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Oh trust me, I'm no novice when it comes to this. I fingered and massaged her first, and she climaxed during that even though there was no vaginal penetration, just stimulating the clit. I have water based lube (because there are no allergy issues with it to worry about) but I wasn't going to...

I will not go gentle into that good night!

So what's the appropriate time frame before anal comes into the picture for a woman to still be considered wife material? Why must a woman quell her sexual fervor to be considered marriageable? I ask because the girl from Jersey let me put my fingers up there the first night, and we tried to...

So I understand you want her to initiate but don't you think you're being a bit immature by refusing to initiate yourself? You want sex to be a two way thing (as it should be) yet you're completely removing yourself from the initiation equation. The best way to get a woman to initiate sex is to...

Sounds like Seananigans doesn't understand that homophobes DO have a crippling fear of gays. They are so afraid of the idea of homosexuality they go to crazy extremes to avoid them and get aggressive and violent as a way to pre-empt getting fucked in the ass when they are near a gay man, because...

Mmmm... baby. I love recommending that place for first dates and waiting for a response. But it's called Plan B because it's a beer, bourbon and burger bar. And it's awesome. Xarp... how could you even taste the burger with all that other bullshit on it? Peanuts? Strong flavor. Pineappe...

The Counter is a chain. They had one in West Hartford which went out of business because it wasn't very good. We have a place in CT (and now they are in MA too) called Plan B which is way better than The Counter. But maybe the one in NYC is better.

I won't be driving. I'll take the train into Grand Central, we'll meet there and hang out. Then we can hop in her car or take the PATH back and hop in a cab. Unless I leave at off times (like 4 AM on a Saturday morning). And the sex is phenomenal. And not in a "holy shit she's a pornstar"...

The strain that causes warts is a pretty big deal... And hasn't it been linked to ovarian cancer?

To be fair that number was very front-loaded during the first year after my breakup. Was just trying to dull the pain by having as much random, casual sex as I could.

Haha shit... Freudian slip? Don't care won't edit.

Well it feels like we can't take it too fast even if we tried since we love so far away from each other. So we can be honest and open without having to worry about that whole "too much of each other too soon" dynamic. We can't see each other this weekend so it will be two weeks until we meet up...

I'm 31, turn 32 next month. She's 30, turns 31 this weekend.

I don't "move" in relationships. If I feel a strong connection I let myself go, if I don't I move on. Over the past 3 years since my last relationship I've gone out with... probably between 60 and 80 women. I've slept with about 35 of them. I felt no connection to any of them outside of about...

She is actually into those things. I never mentioned how much I loved wings, when I was in NYC she was like "Man I love sushi but there is this amazing wing place we should probably go to some time, I love wings". The music she is definitely into, we have similar tastes but basically the entire...

Well, honestly the real question I am asking myself is if I should see where it goes and let it happen naturally, or if I should have a conversation with her about seeing each other as often as we can, but also not tying ourselves into a long distance relationship (i.e. still seeing other...

It's good advice. And I would totally do it if it weren't for the fact that I'm single and it has gotten me laid and helped me meet a lot of very interesting people. I mean... if I didn't smoke her and I most likely would have never even spoken to each other.

Blocks of text incoming. Two weekends ago I was at a 3 day beer festival at Ommegang Brewery. I was smoking a cigarette and a woman who was volunteering that night asked to buy one off me. She had a Belgian sour bomber she was supposed to be bringing inside to the tent to serve and I said "If...

I got news for you, women aren't the only ones who can't stand "nice guys". Real men fuckin' hate you too. You aren't a nice guy, you're a doormat with no personality and no backbone.

Even disregarding the sexual and romantic trade-offs by doing this what about career, friendship and individuality trade-offs? I am fairly certain I wouldn't be in the position in life I am now had I gotten married at 19. Actually I'm 100% certain since I just up and moved at 24 to follow a...

You're one of the lucky ones dude. Remember that.

Do you spend a lot of time thinking about and researching this shit? Does it drive your interaction with women? Seems really unhealthy.

I just realized your avatar is Faith No More's King for a Day, Fool for a Lifetime. I'd date you if I was gay mkopec.

That's really what it is. Men strive for greatness, women strive for mediocrity. Rejection is a far greater blow for women than for men according to that data in my eyes. You know what the funny thing about that is? Desires align. Women go for men they feel are less attractive than them, men...

No it isn't. Online dating isn't some cesspool of unattractive, desperate people.

The only messages I ever get from women who initiate contact with me are at best one sentence. And even worse at least 50% of them just say "Hi"

The blog post The Master is referring to is far more in depth than just that figure. They postulated a bunch about the cause/effect of that data and it was pretty interesting reading. If 80% of men are "below average" it means women don't understand what the word "average" means and live in a...

We got a beta up in here gentleman.

The only time I watch this show anymore is during their Punkin Chunkin special on Thanksgiving. And only to see if I'll be on TV.

This show is pretty good. That's all I have to say about that.

It's funny just how true this is. I've had message interaction with many women who obviously never even read my profile, just responded after I sent them a message and they checked out my pictures. It's always fun going on first dates and talking about things as part of a normal conversation...

Himeo man... you gotta get that chip on your shoulder regarding women taken care of. You shouldn't need a study to tell you women aren't inherently attracted to "nice" men. It has nothing to do with women wanting a man who is an asshole and treats them like dirt and everything to do with a...

"Too serious a fling" is an interesting concept. That's just a defense mechanism to make it sound like she would have been OK with it under different circumstances. She would have melted down either way. She was fooling herself because she thought he wouldn't be able to find anyone. To be honest...

That's because most people can't disconnect themselves from their own selfish desires. It's fine if they have the upper hand (and that's exactly how it's perceived by those people) and a terrible shock to the system when they realize they weren't as special as they thought they were.

I bet you felt pretty good about it while it was happening.

Well I don't think anyone will argue that. But in the midnight hour, in the heat of passion and alcohol fueled vigor, good sense is asleep at the wheel.

Have you ever had a long stint of condomless sex on the regular? It's hard to start using those little fuckers again once you've stopped.

Eh, just wear a rubber and/or fuck them in the ass. Or if you're really that worried about it don't be promiscuous. I used to be really fucking stupid about that kind of thing. I would raw dog every girl I slept with every time. Then I woke up one morning with dark blotches all over my head...

How can you "easily get" that shit when wearing condoms? Sure they aren't 100% but... easily?

IUD's come with risks the same as Vasectomies. I've heard some absolute horror stories about those. Including an ex-gf of mine's sister almost dying as it fused to her cervix or some crazy shit.