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  1. lindz

    Parent Thread

    That's what we're doing now. We got the school district and the police involved. They now have someone observing the boy - within earshot of him - all the time and he's in an anti-bullying program. Principal is giving me regular updates. My daughter has a journal at school so she can write down...
  2. lindz

    Parent Thread

    Well, spoke with the principal. she blew it off. Told me that the kids were just "jockying to get the chair" yesterday. I said I could understand that if it had been an isolated incident but given that we have three other episodes of verbal and physical assault, I needed her to take it...
  3. lindz

    Parent Thread

    Jesus christ, principals are incompetent. We're having bullying issues with our 10 year old daughter. A few weeks ago a boy pushed her up against the wall in PE and choked her. She told her teacher and the principal (and us), they said it would be dealt with. A couple days later she's playing...
  4. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Nah, dps. He's a rogue at heart. Priest was my main for like 5 years though.
  5. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    And clearly this is why I tank.
  6. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm picturing you walking into your neighbor's houses and asking them to feed you now.
  7. lindz

    World of Warcraft: Current Year

    Maybe! But apparently everyone is now a warlock. Oops!
  8. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Picking restaurants is all kinds of hard.
  9. lindz

    World of Warcraft: Current Year

    What is this time forged vendor you speak of? I need to pay him a visit.
  10. lindz

    World of Warcraft: Current Year

    Level 100 to 110 and 870 gear score in 2 days. Dang. When I quit last fall, 870 was bleeding edge and was hard to get! My warlock feels like she's cheating.
  11. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Get her into reading romance novels. Comes with good sex too.
  12. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Not lame at all and I think that's exactly the way to handle it. Maybe she needs a similar thing? Is there a night you can do the kid routine and she can have her time to chill? Girlfriends, fave tv show and ice cream, bath and wine, etc? Maybe if it's explained as both of you guys need a night...
  13. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Been thinking of doing Phedre from Kushiel's Dart for SLC comic con in a couple weeks. Kind if running out of time to sew a dress though.
  14. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    His folks, not mine. And I'm not surprised. Frustrated yes, but not surprised. It's easy to lose yourself in the familiar, in the easy, when things are stressful.
  15. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm not trying to avoid stuff, or pissy at people or anything. I just don't like interrupting the flow of the conversation when something else is talked about and I've missed something a few pages back, so I apologize for not answering. It was over a year ago now. These things are not related...
  16. lindz

    World of Warcraft: Current Year

    Yup, I can see it now. Couldn't see them last night for some reason. Maybe it had to do with the character boost or who knows. But damn that was like 3/4 of a level for doing the invasions in a single zone.
  17. lindz

    World of Warcraft: Current Year

    Curious, do you guys know if invasions can only be seen if you have a 110 character on the same server. I was on Hyjal last night expecting easy leveling and I couldn't see them on my 100 character! My 110s are all on a different server, grr. The flying will obviously make leveling quicker, but...
  18. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Eh, this is one I don't agree with. There are problems yeah, but a happy marriage is not one where people are working in careers they hate just to support the family. I'm not a "stuff" person. I give no fucks about the money as long as we can provide what the kids need and put food on the table...
  19. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    So much lol! And as far as the sexual side - it was a one time thing and honestly it was no issues at all. It is still something we play around with in bed, talking dirty and all, but it was such a particular circumstance, I don't know if it would happen again. Remember, his fantasy, not...
  20. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Yeah, we don't do them often anymore. Mainly because most suck these days. Usually only lasts for a few months when we do and it could only ever be an evening and weekend thing before. I'm thinking with the setup we have, they are definitely going to be more problematic. I'm just trying to be...
  21. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm no peach. I dropped out of school to get married and move across the world at 19. I had serious issues with depression for years, major feelings of inadequacy over the inability to ever have a career or support myself. I'm now essentially working for free while I start my career that I've...
  22. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I totally get that and I've tried to be really conscious of that. We've been doing this for four months now and this is really just a case of me wanting the transition to be faster. One of the problems is that I've jumped into a second job over the past few months so I'm doing most of what I was...
  23. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Dear god that would be awful. Two people can be hard enough. Three though...
  24. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I haven't been stay a stay at home mom for years though I've continued to do it while working full time for the last several years. We've had some major changes recently though and we're dividing it now. Or trying to. It's just a tough transition.
  25. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    But none of that is stuff I knew I needed to do until it popped up. Well some of it was, like the fence shit. But the rest is just stuff I come across while doing other stuff. Does that make sense? It's that I think that way - I'll see something that needs to be done that may not have been...
  26. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    If only it was "just clean shit up" for me. I mean that would be lovely, but there is so much stuff my husband doesn't even see that needs to get done. If it's on a list maybe sometimes he'll do some but there is so much shit I can't put on a list. Like today I did a ton of laundry and noticed...
  27. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Oh are we having a forum affair? And with Zaara too? I'll take it. Can't be very satisfying though; I only show up every few months. Though I guess that's often the best way to do it.
  28. lindz

    The Kink Thread (Semi-NSFW)

    Yeah that's not my thing for sure. But I enjoy how much he's turned on by it. That makes it hot for me. As for being cummed on - it's a submissive thing I think.
  29. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Healthcare is fucking expensive. First time we're buying it on our own and damn. GoFundMe. Hmm...
  30. lindz

    Audiobooks

    Used to do Audible but never ended up using all my credits. Lately, I've just been using the library. We have three different audiobook services at my library so I've never had trouble finding the book I want. Sometimes I'll have to wait for a title I want, but I've just started putting things...
  31. lindz

    The Kink Thread (Semi-NSFW)

    I think I have pretty standard chick kinks - light BDSM stuff is my thing. Don't do it much sadly though this is probably my fault because I need to ask more. Mind reading isn't a thing and all. And definitely enjoy being cummed on. As evidenced by my past shenanigans, I'm pretty open to...
  32. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I get to be the one that complains about spouses cleaning now. Dude, it's annoying. I'm working two jobs now and the husband has picked up a bunch of the housework with our new allocation with stuff along with the life changes we made. And when I say he's picked them up, I really mean our house...
  33. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Also had this fucking epiphany moment with my husband. Like, how the fuck did we not realize this in the last 12 years. Two questions/statements: I don't understand why you feel that way. vs. Why do you feel that way? I'm a very empathetic person (to my detriment often), my husband is not...
  34. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    AND WHO WAS IN VP LAST NIGHT!? You gotta be cutthroat yo. But the sex after child birth thing... it's super weird. For me, I wanted sex the day after. Obviously physically couldn't, but that right there was a big factor in the wanting it. Physically not being able to made me feel disconnected...
  35. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Oh sorry. Forgot it was a secret.
  36. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    But I've PMed you!
  37. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I don't either. But hey, we got the fastest Kunark clear time yet on TLPs tonight.
  38. lindz

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Man, I want liquor and brownies and sex. Why am I playing 5 days of EQ straight instead of doing that?
  39. lindz

    Soul of the World - the Ascension Cycle

    Basically, print is going to make the author more money. Royalty rates for an e-book is 25% of net whereas for the physical copy, it's going to be around 8% of list price for the trade paperback. If you want to get technical and all that jazz.
  40. lindz

    Soul of the World - the Ascension Cycle

    @Void shoot me an email with your address and I'll see about that signed copy.