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That, in and of itself, is not a problem. The context is the problem. For Olebass, he has very little to lose, barring his girl going psycho. Chaos and others with families? They have more to consider. Furthermore, why shouldn't the cause of the loss of libido be considered? Should you...

Mkopec: So, you had a problem, talked about it rationally and worked it out? How does prove what I said is bullshit? How is "owed" and "integral" not the same thing in this context? You're just passing the buck to the "relationship" instead of yourself. Why is it not possible to have a...

I'm making the assumption that you guys don't like thankless, unenthusiastic sex. Because that's exactly what the wife of balloon dick is going to get, unless that guy is one hell of an actor. I know when something is off with my wife, and it's REALLY obvious during sex. You guys say you want...

Understanding the other side of the argument is not the same as devil's advocate. Also, edited my response above. Cad: inadvertently answered your question in my edit.

Julian: Your example is a bit off. How about if you were castrated? Tarrant: Sex, being intimate, making love, whatever the fuck ever, don't play semantics. If she doesn't want to hoover your dick, chances are likely she doesn't want to strip tease or put on that cute outfit either. You...

Just curious, would you ask a paraplegic to play soccer? Would you think it ok to talk to a paraplegic about their inability to play soccer isn't meeting your needs to play soccer? I get the lack of intimacy can be problematic, regardless of cause. But if she's doing everything she can, you...

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Besides there being a huge emotional difference between having sex and watching Rocky Horror Picture Show, I don't make my wife do your latter examples either. What's the point? Find something you both like to watch or go do something else. Go to the store yourself unless you need her...

Do you enjoy fucking women that you know aren't themselves enjoying it?

I think you can get it in whimseyshire rift maps too. I got the horadric hamburger in a whimsey rift.

Wouldn't that be worse for sous vide? You're lowering the amount of thermal energy in the water.

Why?

You think chaos' wife chose to have anxiety and panic attacks? Yes, they should definitely be able to talk about it. This likely started out better and got worse as nothing was solved(because it can't be without some ugly consequences). It's a 2+ year old sore subject, of course bringing it...

Oh, of course, I'm great at ignoring my wife's needs and wants. Which is kind of the point, people get lost in what's just around them and forget what started this. That's why I'm asking for the back story. It might even be helpful for chaos to dredge some of this up for himself. But all...

The thread's been moving fast, I might have missed where chaos said that. Keep in mind, both parties might be embittered to the point where they have forgotten what started this. I find it really hard to believe someone you married and had 3 kids with has suddenly gone cold and uncaring to...

Has she realized your want to have sex, regardless of whether or not she can fulfill that? Because, at this point, that's all you can expect of her. Unless you suspect the anxiety problem is partially bullshit.

Bring me back some 36 month balut, we'll make coq-au-vin.

That's some infraction-worthy shit.

Coefficients on int classes aren't that great anyway. It's a lightning barb/monk weapon, that's it.

How is a day trip to the beach moving too fast? Are you Mormon?

What's your gym dues? You could pay a hooker to talk to for what I've seen some crossfit gyms quoted.

Red beans and rice?

It takes a little while, but any reasonable person should get over it eventually. I can now ask my wife if she's going to the gym with impunity.

Invite her to the gym with you(you don't go already?). But good luck on the other part. You readily admit it's body related, which is fine for you to want, but I have no idea how your wife will react to you saying that. Most will act insulted.

Talk about a marginal super power.

Odd, I've almost never had compensation discussed during the phone screening. That's usually discussed during the in-person interview. Or the company just assumes "we're going to pay you this much!" and I tell them to fuck off.

Yeah, it's the reaction when she grabs your crotch that's the dangerous part.

Well, that's just dangerous.

Well, the family part makes sense. Hasn't it been proven that you will not find people in your immediate family attractive, even if they match what you typically find attractive? Why would someone want to talk sex with those kinds of ingrained psychological blocks naturally in place...

Doesn't sex release oxytocin? Sex and love do go hand in hand!

You really think she doesn't give a shit about this? She is THAT ignorant to completely miss why her husband wants to fuck? They are likely past the compassionate stage, neither budged, and now both of them are grumpy about it. Repeated attempts to talk do nothing because the problem...

I don't think we've fully established the source of the problem. If it's medical, which Chaos' initial post implies, does that change the nature of the problem and how she should react to it? If she's still ignoring that her husband wants sex, that's a totally different problem. That's...

No, you're being too vague. I want specific examples what Chaos' wife could be reasonably expected to do to fix this problem.

Active effort would be what?

She changed, as in she made a most likely unconscious decision to not like sex anymore? Or she has a medical condition that killed her sex drive?

Talk about it all you want, but what's the end game here? I don't see the point of worrying over things you can't change.

I was hoping my tags would catch on.

Chaos, I don't understand the despair. Well, I mean, I do understand you being bummed about not being able to fuck you wife, but why is the situation overall bumming you out? This was not a conscious choice by your wife. Something has changed that was out of your/her control, accept it and...

I haven't had to monitor background battery usage since getting my Nexus 5. It replaced a gnex, so 4.2 -> 4.4. I rooted them just in case, but I haven't had to install BetterBatteryStats yet. 4+ days on one charge is my best so far.

Maybe up through T4.