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I edited while you were typing that to elaborate more and answer your question.

I have no hookups on deck, and don't even have plans to pursue any. It's a freedom thing. It's hard to explain but I feel like I will function better as a partner in circumstances where I don't feel like I am being forced to meet certain expectations. I'm a very stubborn person who doesn't like...

Well, I suppose I should get used to people thinking I'm selfish because I want something they deem as inappropriate or uncouth. And I'm sure I'm going to get a lot of that. By the way, technically speaking monogamy is more akin to keeping a "bangmaid" than an open relationship is. You kinda...

That's a little over the top.

EDIT: Nevermind I think I figured it out, the water dripping out is warm/hot and when I squeeze the hot water handle a bit more it slows the drop a bit. So I think it's the washer/rubber seals in the hot water handle doo hicky.

I agree with you.

I have never had a deep fried turkey, though I want it.

Not all doctors work those hours either. Emergency room doctors have it the worst from what I understand. But general practitioners (primary care) seem to have it pretty good (though not their PAs). I'm basing that entirely off of the woes of a PA I used to date and the fact that half the time I...

Haha, do you mean the turkey of milks?

On the topic of the power of divorce. What is the law because I know men who got screwed in divorce who had no kids/had kids that were over 18. In your case, did she make close to the same income as you? What were the circumstances? EDIT: What tenks said Also, you admitted it was...

Racist water

It is. A massive one. And I see what you did there.

I wasn't saying I'd automatically get fucked over, I was saying there's a chance, any chance at all is something I'm not OK with. Aside from that the fact that it requires legal intervention at all to dissolve is just ridiculous to me.

I thought Clerks was a terrible movie so I remember none of the dialogue

I've already thought about that, in depth. As long as she's safe I don't really care.

So I'm cool again right?

Well I certainly don't want to be the guy who cheats

I also really don't have any experience with what I am talking about. It's all just an idea in my head. I have a plan, but that doesn't mean I'll be able to execute. I could end up wallowing in the misery of my own decisions. Deathwing, I can't see that video at work. I'm assuming it's from...

I think you guys are thinking of it as a one way street, where I'd be like a king among mormons. 10 wives for me, but none of those wives are able to sleep with anyone other than me. I will have multiple outlets to vent, and so will she. It's a group effort! Community healing!

I think I may have misrepresented myself. I understand that any relationship requires a certain amount of selflessness. But I am not interested in traditional marriage either way, monogamous or open. Just not interested in it. For me it's an antiquated contract that puts me at a disadvantage. I...

Goddamnit...

Is that the bangbus? Bus #37?

I just think we put too much emphasis on sex and what it means. I don't want to base someone's "value" to me or to the world on who they've slept with or when anymore.

You're an interesting fellow Brutul.

You must sacrifice your own wants for the good of the person you are with. It's not as dire as that sounds, but you do have to give up things and make sacrifices to your autonomy for monogamy to work. I doubt anyone would argue that. I'm not saying open relationships magically fix all these...

This presumes that human nature indicates monogamy is "natural" and "instinctive". Whereas most evidence points to the contrary.

This all precipitated from feeling like I was fighting something the last few years of my life. Because I couldn't stay interested in any one woman for more than a month at a time something was wrong with me. Wondering why I couldn't accept that the last two serious relationships I was in had...

I have no fear of intimacy. I am one of the most deeply romantic people you'll ever meet. You, on the other hand, are one of the most simple people I've ever had the pleasure of listening to lecture from a soap box of stupidity. Lindz, read the book Sex at Dawn. It can answer most any...

Unused zone space added to the mystery of the world. It was true in EQ and was true in Vanilla WoW as well. "Hey, what the fuck do you think is north of EPL? Oh shit, where does this green raid portal lead to in Winterspring? What do you think Hyjal looks like? Where does this walled off area...

So Sunday night I talked to the girlfriend about having an open relationship. Used to "think" (aka lie to myself out of shame and remorse over what I thought was expected of me) that I was meant to be monogamous but realized after a lot of self reflection and "failed" relationships that I just...

You've only been here since July. Give it time.

Joe Dirt was comedy gold. Mostly because I thought it would be horrendous when I was forced to sit through it, and it turned out to actually be funny.

I actually thought I had accidentally skipped an episode of Akame when I first turned it on. Then I realized I hadn't and wondered wtf had happened. I even went back and watched the last 5 minutes of the previous episode to see if I had missed something.

That's right, you better not look away.

Shut up and take what's coming to you

Why is it OK for women to stare-rape me? Happens all the time bros.

I prefer salary because I work probably 35 hours a week but get paid for 40. Salary can work both ways. Though it often ends up as working extra time rather than less time if your company are slave drivers or you just aren't nearly as efficient as you should be.

What? You use the word "god" to make it seem like you think it's amazing, followed by the word "smegma" which makes it seem like you think it's horrifying. Which is it?

Yea but they're getting paid to bitch and moan. Not like these stupid women. No wonder there's a gender salary gap. Bitches be stupid.

I bet every other person at that office thinks she's the stupid one. In fact, everyone probably thinks the entirety of the office outside of themselves has severe learning disabilities.