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That"s not the issue, I meet plenty of women in the real world, I"m just tired of the type of women I"m meeting through my social circles. I"m looking for something new. I guess I just don"t have as cynical an attitude about it all. I guess I"m trying this out because I found out, after 3...

Yeah, as an essay writing major I just noticed that and it irked me too, I"m in the process of changing it up.

Eomer seems to be doing pretty well with his profiles so I"m hesitant to give advice especially just after I complained that I"m somewhat clueless about this whole thing. But my instincts were telling me to make a profile that, were someone to read it, would inspire them to picture us doing...

Yeah PoF is certainly shitty looking, but Van has a pretty sizable number of good looking girls on here and I"m getting bored with all my buddy"s gf"s friends, I think I"ve burned about every bridge I can so far so I need a new avenue to meet people. Fuck it, I feel like I"m handing in a term...

Fuck I hate writing online dating profiles, is there any way to write these things without coming off as a) a conceited jerk b) a sappy romantic The Notebook loving emotional trainwreck c) a huge nerd with terrible jokes I"ve written mine over 3 times and I have no idea if I"m even close yet...

I can agree to an extent but if you"re looking for "the one" or at least someone where you don"t have a real end in sight, most girls in their early 20"s will eventually flake out and want their party/single/fun period. My buddy who"s 25 (which is still relatively young) was dating a 10/10 21...

haha man your response is so totally dead on, that"s exactly like my time in Korea. Honestly that place attracts some fucked in the head individuals (foreigners I mean) and in a few instances I know for a fact that there are people running from the law or serious, serious debt. While I had a...

Dabamf is pretty much spot on. Take control, be the man. Asian girls (in Asia at least) expect to be treated like princesses in some ways, but don"t go overboard. Koreans and Chinese are extremely similar, so much that often they can"t tell themselves apart, from talking to my Korean friends, so...

Dance floors aren"t the place where I meet girlfriends, but it can still be a pretty fun place if you"re looking for a distraction like you were saying. I always love a good DanceFloorMakeout.

Likely E, esp if your club was filled with glowsticks and songs with more beats and electronics than lyrics. Also you should have just chose one and been decisive. Or feigned choosing one to make the other mad jealous and then get them into a huge cat fight, the winner getting to take you home...

I"m trying not to read much into it, but I think the "gaming" things people talked about earlier can still be useful for someone looking for a good natured girl and a solid relationship over SlutWhore001. Learning how to flirt, taking a step back and really studying how people interact... I...

Honestly, I think the best thing you could do is to show up with a big smile and just act like you"re totally fine and happy. And ignore her for the most part. I would stray from being over emotional or sensitive about anything, as that"s what seemed to drive her away in the first place. If it...

Honestly you sound like someone who"s taking the frustrations from working in Korea (which I know, can be fucking mindnumbingly frustrating) and kind of associating them with her. I know exactly how it feels to get all worked up about the 9,000 little annoying things that bother you while living...

If girls are cheating on you and treating you like shit, stop being so nice. Seriously. I honestly think there"s a thing as being "too nice." It"s a turn off eventually. I"m not saying be an asshole. But if you put yourself way too out there, bleeding heart on the sleeve style, it"s going to...

Seems like you"re figuring it out, that"s pretty much how I found the average Korean girl. In a lot of ways it"s opposite to what our NA standard dating procedure would be. Cultural differences are pretty interesting, your experiences remind me of a seminar I ran in Korea about the whole...

This could very well make this thread interesting again.

That is fucking gross. That one in the blue, yeesh

I would think that her friend knowing that you like her and conveying that reaction is basically what your asking for. Go for it man! Before it gets tired, you don"t want it to be out there and not act, that"ll make you look bad I think. If shit doesn"t work out, it"s her loss.

I spent a year and a half in Korea but didn"t actually date any Koreans while I was there, so I"m not going to come out and say I"m an expert, but maybe I could give you a pointer or two from what I learned while there. I"ll assume since you mentioned it earlier that you"ve only been there 2...

As mostly a lurker I don"t comment here but I will say the following: Cheat on your fiance, and I find that to be a sad story. Cheat on your fiance who"s holding your future kid... I find that to be an extremely angering story. That just pisses me off, you"re being a selfish jackass. Do...

Tyen seems to suffer from "I look like I"m 14" syndrome. I know what you"re going through man, I had the same thing and I"m only starting to recover, although I recently got the most pathetic facial hair award during Mustache March Madness. I"m nearly 25 and still get ID"d everywhere...

At that point I"d be upfront about that shit, I think you handled it well and I believe you when you say that you"re not worried about her antics, but I imagine that they"re annoying. I"m just the type to not have very much patience with that kind of stuff, so I"d probably find out a way to...

Couple weeks ago I hooked up with this chick at a club, and I was very close to bringing her home with me but some other random shit came up that while isn"t relevant, prevented me from following through with her. Then a few days later I found out, not only is the broad 17 (I"m 24, and I...

I"d pretty much support what you guys are trying to say with the clarification that I wouldn"t be honest with her but I was still breaking it off with her. In that case being honest is only making yourself feel better. This is assuming that you will keep your action on the side a secret from her...

Not to be a jerk Eomer but didn"t you say you were miffed that she was seeing that "ex" all the while you"re trying to set up dates on PoF? Two timer!!! And as an aside, I had a lady friend who did the same kind of thing only with the decor of a restaurant. If there was an ugly painting on...

This may not work for you but personally in that situation I just like to be direct. I"d basically ask, "Are you telling me this because you"re wanting a reaction from me, or are you just telling me this because we"re just talking?" But, it may be too early in your relationship to be that...

Just make sure you explain which one you are in the description. It"d be shitty if they show up thinking you look like the other guy, whichever one that is.

I have little to contribute beyond pointing out what a ridiculous metaphor this was, haha.

Quoted for truth. I don"t want to know about a girl"s ex"s, esp not early on. I"m pretty sure they never want to hear about mine. I was chatting with some girls the other day and they all said this was a huge turn off, I was surprised how many guys start rattling on about ex"s on first and...

link? best I found was this thread:Cajun"s Online Method - Profiles, Messaging and Closing Techniques - The Attraction Forums - Free Pickup and Dating Advice

Yes, good call on that and I"ve nearly been trapped in that situation before, but now I hope I"m old and wise enough to avoid it. So no, it was a buddy setting me up, who says that she"s low on crazy and high on hotness, and judging by his current GF I"d probably trust him enough to at least...

I fucking hate leaving messages so much I actually spend time preparing what I"ll say if I do hit the machine. I figure most guys actually hate leaving messages too, but in my experience, as much as you hate leaving them, girls hate it when you don"t even more. It"s always been my experience...

Here you go

that thread = gold. and.... the jerk she named in that post shows up in the thread, discounts a bunch of the shit she said and then drops this link to an old thread of hers... owned OkCupid.com: Forums / Dating Advice / I am not who you think I am edit: and apparently he says she"s the...

I know what you"re talking about Eomer, but I was just in Chicago at the hooter"s there and I have to say, they have some fine talent. Much better than Vancouver"s (gone now, sadly) and Calgary"s (never went to Edmonton"s). I"ve been keeping tabs on this thread for a while, and I enjoy it...

If you do want to maximize your profile picture though, my buddy said try putting a bunch of pictures on hotornot.com and finding out which one gets the highest rating. I did that and I was way wrong on which picture I felt was the best. Not a bad idea. I may try this whole business when I...

I feed my hunger by watching the movies and reading bio"s on wikipedia. Sad.

So as a comic book nerd who"s never actually read any comics, where should one start? Phoenix Saga and work my way through? I"m mostly into Marvel, I should say. I recently bought the Infinity Gauntlet softcover and really enjoyed it. I"d like to pick up some more of those. Also, is there a...