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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    i got my last gf with a variation of that opener, and a few more girls, too. it"s pure gold. but haven"t used it in a while because at some point i felt like i shouldn"t overuse it in order to avoid awkward situations. :P
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    just avoid the interview conversation. if you"re asked what you"re doing for a living, tell them you are a whale hunter, a shaman, or whatever. those are boring topics to talk about when you have just meet. try to have a fun conversation.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    i"d recommend practicing eye contact and smiling. that surely won"t ever get you into any trouble. and if she smiles back you already got a reason to say hi. at some point you will just know by their reaction if they want to talk to you or avoid you.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    i"m not a fan of "saying hi to everyone", i might be almost guaranteed success, but it also makes you look like an idiot.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    well, often when i feel like something is wrong and i ask her about it, she won"t respond or say it"s nothing. in that case i feel it"s better to not push her for answers. i also avoid going into pussy diagnosis mode and come to false conclusions unless it"s something obvious to me. don"t let...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    you should spend less time thinking about what"s wrong with your relationship and spend more time on stuff that is generally healthy for relationships
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    or you get yourself a dog who loves doorbells, hiding your shoes in the garden, and being spoiled rotten by food falling of the dinner table
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    well, the alphazz guide usually tells people not to go into pussy diagnosis mode ever :P
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    what are you afraid of? don"t you think you will be able to find a smarter, healthier, more loveable, more responsible, more beautiful girl than her? based on what you said that shouldn"t be that hard. you won"t regret it. remove her from her life, start over new with someone else and try to...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    thats just not true, a woman will only chase a man for so long until she eventually gives up and targets other alpha males. from the male perspective: even if you"re the hot shit alpha male and every woman is naturally attracted to you, there is a window of opportunity where you have to make...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    it"s not like you can"t get out of the friend zone. it actually happens quite often. you just can"t tell her your feelings out out of nowhere. instead, you will have to start acting more sexual, tease her some more, etc. until she slowly changes the way she thinks about you and considers you a...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    just try to stay away from her from now, don"t try to think about her. don"t try to keep up to date on what shes doing, don"t visit her facebook page etc. keep yourself busy, get stuff done that you need to do, go out alot, meet friends and other girls
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    STFU, there are far better girls out there than your pos of a gf. i suggest getting a new one.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    only if you filter out all the bad advice first
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    post pics and let us decide!
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    the only reason i can see why you"d want to pay is to play the alpha male role. if you"re paying without her knowing about it i don"t see the point of it at all.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    while this may get you laid, i would consider this bad advice if you"re looking for a relationship. you may fake confidence on your approach, but she will eventually see through it and lose attraction after some time. instead you should work on your confidence, figure out whats causing the lack...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    if you are having such a hard time approaching women, i recommend listening tothe original "toolbox" episodesof the pickup podcast (on approach anxiety, openings, body language, banter, storytelling etc.). it will help you to look at approaching women from a different angle and may even provide...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    you are not completely wrong - i just think your suggestion isn"t the best response in this case, at all. when a women shit tests you, you don"t have to man up and "be a dick" to show her you"re the boss. you need to be calm and in control of every situation she puts you in. if you"re being an...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    while this statement is very true, i don"t see why one would have to be an asshole about being punctual.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    the problem is there are so many "mr nice guys" who are being nice simply because theiy fail at life > have very low self esteem > have too much respect for women > act nice. then they realize women may also be nice towards them in return, but are not attracted to them. they become frustrated...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    there is absolutely nothing wrong with being nice, and women do appreciate it. but the key to finding and keeping a girl is not about how you treat her, but mostly about how you treat yourself. do you have any goals in life and what are you doing to achieve them? how are you dealing with...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    cut yourself in front of her, so she realized how retarded that is.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    women, unlike men, are alot more attracted to confidence than looks. it doesn"t matter if you"re being nice or being a dick, just try to act like an alpha male. you lose the moment you show weakness and insecurity
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    actually, i think if you are wrecking different girls every weekend you may want to be worried about stds a little more yourself now, if you want to get with a girl who is in a relationship, best advice i can give is to kind of ignore the fact that she"s taken. just try to treat her like...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    nothing against sending a package, but be aware that she has to deserve it. if she gets stuff without doing anything to deserve it, she"s going to lose interest. i woud advice against sending a second package without even getting a response from the first.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    i hear makeup sex is great
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    im not a fan of the mystery method, but peacocking works very well. now theres no way i would run around like mystery. but carrying around some funny accesories of some kind gets you some good attention. i"ve went to parties wearing 3d glasses, or carrying an ukulele, a funny hat, stuff like...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    i would probably just ask the saleswomen which flowers would be appropriate and pick from those.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    women with tripods in their bedroom... says alot thanks for sharing!
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    so far it seems to work pretty well, one of the girls said shes bad at making compliments, and i suggested that she could practice on me if she wanted to. now i"m getting alot of compliments. if you think the second msg is too harsh, you could also say something like "hey, me too. don"t you...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    another opener idea for online game. the translation probably sucks, forgive me, you may want to rephrase it -"hey, are you confident and open enough for a honest compliment?" -they, curious what it could be: "sure am!" -"thats great, so am i! you wanna go first?"
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    i find that people on myspace etc are nowadays less open to new people than a couple years ago. i used to message new people on a daily basis back then, nowadays noone does that anymore, and i"m also getting alot less responses. it is pretty much dead too and theres only like a handfull active...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    they don"t even need to play video games themselves, every girl has more than enough guy friends who do :P
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    don"t be afraid of posting pics with a girl. it actually makes you more desireable. a girl will think, hey, seems like other girls like him, so he must be one of the good guys out there.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    well, i would agree that it only gets a few responses, but these few are mostly very promising. i do agree tho that you probably get better results if you"re putting in a little more effort and come up with something more creative matching their profiles.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    mystery method and display of higher value i believe
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    i don"t know what you are like in real life. but so far in this thread i don"t remember any posts from you where you didn"t complain about your looks. if you"re saying you"re good at interacting with women irl, then you should do that. you"ll have get a much better chance at impressing a women...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    i"m not saying they don"t. but if you don"t have the looks, you can"t expect decent women to walk up to you out of nowhere. you"ll have to go out and meet them. a positive bodylanguage, eye contact and smiles will do wonders when approaching women.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    wrong. women don"t think like men do. they"re more than willing to overlook appearances if you come off as a nice, confident, smart, entertaining guy. i think your negative mindset is your real problem.