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Agreed, and I"ve said it before, but if you ever do get friend-zoned anyways, just be clear and direct with some variation of, "I don"t need more friends in my life atm, I didn"t ask you out to be your friend". Just make sure it doesn"t come off whiny. That pretty much forces a confrontation...

For real, most women put you in the "friend zone"(or not) within the first few seconds of meeting, if you ever have to wonder where you are, that"s where you are.

It"s no secret I have sociopathic tendencies, as you point out, it"s not even an insult since many people have varying degrees in modern society. Society reinforces it, because it"s not a coincidence that people with sociopathic tendencies are also disproportionately more successful. I...

Yep ^ I"m currently dating someone semi seriously, she friend zoned me, so I just did what I said earlier, she came back and was like "ok, forgive me, I find you very attractive, etc". Well, she"s a fair deal younger than me, old enough to date seriously but still hasn"t fully exited her...

Pretty much, anytime I"ve ever been friendzoned, I just tell them I have enough friends and am not interested in being a part of their life. It"s like magic, without fail every time(so far). A couple days later I get a call, text, whatever, to come over for sex. You only get friendzoned...

Our first date was going Kayaking, but I don"t think that counts as a boat.

A girl I"m seeing right now told me she put out on the first date because "You seem like the type who would just rape me if I said no". I"m not exactly sure if that"s a positive thing...but being aggressive and assertive has never not gotten me laid. Doing it any other way is doing it wrong.

As a late 20s wealthy entrepreneur with a dominant personality, that book is the best thing to ever happen. (I"ve been told repeatedly I"m very similar to the male main character). In the last month I"ve slept with 4 women who contacted me with the sole intention of playing out some shades...

I don"t consider them my "GF" but in my experience, if a woman isn"t the type who is specifically looking for casual sex or hookups, once you start sleeping with them there"s an "Implied Exclusivity", in their minds at the very least... So to me, having someone call you their boyfriend after...

Do people actually think this? Granted this is anecdotal, so I may very well be talking out my ass...but in my experience I"m more scared of skinny girls getting fat after a relationship. People who have lost significant weight have, in many cases, done so by developing good habits that...

And yeah, as Kirun said beware the intentions thing. My profile clearly had pictures of me losing weight every 10-20lbs so people knew I wasn"t bullshitting. Anyone who is seriously trying to date well losing weight should do the same if they expect people to believe them.

I"ve had similar experiences as Antarius in messaging girls and mentioning their weight or something. The remotely sane ones appreciate the honesty and the willingness to look past one issue and recognize that you find them attractive as a whole package. Also, as someone who"s been in the...

Pretty much. It just made me feel good at the time cause they were all trying SO hard to get me to like them(everyone likes to feel chased once in awhile!)where normally its some girl expecting me to put in a ton of effort impressing them with their lack of reality. Just the two extremes...

I drive a prius(planning to get a tesla model S soon though XD). She was simply impressed that I owned any car, she didn"t even ask what it was. Suffice to say I won"t be seeing these women again, but they were certainly the mostinterestingdates I"ve had in forever. Least they gave me a...

I"m fully aware, it was just such a culture shock that I had to say something. More so because other women I go out with have the same priorities, like most women seemingly do... but to go from them testing you to see if you make 6+ figures, own a home, or own nice things, to simply being...

*Racist comments and Stereotypes below this point* So how come no one ever told me that dating black chicks is awesome? I often feel like with white girls, they want you to be rich, successful, smoking hot, educated, and charming(I"m 4/5), and if you"re anything less they feel like they"re...

It"s not really about him being put out, cause I doubt he cared that much either. It"s just as guys, we shouldn"t tolerate that shit period. The women aren"t retarded, they know what they"re doing, know what"s expected, and she initiated it by even wanting to get into bed. Whether he cares...

@Cathan That was some truth right there, dayum. Frankly any girl that ever tries to pull that shit with me, I just outright say "If you"re going to act like a prostitute then just leave, don"t use your sexuality to get what you want from me, cause I"m not going to tolerate that shit". Most...

I don"t really agree. I"ve had more relationships end over honesty than anything else. The key is the last part, most people aren"t, can"t be, and never will be, adults.

I agree wholeheartedly about the life experience stuff. I broke up with the girl I"ve been with this last yearish and it basically all boiled down to that stuff. When it got down to brass tacks she really just had no clue what it meant to be in a real relationship, and it got to the point...

Yeah, I"m not gonna let it get to me much more. Just writing it out here was an instant relief of that tension; like I said, I just felt like I needed to vent that to *someone* before it got to me much further. So for that, I thank you.

@Agonizing No. @Sutekh I"ve tried, and she just doesn"t want to talk about it, just outright ignores it if I say anything, she in no way acts like the same person she was even a week ago. It"s utterly confusing. It"s like when you feel a break up is eminent but it never comes. I just...

Sorry to break up the lulz with srsbzn. I don"t know if I need advice so much as I just need to vent this. Me and my current girlfriend have been dating nearly a year, everything was going great and then in the last week she just... lost all interest. She has really bad IBS, and when it"s...

I dunno, it really depends on how you come off. I used to think I came off like that too, but once I stopped everyone just asked or approached me about my opinion and knowledge anyways, so it was clearly valued. Knowledge can be a form of charisma if used right ("Expert Power" as opposed...

Sleep Cues, they work, that is all.

I never even really understood that line of thought, nothing about being with someone stops you from pursuing a career, it just changes the nature of the relationship. Not surprising but she clearly wasn"t mature enough to understand that being together didn"t mean abandoning her dreams, it...

You know, there"s people like me out there, who spent over a decade pursuing education, to earn doctorates, and I resent your use of "Academic" or even "Academic like". I struggled over over a decade to be Academic, when I write something, and publish it in a peer reviewed journal, that"s...

I look forward to debating about how women are economic leeches and have basically wasted every opportunity given to them in the last 80~+ years.

Pretty much, you need to get rid of her completely and force her to choose between you as a boyfriend or as nothing. She knows how you feel and is just stringing you along.

Almost the entire masters/PHD educated strata of women fall into 30+ no kids...and they"re pretty much the most desirable partners in terms of non physical qualities... So yeah...refuted. ;0

If someone isn"t treating you fairly(refuses to participate in a conversation, is always wishy washy about going out, etc) then just tell them and force a confrontation, they either realize they"re being bitches or you can end it right there and stop wasting your own time. Just my personal...

The jerking off thing is weird...I don"t see why undressing is though, it"s family, who cares? I personally think it"s more weird you"re sitting there picturing the kid wanting a piece of his mom...

I dunno, I"ve posted my stories or comments in this thread from time to time and never really gotten any backlash over it. Maybe this one will fix that! I mostly don"t share too often cause I think my experiences tend to be kind of boring, and frankly the issues I have are different than most...

@Aamina. Not to join the troll bandwagon but I agree that you don"t "get it". Women do not like being treated poorly, what they like are confident reliable men. The issue is that assholes, jerks, etc share common traits with those men, and are thus frankly confused by a lot of women for those...

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Probably has mostly to do with his personality? I am(was... I finally stopped being sick and went on a weight loss binge 400+ to <300 fairly quick and still going; anyone who knows me knows I"ve been deathly sick for the last year...and just ballooned from apathy...) a much bigger guy than...

Imho not interested.

lol

I honestly think you"re thinking of something/someone entirely different. I don"t remember this being his high school sweetheart or anything(though I could be wrong too).

Sad but I thought the same exact thing. Granted I"d lean to the fact that she"s probably trying to cheat, but what if she isn"t? What if it"s just some dude who pissed her off or spurned her and she"s just trying to get back at him? Granted it"s not HEALTHY behavior but it"s not exactly...