Well, you could pick up the dispenser and squirt it into your hand, or you could cup your hand around the tip. I can't believe that I have to explain how a soap dispenser works.
I'm not sure what you mean. For the bathroom and kitchen? I guess that they are ok. But, I'm not so much of a dumbass that I allow myself to get sprayed with soap from a dispenser. Plus, I'm not gay, I just like to suck dick occasionally.