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  1. J

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I am always wondering about this one. Being a manager in Japan I get to hear all kinds of stories from guys working for me. Seems that women cheat a lot more than men do in my experience anyway. This goes especially for the guys that got married overseas and came back to Japan...this group has a...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I think we have all been in a situation where the girl wants to have a "break". Usually the best way to get them to come back is to go out and get a new girl friend. It can be quite surprising how fast the "break" is over when it`s you meeting someone new. And if they don`t try and come back at...
  3. J

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Come on Keg. I don"t think you can leave it at that.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Reading this makes me think of all the guys new to Japan and hooking up with all the road whores either online (kind of like your cases) or at some bar. They think that they have some kind of game and are the only ones hitting that but really that girl is shagging like 10 other guys and...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Another thing to think about.... How much longer until she finishes school. If she is just about done then it may just be that she sees a great future in front of her with lots of money and job opportunities and doesn"t really need your help and support anymore. I have had this happen to a...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Seems that most rings here in Japan run between 10 and 20 thousand dollars with the weddings coming in usually around 50 grand. Alot of the wedding costs is defrayed by guests though as you have to bring 300 dollars to the wedding and 150 to the afterparty...so if you can talk enough people...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I think that Gryeyes is trying to say that people only have kids by accident and then make the best of it? Or maybe that only stupid people have kids as smart ones use some form of protection which lets them lead infinitely more fulfilling lives? Seems like the kind of arguments you hear...
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    Salary Negotiation

    I can kind of see the point of people not sharing their salary information but sometimes it can really help turn around people who keep an open mind on things. A while back I thought that I was getting an average salary for my job (Japan middle management type stuff 45k to 55k a year...
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    Home buying thread

    Even this is kind of cheap compared to here in Japan. Was in a real estate office bored the other day looking around and 1300sq feet for just the land only is running for mid 200k (dollars) and this is on the outside of yokohama so we are not even talking about up in tokyo here. Our house is...