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To simp a bit, the little I caught she was not blaming me for anything, she felt bad for me for having to support her and such. But also mentioned she felt stuck now due to that, and yea she can't buy anything now as her money will mostly cover food and phone bills. Not sure why she thinks it...

Looking at the signs for depression she pretty much ticks all of them. As mentioned earlier I have never really associated with people with mental issues as my family has been spared from that stuff. And as such I don't really know how to help. I might as well have making it worse without...

Yea I have slowly accepted that her moving out is the best for both of us. Does not make me less sad though. I know I'll be fine living here alone, I did it for 34 years before with no issues, but I'm bad at changes. Once it's over it will be fine. But until she has left it will feel tough.

I guess it's kinda normal to want things to stay the same, even if it's not that good. But we will see when she talks to me again, I'm not wasting energy on her trying to cross examine her. Best thing would be I come home from work monday and she's gone, just the cats left and all my stuff...

I'm not really sure what's the diagnosis is atm. She got burned out during a summer working due to high load before the pandemic. Then got diagnosed with adhd and haven't been back to work since then. I guess burnout and depression or something. The glorious health are system isn't working all...

No she is employed but on sick leave for 2 years. There's no shortage for nurses here but she just can't get back to the job and blames the house as mentioned earlier...

Yea maybe she can go that route when single... I'll say this. She did 3 years getting educated as a nurse. I saw a good future in front of us back then. The her mental health took a beating and it's just been "maybe next month" and then 2 years have passed with zero improvement then she drops...

No I'm just stupid I guess. And she is a nurse and I was hoping against the odds she would be back to work and not be like AL Bundys wife.

And to add, if you live alone you get keep more than when sharing a home... so if that's a reason to leave so she gets more money each month then I don't even want to think about it anymore. But bitches be crazy.

Yea pretty much. She did have debts when we met but when we got the house we got some help collecting them into a better loan for her. During 7 or so years it seems the debt have slowly grown until recently when she did not have enough to pay the bills and they went to the collector. Bad loans...

And to be frank if she had said that I'm to blame and she now hates me that would have been fine, but the reason she gave is just that she need to start over with zero money and zero income for 5 years due to her fucked up debts. The state will take like 90% of her earnings for 5 years and she...

Well I'm kinda upset about the whole thing. But I can't force someone to stay if that's the choice she wants. The dogs dindu nuffing though.

Thanks for the input guys. Listing stuff in a post does put issues into text and is easier to reflect over. Most of the stuff mentioned slowly came into being over a few years and I did not really see all the "problems" really until now. I'm kinda a loner by choice so I don't speak about...

The economic part is fairly recent but yea I don't disagree with you all. The little she opened up today the explanation was she felt bad that I had to support her etc. But yea I see what you all are saying. The thing that really made me come terms with it all was that she said she felt trapped...

Yea I'm from Sweden and probably use the wrong terms sometimes. It's been known from the start that she does not share her problems with those closest to her. Her online friends probably knows of issues before me or even her mother. I'm probably doing badly by not asking the right questions...

Might as well air my new found issues in this place. While not married I am engaged and have been for 2 years. Found out today by reading a messege to her mother on her computer that she wants to move out etc. While the last year has not been the greatest I still enjoy coming home from work and...

The set armor looks kinda neat in the concept pictures but then in game it's clown armor.

Yea that was the single reason I set ut up. Wanted to see how my damage held up on my dps jobs.

Farming Syrcus Tower for resistance weapon and even with a fever and hardly knowing what I'm doing this is the result. Now I understand that you don't need your brain on and mega dps for alliance raids but why not try a little... The low 5 people are a healer and red mages and black mages...

I had more trouble with samurai due to the kenki spending vs the big nuke. And having to time up the cool downs. But then again I'm just a noob doing normals and maybe an extreme or two. I have no grand plans on savage raiding so will play what fits me the best, which seems to change weekly. :o

Yea the only complaint i have is I wish it changed Raiton to be the big nuke when using Kassatsu. Usually the part I mess up on in the rotation.

My Ninja is 80 now and it's a really enjoyable Job to play. Not sure why it feels so fun. I always top dmg meters now in dungeons and even in raids and I don't play it 100% by any means. I guess I really like the range/melee aspect of it and also the extra movement speed and teleports makes it...

Started the ninja Zodiac weapon and burned out before I even completed the first book. Think it will be a mega slow burn to complete it. The final daggers look cool though. Not finding many easy to obtain nice looking daggers.

Why do you guys keep taking time off for releases, has that ever worked out? Was looking forward to play it but two weeks is nothing. Also the Blizzard timewalking shit, who in their right mind go back to blizzard old content instead of a new expansion release? That just sounds stupid... But...

Saw this pop up today on reddit...

I hate this game, enjoyed the BLM a lot this weekend when farming some glamours. Then now that I boosted Ninja that is my favourite job all of a sudden.... Back to square one on what to level first at Endwalker release...

Boosted my Ninja and did a trial (Susano). Topped the dmg meters on my first run, I did practice a bit on a dummy but the mudras kinda clicked after a bit. I still mess up quite a alot but it's a fun job allthough a bit harder then others I guess.

I still don't know how retainers work... I know one reason are for selling but what do you actually make money selling on the MB? Then the other stuff they do I have no idea.

Checked the mog store and it seems theres a sale. Boosts are half price. Might just buy one or two. If theres one bad thing about the game it's the leveling from 1-80 on an alt job.

Installed ACT for the first time in years to check my BLM damage. Old as I am it seems I hit the correct buttons and my dps in the 80 dungeons was me doing 34% of the dmg and the other dps 27%. Then I healed a lvl 70 trial and I saw that some people are really really bad at the game. The BLM in...

Our Norwegian Forrest cat had some issues during the summer with his eye. But after lots of money spent and many visits to the vet they fixed him up in the end. Just glad it wasn't a birth defect that needed operation, seems he got an infection that needed some stitches to keep the eye open...

I haven't watched any of the fantasy series that went to tv, but why do they feel like they need to diverge from the soruce material and make a totally new story? I think both Shannara and the Sword of Truth had nothing to do with the books after a few episodes. I have no hype for this show but...

That was what made me stop playing the game back in Legion. I usally sub at the start of an expansion then I lose interest and usally come back at the end. But trying to do the story line in that fashion makes it feel super disjointed and I end up having no clue wtf has happened and usally found...

Played some on my Black Mage yesterday when farming Hells Lid. It's great dps for sure but damn the sub 80 experience sucks. It seems that's fixed with Endwalker. Seems that the trait for switching between stances is moved to lvl 1. Haven't really checked the changes from media tour a lot but...

I havent found the Dalradia up as of yet, granted I don't spend much time in Zadnor. It feels like everytime I see it is up its in progress. How hard is it compared to the Delubrum?

Is spamming the 70 dungeons the best for Raw Emotions for the last step on the resistance weapon? Can't be bothered to farm the Delubrum anymore. The 5 runs today for Timesworn Artifacts was epic slow every time.

Got the Paladin anima done today. And thats the last one for sure. I mean it this time, the poetic farm is awful. But to me the Paladin and Dark Knight Lux weapons are some of the nicest weapons in the game. Will continue to get my Black Mage the resistance weapon, 5 alliance raids to go for...

Lol if true. More corrupted story lines...

Current jobs, just finished Warrior to 80. I try to level while I farm poetics for the Anima relic. Might do Machinist next.