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There’s differing opinions on this. Not everyone thinks you should wait any specific time. https://www.wealthysinglemommy.com/wait-to-introduce-your-love-interest-to-the-kids-no-way/

Let’s lay this out a little briefly. I have met her kid - the dad was supposed to have him, he ended up having to do something, and she had him. She very apologetically asked me if she could bring him. I said cool, please do. I enjoyed it. Secondly - I have not been on that many dates with...

Yeah. That’s why I’m happy the dad is around. He takes the kid some. And I don’t really want to be a full time adoptive father. Part time helping out with the kid and playing, I can do.

I am 90 percent sure.

Oh noes, she got your bEtABux (had to throw that in.) Awesome! And for the crowd…was it always easy? I bet it wasn’t, right? Your wife was probably crazy busy at times, yes? Dates cancelled, things rescheduled, taking the kid on dates unexpectedly, etc. I am sure everything you went through...

Hashimoto’s? Or eating and drinking too much? 😜

Yah, exactly. You really can’t talk about anything with dudes into this red pill / PUA stuff. Next thing you know Dumar starts posting again.

Not that many. I was out of town for the holidays for a long while. I only met her in…October? But we didn’t go on a real date until December maybe? After going on the first date which was what, lemme do the math…6 weeks ago, perhaps? She’s been way more active in talking to me and making...

I fully understand. You’re absolutely right. I think it’s just something I’m willing to try out at this point of my life. If it’s awful, we ain’t married, I can bail. She has said, like I’ve seen other single mothers say, been very forward about this. She has told me I’m a mom to a three year...

Ha. We haven’t actually got there yet. We’ll see how that goes when the time comes. I’m actually happy she seems a lil’ conservative in regards to sleeping with someone. I’m happy to take things slow. She didn’t even kiss me with tongue until recently. I met her at a restaurant and not from...

Seriously. Most girls like it. She was being uptight. I wasn’t even trying to go for anal (I think it’s kinda meh) I just want to play with your ass. Stop being such a prude.

I’d venture a guess she went from 130-140 pounds to closer to 200 if that’s your bag. 🤪 She still has a cute face for what that’s worth. When I first met her in 2019 and she was 130-140 she absolutely crammed her ass into jeans and it was glorious. The first time we fucked there wasn’t even...

Eeeew. Think chubby instead of morbidly obese and 30 years younger. This girl was super cute but I think I described her as “thick” before. She had a beautiful ass when I first met her. I think she was like 5’6” 130-140 pounds I’d guess.

I haven’t seen her since 2019 I guess? She did not want to buy me a house. She owned her own (which was given to her,) about 8 minutes drive away from me. She moved out of state for about six months and we just didn’t stay connected. She also got really fat last I saw her on social media. She...

Oh I’ll keep you updated!

Seriously, I appreciate outside perspectives on this. I know some guys have got fucked over and it isn’t uncommon. I am most assuredly involved in this cautiously and I don’t see any particular alarm bells personally at the moment. I am by no means in a position yet where I’m placing any great...

I’m seeing the MGTOW vibe.

Yah, I get it. I just think the guy from what she told me was *subatantially* less well off than he claimed. I don’t think she was looking for a millionaire. She just wanted someone who could actually support her while she was pregnant or taking care of a toddler. From what I gather this guy was...

There’s a difference between being a gold digger and having someone say they make way more money than they do to coerce you to move to another country though. Surely you can’t defend the actions of some man who would lie about that. Does she want a nice life for herself? Undoubtedly. But who...

No idea. It’s something I’ve thought about bringing up somehow in conversation though.

Great question. Here’s a semi answer at least — I’m not sure she actually has a credit card. I’ve only seen her pay with cash everywhere. Which does make you wonder why she doesn’t, or if she did. It’s possible she’s never established credit here.

One more thing to add to this. I read Chinese women will be blunt when asking if you have money to support a family. The very first conversation we ever had when I first met her is that she wants to have two kids, so one more. I said I would also like to date someone who wants a kid (I have...

Oh I have! I would never let her pay for everything. And I know I make more money than her. Good point about not letting her do it even when she insists…maybe that’s some cultural thing I didn’t know about. Next Monday (spa / facial day) will be expensive. I bought her a $150 gift card for...

She wasn’t working here until two years ago (year and a half ago? not sure.) I think if I’m getting the timeline right. I don’t think it was that he didn’t have a lot of money, it was that he lied about having more. Apparently when they met in China he was claiming to have this great tech job...

It’s surprisingly pleasant! I know the thought of it is going to be too much for some people. I dunno how much of it is even in the drink. There’s bits of “stuff” in it which I assume is the nest. Could have been worse, we walked past a place with durian and she said she loves it.

I have, more this past Saturday than anything. She hasn’t talked about him to any great extent until then, other than saying he wasn’t very kind. She was in China. Her ex is American Chinese. They met through mutual friends somehow. He came to China for a while, they ended up dating, and she...

I’m still seeing the Chinese mom. She invited me to go to Oakland Chinatown for pre-New Years food and shopping on Saturday. We go to a dim sum restaurant. Order about six things, came to $50. I get out my credit card to pay at the end, she says “no I invited you, you pay next time.” So I say...

Enough years have passed that Paul Walker would find his own death jokes funny.

Yah, I came from Florida and my parents still live there in a more rural gulf county. Their house has went up $100k or more in the past 5 years. This was from being worth maybe 125k before that. Mind you this is an area where 125k bought you a 2,000 sqft house on acreage with a pool.

It’s a big if honestly. I think it’s gonna be a long time coming. Now that the floodgates are open for dealers doing this it’s gonna be a hard press to ever get them to stop doing it. Then couple that with no end in sight to soaring manufacturing costs, the chip shortage that doesn’t seem to be...

One salesman I talked to even told me it’s ridiculous, the market sucks, and he said he doesn’t predict it’s going to end for 2-3 years. He said he can’t believe anyone would actually pay so much for some things on the lot.

Went and browsed some vehicles yesterday evening. I saw dealer markups as much as $20k over msrp and few lower than $5k. What wonderful times!

Saw what I thought was a reasonably priced new 2022 Genesis G70. Took a closer look and the sticker was asking $7000 over MSRP. Well nevermind.

Understandable! I was “of age” for nostalgia of this movie, but I guess I largely ignored it at the time. The only thing I really remembered was Daniel hitting the wood and his hands being bloody.

Um, it’s a horrible movie. Taste is subjective, but really, it’s awful. The acting is horrible, the tertiary actors are horrible. It’s incredibly hackneyed and oh so 80s — Silver couldn’t be more of a stereotypical bad guy — he dumps dangerous waste for a living, the slicked back hair, the lame...

Watched the third movie last week. I haven’t seen it since it was probably new. What a turd.

This is very much a thing in the Bay Area. Less about fancy vs. not fancy, but more about potential pain in the ass travel times over short distances. Like living anywhere but SF and matching with SF women — nope, ain’t no pussy good enough to bring me over the bridge with any regularity. I’d...

That machete is also garbage. As someone who has cut miles through dense forests with a machete. It’s not nearly long enough. We used to use these exclusively: https://www.allenprecision.com/24-martindale-machete Comes unsharpened, so you grab a file and spend 20-30 minutes getting it into...

I texted the aforementioned lady on this past Sunday afternoon and asked what she wanted to do on Monday since I knew it was her day off. She texted me and said her ex was unavailable to take the kid that day, so would you like to meet me with him? (He’s three.) The exact text she used was “do...