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Going out tonight with a girl who I"ve been talking to for a bit over a week, I think tonight could be the "lets go exclusive" date. Which is cool, we have so much in common it still throws me for a loop when I think about it. Was gonna bring flowers but wasn"t sure which route to go, didn"t...

(I don"t go off often and am usually a fairly calm person and poster, I think I"ve come off as such over the past year anyways....but...) Who the hell are you? 4 posts and you feel you have the balls to be able to not only to bitch about someone posting a quality tits and body shot, but do so...

My intentions were clear from the start. I think everyone knew aychamo"s as well. lol He and I are pretty much the exact opposites I think when it comes to this thread. It"s alright though, he"s still cool...if not a whore. And I"ve had my fill on drama, if I sense it coming I"ll not...

Okay, long post inc. Alright well I finally went out to dinner with the girl I was talking about a few pages back. Mind you, neither of us were looking for "hit it and quit it" We"re both looking for a decent relationship. Okay so her profile pics were so far off the mark it was...

Eomer I"m the same height as you and about avg build I guess, I"m a bit on the bald side which is a strike against me I suppose but other then that I"m an avg lookin guy I suppose. -shrugs- I"ve tried the hotornot thing, lol, I"ve ranked pretty low but fuck it I don"t really care. As for the...

To the edited part of your post I was the same way and I did the same thing. I dropped 35 pounds and felt totally renewed. I took time off and after the new year I"m going to be hitting it hard again to reach the goal I set up awhile back.

Again I"m not complaining, I"ve fine with the way I look. I fail to see why someone can acknowledge they aren"t a model or a great looking person without it meaning they are complaining or down on themselves. I"m confident with how I look but I also know I"m not THAT great looking when compared...

Yeah I know, and when I was sending out messages I did just that, went a few notches above what I thought I could get and even went for the out of my league women. After a few "I don"t date ugly guys" and "ewww um no"s" I said fuck it and went back to the few notches above what I figured I...

My negative mind set isn"t negative, it"s realistic and I don"t let it show through when talking to most anyone. I don"t think I"m ugly, but again, I"m realistic. I am more inclined to let that pretense go here because it"s an internet forum and I don"t really care. The fact you think women...

The one I"ve been talking to is pretty decent, but unlike you guys I don"t have the looks it takes to get with most of the women you"ve posted pics of. Personality only gets you so far the chick has to let it get that far to begin with for it to even happen. Small update with me, I sent her a...

Agreed

Don"t let kids prevent you from getting with someone cool. You don"t even know the situation with her and her kid. You should find out what the deal is then go for it. The only reason it"s complicated most of the time is because the one without the kids makes it complicated. Annoys me when...

I"m far from needy, shit I"ve gone this long with nothing, I don"t really care if I go a bit longer really. I know I"m just some dude, as of now, she"s just some girl so that feeling is mutual. Texting her though is a no go, it"s calling or nothing as she dosen"t like to text, so timing is...

I think the exact words she used were "We"ll set something up for after Christmas." which is cool, just not sure if that means I should just stfu with her until after the holiday all together or not, she said to call her...the whole when part of that though is a bit fuzzy to me. Fuck I...

so you wouldn"t call her until it was time to set something up then?

K well the girl I"ve been talking to for a week and I were supposed to meet up today for a drink but her kid was sick (yes she has a kid, no I don"t care, I have two of them, it dosen"t bother me) and we talked on the phone for about an hour. (first time on the phone) Shit seemed to go pretty...

meh, I"m not to sure about that. I"m not seeing the attention I get from women jumping in the future so I"ll be happy with this.

Girl I"ve shot a few messages too, not even the divorce one, said she really liked chatting with me and said we should do it in person sometime. I hate to sound all retarded but after all the shit I"ve been through this year with my failed marriage, it"s pretty exciting stuff for me.

if you have to ask...

ha, there"s more to the state then just the twin cities.

it"s mine....ALL MINE....MWAHAHA..... Bah fine, Twin cities and surrounding suburbs. (25 mile radius)

Minni-Soda

Okay so I finally got a hell of a long response from a gil whom I sent a short message to earlier this evening. I was shocked as hell and she seemed cool as hell. I didn"t give her any lines I was just glancing profiles came across hers, she has a kid and I made a remark how she seemed cool and...

Fucking win.

fuck you guys and your ability to get hot women. lol

LoL, I"m not sure that would help the cause.

the first date thing seems pretty corny to me, but hell what do I know.

Yeah mine pretty much included a lot of what was in his and what you mentioned. Personality I can nail it, but usually I just get the emails I send out deleted or a "lol" in response. I"m not a good lookin dude so its understandable. -shrugs-

What should and shouldn"t be in a profile? Color me curious, and yea, I"m not linking the darn thing here either lol.

She put on weight over the years after each of our kids was born yes, though I wouldn"t call her fat personally. -shrugs- I"m not as hung up on outward appearances as most here seem to be so it didn"t bother me, she didn"t become unsightly to me until her personality took a turn for the worse.

Because she isn"t what most if any of you would consider attractive.

You don"t want to see naked pics of her. And as for the last part of your post, I totally get how ya feel.

So I talked to my ex today, the one I first posted about when this thread was actually about the topic that its named for. Over the last few months I"ve become best friends with my ex"s childhood friend and that persons boyfriend. She told me she was sorry that she knew about all the stuff...

Who"s to say you don"t?

Well I be gosh damned.....the shit worked. Well on a limited basis, but worked it did none the less. So yeah not bad I guess, not used to this kinda thing but I guess I did something right somewhere in there. Another girl, one I suspected was way out of my league responded laughing her ass off...

Meh, I work a lot, don"t like Bar flies and honestly, thats the difference between this and anything else? People say "Don"t pick up chicks in clubs.....or bars....or the internet.....or in malls....." where the hell else are you supposed to? Whatever works for someone they should roll...

Alright well I"m home from work, time to try this I guess. I"m prepped for many rejections.

Oh I didn"t say I wasn"t going to try it, just have doubts I guess. Talking to women has never been a problem for me, my face has been the issue. lol The past year"s been pretty rough (see my original post in this thread) I"ve went through some changes and look a lot better then I have in...

Good Lord I hope I don"t sound like that...... I"m not saying I"ve no confidence in myself Sharmai, but I do know where I rank in the looks department. Hygiene is good, I wear new clothes and no acne. I"m not dumb enough to post a picture of myself on these forums lol, so I guess you"ll just...

The thing is aychamo, you have to be somewhat of a decent looking dude for the shit to work to begin with.