.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    But what about the bones?!
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    Middle-earth: Shadow of War (Shadow of Mordor Sequel)

    Yeah I'm replaying through the first now as I never finished it and I still love it. The revamping/expanding of the Nemesis system looks awesome....all of it looks great. Can't wait for this. (So glad to have a system to play in again)