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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I am not sure where Popsicledeath"s Truman show access to Ham"s life is available, but I assume there must be one for all those conclusions to e drawn. From the little we"ve heard, and adding in a load of assumptions based on personal experience, hanging around and flirting with Ham made her...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Not been updating because there is nothing to say. I don"t know why I was arguing with The Ancient earlier. Feels crappy still, but I"ve done this before and I know all the advice (work out, go out, talk to girls that I have no intention of sleeping with to boost self esteem, sleep with those...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Again, it has nothing to do with being serious now or any time soon. She has explicitly stated she has no intention of getting involved in any kind of relationship now or in the foreseeable future. Now, if your approach to this would be "Okay, just let me know when you are ready!" then you"re...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I am already somewhat invested, like I said she"s the first girl in years I"ve actually entertained the idea of anything serious with. I know this is the internet where we pretend to be emotionless and ice cold alpha males, but since I was being a whiny bitch about a girl that made me sad why...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"m not all or nothing, though. I was quite happy to just carry on how things were and see where they went, if it got serious great, and if it didn"t then that"s a shame, but she has said she does not want a relationship at the moment, does not think she will in the near future and can"t give...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I feel like I have handled it pretty much as best I could. I say this being someone who made every possible mistake in the past though, years ago I"d have probably let her walk all over me. Having been through it and seen (and read about!) others going through it, I tried to think how I would...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Been seeing a girl for about 3 months, first time in about 10 years I"ve actually let myself think it could go somewhere. Today she told me that she"s been thinking about it for a few days and she"s not ready to be anyone"s girlfriend, basically in a "we can carry on with everything like it...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I think your attachments broke?
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    If you"re a guy and you ended up in a relationship with a friend, it is very unlikely she ever saw you as a friend. You were a potential partner who was uninterested or unavailable. If you used to do loads of "friend" stuff together, she was going along hoping something would happen. I"ve...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    It"s not intuition, if you"ve decided how things are going to go from the start, then that is how they will go. Also all 3 option are terrible. You need to realise that you"ll never be with this girl and move on. You might not like her boyfriend, but she obviously does. If she liked you more...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I hope it goes well, but if she is anything like girls I know then she is getting exactly what she wants from you, with very little of what you want. She is obviously still seeing the other guy, but at the same time she can have all the fun she wants with you and none of the commitment. She can...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Christ Ronaan you are going to look back on this a few years from now and question how you could have ever been so fucking stupid. I don"t mean that as an insult, but you are handling this terribly. Firstly, you cannot let someone down easily. You can"t be subtle. If you don"t want them, you...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No shit.