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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Honestly, the only time I think about it for the most part is when I post about it here. I get bored at work since I pretty much live here thus, I post on forums, this being one of those sports, I could very well talk about other things more then this on here, yet as soon as I navigate away from...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    While online looking up some comedy clubs here in the cities she messaged me on yahoo and asked what I had found out. We decided to hit Tiger Sushi at the MoA and then the comedy club there. I gave her the options of that or Acme which si up in the warehouse district, an area neither of us knows...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Got home a little bit ago and decided to call her, she seemed really happy I called. We talked for awhile about various things, I seem to make her laugh a shit ton, so that seems like a good sign. We talked about what we would like to do this weekend, seems like we"re getting Sushi and a...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    hahaha, come on, "Eomer"ing it up" was classic.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    LoL, get said pics and post away.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    if you have said pictures, please by all means post them so we may judge if she looks good for a 45 year old or not. Unless she obviously doesn"t....then forget I said anything.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I work 6 days a week, at least 10-12 hours a day, my schedule isn"t hard to figure out once you"ve known me for a few weeks. Hell even when the hairdresser texted me last night her first text was "only 3 hours to go and you"re free from work!" and I"ve only been talking to her for what...12...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I feel you as far as the woman knowing your schedule and life enough to know you don"t have anything else going on. Recent Ex was that way, and still is to an extent, she didn"t bank on me moving on though so when I said I had plans it go to the point where I actually really did have plans...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    See I think I"ve kinda come across a different "I dont care" attitude and that"s, "I"ve nothing to really lose here, I never expected it to get this far" attitude. Should she pack up her shit and go it"s fine, I expected it at some point. Don"t mistake this for lack of self confidence, my...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So as long as she is contacting me first, I don"t contact her first is that the idea?
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah I"m pretty much of the attitude now that I"m going to let her come to me throughout the week. I think Sunday I"m going to have to go into it with zero expectations or else I"m going to psych myself out. It"s funny you mentioned the reading thing, I used that exact damn line about 10...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I was right, she just started texting me...which is nice since working is going by so slow I want to poke my eyes out with a pencil.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    He has to much brown?
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"d like to think I"m outside my old circle at this point thank you very much. Brad has come a long way, as long as he doesn"t think with his dick in this I think it could turn out okay, mind you it"s a big if...but I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, I think he"s come a long way...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Holy shit Brad kissed someone on his own accord. And Tenks...fucked up side would suck...crazy side would be awesome.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    yeah the more I like them the harder it is to not call. The only girl I"ve had problems with not calling or texting was my recent ex. The moment I forced myself (and it was really fucking hard) to not talk to her until she talked to me resulted in 3 weeks of silence between us with her finally...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah if current trends hold out I expect something from her tonight or tomorrow, by the chance she doesn"t I"ll hit her up Wed like you said.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    yea another reason why i"m not going to text her.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I kinda agree with Tenks, but we all know he"s going to do it so like I said, my advice would be just be careful man. I"m thinking of shooting the girl who canceled on me a text to see how she"s feeling, but I did that yesterday...I"m thinking I"ll let the next batch of communications be...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Has potential to blow the fuck up in your face Brad, but you"ve come a long way since a year ago. Just take it easy with her, I"m more so worried about her then you at this point, she"s 19, that has all kinda of possible disaster written all over it depending on where she is at in her maturity...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Lets hope, I"ve never done anything like that before. Yesterday I texted her, asked how she was feeling, she said not so hot, we texted for a bit then she asked if I had any IM"s, I gave her my yahoo and chatted with her for a few on there, told her I had to go. (girl was coming over)...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Don"t get me wrong, my ultimate goal is to be in a committed relationship, I"m not huge on the casual dating thing either. But it has taught me a lot of things I hadn"t known before going into it that have and will continue to benefit me in the future. I"m going to give it a bit longer with the...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So my date with the hair girl got canceled last night, she was sick, she dropped me a text around 1pm saying she woke up not feeling well and asked if we could reschedule. I surprised myself by responding back, "I usually don"t reschedule canceled first dates, I don"t tolerate being ditched."...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This gem right here is the one that keeps me lol"ing
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    LoL she does have a temper on her and shes stubborn as hell. I"m not sure if I want to chalk this up to her trying to gain control over the situation, since I was the one that had it or what. Either way I"m not canceling my Sunday plans with Nicole (name of the nodrama ex)
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Rofl Alcestis that"s awesome. And an update, my friend called me a little bit ago this is how the convo went. Her-"Hey you sent me a text to call you?" Me- "I did?" Her-"Uh yeah. Me-"Umm..I think I did last night after you left maybe? I for sure didn"t today." Her-"Well I"m...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yes because Lord knows seeing her about once a week is me making time for her..and her saying she could to me and come over to watch football, knowing Its my one day off, again, that"s me making time for her. LoL, you kids crack me up.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Because Lord knows two people never have such conflicting schedules that things can"t work because of it and end things on a civil and friendly note because of it? Lord knows that in order to end something one of the two parties needs to go bat shit insane first amirite? And we"re just going...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Hey buddy, read the thread, the only ex I"m "seeing" is one where we both decided things couldn"t work at the time due to schedule conflicts, there was zero drama to it, we both made the mutual decision to part ways and if we had time for something later and we crossed paths again we would see...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I think she was fine with it, it"s just I think she misunderstood the reasoning for it maybe? I dunno, she"s again, pretty hard to get a firm grasp of for reading. I think she had a thing for me while I was with my recent ex, she mentioned something about it while drunk one night, but I took it...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Last nights experience has me down a bit, her and I actually kinda got into it this morning...I"m thinking it"s going to be a bit before we talk again. We"re both stubborn people so it"ll be a bit. Basically she was upset because she took my interest now as "Well I"m not with anyone else, I may...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Mission accomplished, made the move. Objective failed, things got awkward and she left. I didn"t try to call after she left, gonna let her get a hold of me on her own which I"m sure she will eventually.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Also I laugh when people say they aren"t the jealous type. Everyone is the jealous type, some people just have better self control then others.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    LoL if it"s an issue then hit it/quit it and move on to something more promising. You said you want something long term, issues with a person before you are even with a person usually means it"s probably not a good idea, double so for issues that cant be changed like age.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That was kind of my thought too and I"m not afraid of rejection anymore, which I"ve found is the until confidence booster...if rejection doesn"t bother you, what"s there to be scared about? I am nervous however of making things weird if she by chance isn"t interested. As far as the younger...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    K, well my options keep getting further and further opened, I have one serious option with two or three lesser minor options...(as far as women I"d actually at this point want to pursue) until possibly today. Enter 4th option with the potential to be a second serious option. I mentioned...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Just keep in mind it"s her loss and keep on movin forward.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This. Stop being a dick, it"s her place too and it"s not unreasonable for her to want to go to sleep without you in the room hindering that while on the computer. Compromise with her and move it out to the living room. It"s not hard.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Rofl...don"t let that part slip if she accepts. And I dunno I could be wrong, it happens pretty often...I"m new to a lot of this shit too after all but I think you did well. You can"t do shit perfectly right off the bat and you"re pretty much starting out after a pretty big life reset as...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    If her boss was there, accepting a date invite at the office in front of them isn"t always a great idea. Also if someone popped last minute plans on me like that too I"d have to take a bit to make sure I didn"t have other shit going on that I already planned and was forgetting about. But then...