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I was more advocating pain from not stretching properly. Never go in dry. Odd complaint about anal orgasms. My wife has described them as different, but not that way. Will have to ask when I get home.

Be patient, it took years to make anal commonplace with my wife. Another thing to try is to separate anal from fucking her in the ass. She might be uncomfortable with a dick going back and forth, but a butt plug or analingus she might like. I'll often give the latter two to my wife with no...

You need to stretch that hole with something that isn't your dick. Finger(s), tongue, toys, take your pick. Unless your wife is a pain slut. And if she is, she's likely a sub. In which case, just tell her you're going to fuck her ass.

I'd high five you soybro, but I know where your hand has been.

Small butt plug. Most people fuck up anal by skipping preparation. The sphincter needs time to stretch to accommodate a penis wrecking that shit. Also, a magic wand while you're fucking her ass will help her associate good feelings with anal.

Next time she gives that excuse("that's where I poop"), please respond with rest of that meme. Honestly, how do you keep a straight face when she uses that? Can you get a UTI from anal? Probably. I've done anal many many times along with eating her out, no detrimental effects. Anecdotal...

Blazin's been down that road already, don't ruin his second chance.

Yes.

So, what exactly did you do? I would imagine trying to incorporate sweet potato into a baked good would require a lot of recipe alteration.

A human relationship is what you make it. Sex doesn't have to be required. You can be unhappy with a sexless relationship, most people will. But I'm sure there are happy, sexless couples. I'm just pointing it out as a possibility, something to consider. I did not say she was doing...

When it's known for gay men to have kids(with a woman) and families, I would say no.

You keep giving examples where communication is the problem. I think the other people having problems here are well past that. Depends completely on the context of the situation. What caused it? Have you discussed the consequences fully of any decision? But yeah, grin and bear it might be...

If Tarrant just wants a forehead kiss and some cuddling and his wife won't do that, that's another problem altogether. I would argue those are different forms of intimacy, ones that don't require sexual desire. Are we not assuming this discussion is about sexual intimacy?

That, in and of itself, is not a problem. The context is the problem. For Olebass, he has very little to lose, barring his girl going psycho. Chaos and others with families? They have more to consider. Furthermore, why shouldn't the cause of the loss of libido be considered? Should you...

Mkopec: So, you had a problem, talked about it rationally and worked it out? How does prove what I said is bullshit? How is "owed" and "integral" not the same thing in this context? You're just passing the buck to the "relationship" instead of yourself. Why is it not possible to have a...

I'm making the assumption that you guys don't like thankless, unenthusiastic sex. Because that's exactly what the wife of balloon dick is going to get, unless that guy is one hell of an actor. I know when something is off with my wife, and it's REALLY obvious during sex. You guys say you want...

Understanding the other side of the argument is not the same as devil's advocate. Also, edited my response above. Cad: inadvertently answered your question in my edit.

Julian: Your example is a bit off. How about if you were castrated? Tarrant: Sex, being intimate, making love, whatever the fuck ever, don't play semantics. If she doesn't want to hoover your dick, chances are likely she doesn't want to strip tease or put on that cute outfit either. You...

Just curious, would you ask a paraplegic to play soccer? Would you think it ok to talk to a paraplegic about their inability to play soccer isn't meeting your needs to play soccer? I get the lack of intimacy can be problematic, regardless of cause. But if she's doing everything she can, you...

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Besides there being a huge emotional difference between having sex and watching Rocky Horror Picture Show, I don't make my wife do your latter examples either. What's the point? Find something you both like to watch or go do something else. Go to the store yourself unless you need her...

Do you enjoy fucking women that you know aren't themselves enjoying it?

I think you can get it in whimseyshire rift maps too. I got the horadric hamburger in a whimsey rift.

Wouldn't that be worse for sous vide? You're lowering the amount of thermal energy in the water.

Why?

You think chaos' wife chose to have anxiety and panic attacks? Yes, they should definitely be able to talk about it. This likely started out better and got worse as nothing was solved(because it can't be without some ugly consequences). It's a 2+ year old sore subject, of course bringing it...

Oh, of course, I'm great at ignoring my wife's needs and wants. Which is kind of the point, people get lost in what's just around them and forget what started this. That's why I'm asking for the back story. It might even be helpful for chaos to dredge some of this up for himself. But all...

The thread's been moving fast, I might have missed where chaos said that. Keep in mind, both parties might be embittered to the point where they have forgotten what started this. I find it really hard to believe someone you married and had 3 kids with has suddenly gone cold and uncaring to...

Has she realized your want to have sex, regardless of whether or not she can fulfill that? Because, at this point, that's all you can expect of her. Unless you suspect the anxiety problem is partially bullshit.

Bring me back some 36 month balut, we'll make coq-au-vin.

That's some infraction-worthy shit.

Coefficients on int classes aren't that great anyway. It's a lightning barb/monk weapon, that's it.

How is a day trip to the beach moving too fast? Are you Mormon?

What's your gym dues? You could pay a hooker to talk to for what I've seen some crossfit gyms quoted.

Red beans and rice?

It takes a little while, but any reasonable person should get over it eventually. I can now ask my wife if she's going to the gym with impunity.

Invite her to the gym with you(you don't go already?). But good luck on the other part. You readily admit it's body related, which is fine for you to want, but I have no idea how your wife will react to you saying that. Most will act insulted.

Talk about a marginal super power.

Odd, I've almost never had compensation discussed during the phone screening. That's usually discussed during the in-person interview. Or the company just assumes "we're going to pay you this much!" and I tell them to fuck off.