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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Dude, she"s just heartbroken. She likes you, and even though she knows that like most relationships, it"s likely to end (like it or not), nobody likes to hear things that put a finite end, even when it"s so far off, and 16 months is a hell of a long time for things to change or develop. She"s...
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    I"m not sure how many other dudes have had Korean girlfriends (in Korea, not Korean-Americans) on here, but as someone who has had several, I can attest to Dabamf"s experience. There"s a pretty significant cultural stigma about girls inviting men over to their apartments. I agree with...
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    What"s happening with McCheese? Did you find out what your school"s policy on dating is? With my job in Japan, dating students is kosher so long as they"re over 18. I"ve fucking a 28 year old student for the last month or so now, and no problems have arisen. I"d recommend finding out and...
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    I feel you, dude. My 18-year old kid sister got killed in a car accident (by a speeding police officer w/o his lights on, mind you). It"s going to take a long time to get to the point where life feels normal again, but it will happen. The thing that used to happen to me is I would go through...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Pretend to be busy? Any human being with an ounce of intuition is going to see straight through this kind of shit.
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    San Diego was where I was tested (at the university health clinic) - youre right that its not a normal q-tip but it still hurts like hell.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Okay whoever took a chlamydia test and didnt have a q-tip jammed up their dickhole, I envy you, because that"s exactly what happened for me. They stick it up your dickhole for 2-3 seconds (about half an inch in or so) and then swab it in a petri dish for a culture test.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Mind if I ask how old she is? Unprofessional curiosity, nothing more.
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    I think the primary reason why different dudes of differing degrees of niceness have such varying experiences is because it"s not how nice you are that girls respond to, it"s confidence. The key is being natural and comfortable with yourself - if you"re a nice guy, don"t force yourself to be an...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    She probably is just ticklish around the neck/ear. Even if she likes it. But I liked your description about asserting your dominance. I think it"s more simple - it just feels good. Hahaha If you"re going to tell someone you enjoy their company or whatever way you want to say it, if your...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I say go for it, make your move, it fails then forget about her because she"s taken anyway. Take what you can get and completely forget about the boyfriend. Don"t overthink things, it"ll just crush your hopes and dreams if it doesn"t work out the way you want it to.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    The best friend phenomenon is well-documented. It"s called storgic love. Social psychologists study the different types of love, and there a six types, agape, storge, eros, pragma, ludus, mania. Agapic - Forgiving, I"ll take anything you throw at me, it"s all about you. These relationships...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You may not look at it that way, but she definitely will, and even if you explained it to her that you"re going purely for the fun and travel companionship aren"t looking for sex, she"d still have to explain it to her friends, and that"s therealproblem. In America, we have this fantastic ideal...
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    ^^ what you"re talking about is very common in dealing with Asian girls (not American Asian, Asian-Asian). They"ll be incredibly fun and flirtatious and even seem DTF the first time you meet them, but will politely decline any obvious invitations that may involve sex, or the expectation of it...
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    Eomer, I was in a situation pretty similar to what you"re describing. Obviously the details are quite different, but essentially I had a girlfriend (also a special ed teacher) who things had gotten too serious for her with and she backed off for whatever reason because she liked being single...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    If you"re just looking to get laid, go to the Yongsan area and shop for girls around the CGV theatre. They"re like 85,000 KRW for foreigners and those girls are plastic beauties. I regret never stickin my cack in one. Really though, I feel your pain. I spent a year in Korea and didn"t feel...