Recent content by Haka Shakamalakabalsaka_foh

  1. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That"s not the issue, I meet plenty of women in the real world, I"m just tired of the type of women I"m meeting through my social circles. I"m looking for something new. I guess I just don"t have as cynical an attitude about it all. I guess I"m trying this out because I found out, after 3...
  2. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah, as an essay writing major I just noticed that and it irked me too, I"m in the process of changing it up.
  3. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Eomer seems to be doing pretty well with his profiles so I"m hesitant to give advice especially just after I complained that I"m somewhat clueless about this whole thing. But my instincts were telling me to make a profile that, were someone to read it, would inspire them to picture us doing...
  4. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah PoF is certainly shitty looking, but Van has a pretty sizable number of good looking girls on here and I"m getting bored with all my buddy"s gf"s friends, I think I"ve burned about every bridge I can so far so I need a new avenue to meet people. Fuck it, I feel like I"m handing in a term...
  5. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Fuck I hate writing online dating profiles, is there any way to write these things without coming off as a) a conceited jerk b) a sappy romantic The Notebook loving emotional trainwreck c) a huge nerd with terrible jokes I"ve written mine over 3 times and I have no idea if I"m even close yet...
  6. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I can agree to an extent but if you"re looking for "the one" or at least someone where you don"t have a real end in sight, most girls in their early 20"s will eventually flake out and want their party/single/fun period. My buddy who"s 25 (which is still relatively young) was dating a 10/10 21...
  7. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    haha man your response is so totally dead on, that"s exactly like my time in Korea. Honestly that place attracts some fucked in the head individuals (foreigners I mean) and in a few instances I know for a fact that there are people running from the law or serious, serious debt. While I had a...
  8. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Dabamf is pretty much spot on. Take control, be the man. Asian girls (in Asia at least) expect to be treated like princesses in some ways, but don"t go overboard. Koreans and Chinese are extremely similar, so much that often they can"t tell themselves apart, from talking to my Korean friends, so...
  9. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Dance floors aren"t the place where I meet girlfriends, but it can still be a pretty fun place if you"re looking for a distraction like you were saying. I always love a good DanceFloorMakeout.
  10. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Likely E, esp if your club was filled with glowsticks and songs with more beats and electronics than lyrics. Also you should have just chose one and been decisive. Or feigned choosing one to make the other mad jealous and then get them into a huge cat fight, the winner getting to take you home...
  11. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"m trying not to read much into it, but I think the "gaming" things people talked about earlier can still be useful for someone looking for a good natured girl and a solid relationship over SlutWhore001. Learning how to flirt, taking a step back and really studying how people interact... I...
  12. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Honestly, I think the best thing you could do is to show up with a big smile and just act like you"re totally fine and happy. And ignore her for the most part. I would stray from being over emotional or sensitive about anything, as that"s what seemed to drive her away in the first place. If it...
  13. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Honestly you sound like someone who"s taking the frustrations from working in Korea (which I know, can be fucking mindnumbingly frustrating) and kind of associating them with her. I know exactly how it feels to get all worked up about the 9,000 little annoying things that bother you while living...
  14. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    If girls are cheating on you and treating you like shit, stop being so nice. Seriously. I honestly think there"s a thing as being "too nice." It"s a turn off eventually. I"m not saying be an asshole. But if you put yourself way too out there, bleeding heart on the sleeve style, it"s going to...
  15. H

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Seems like you"re figuring it out, that"s pretty much how I found the average Korean girl. In a lot of ways it"s opposite to what our NA standard dating procedure would be. Cultural differences are pretty interesting, your experiences remind me of a seminar I ran in Korea about the whole...