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Kind of confusing when you"ve edited the original post....just saying.

Haha, yeah, that sounds pretty close to how I am, just in some different ways. I"ve thought about therapy, but unless this thing manages to ruin something when I"m actually physically with her (I"m more of a facial person - I"ve been told I have a very dynamic face), I wouldn"t look into it...

Usually I"d be with you, but she specifically pointed out that I sounded like I didn"t care (not my vocabulary or choice of words, but the actual tone of my voice). I"m just wondering if this is an isolated case or if a lot of people actually have a problem with their feelings coming through in...

So I don"t know if it"s something to do with social anxiety or whatnot, but do any of you have to make a conscious decision to change the tones of your voice? I seem to have a real big problem with trying to convey the correct feeling in my voice, and I"ve found that I have to actually force...

For goodness sake. Should I have just said the very upper echelons of 6 digits instead? Over 700K. In any case, thanks for the advice.

Anyone have any special tips for parents who are particularly successful? The dad, in my case. I think he"s the owner of his own company and makes quite the 6 digit salary or whatnot. Is there anything special for those, or should they be treated like any other parent?

Personally, I"ve found NC to be too bland for me - there"s nothing to do here...ever. It"s why I"m moving to San Fran...that being said, I"ve seen that quite a few awesome bands are going to be playing here...I"m not exactly sure how far away you are from Greensboro, but that"s where they...

That"s the spirit! Pretty hilarious how you"re so indifferent btw.

Ultimatums are, ultimately, not a very good thing, but maybe you need to force her hand. Tell her its now or never, etc....It"s not a healthy thing to do, but maybe after all this bs, you need to do it.

I have some minor anxiety problems and we"re just very different people in general. I personally don"t open up to people right away since I don"t feel comfortable with strangers, so I seem somewhat stand-offish. I"m polite and I make conversation, but I suppose that it may or may not seem forced...

Right, I thought it had more to do with how you interact with her friends, etc. Misunderstanding.

Can you go more in depth about the friend zone? My GF desperately wants me to be best friends with her friends, and honestly, they"re very different people from me, so I feel like it"s already fucking me in the ass.

I"m going to side with Eomer here. As someone who"s had issues created by retarded phone problems like voice mails not appearing or texts getting lost for hours and hours...or for good, I think he dealt with it pretty accordingly. Just because he takes precautions against something doesn"t make...

Not asking her shows lack of communication, which is quite a bit more unhealthy.(What kind of bitch immediately thinks I"m a weak pussy when I open up to her with an issue? That"s not really someone I care to have around either way) I don"t know what the deal is with this "superman" mentality...

Personally, I think it"s because she was in a relationship with the guy for so long. (Plus, our relationship isn"t "I"ve met the parents" official, in addition to it being in a somewhat static place at the moment...both due to the distance there is between us, which I will rectify soon) In any...

^^^This, pretty much. Of course, if you are actually doing all this, then it"s for someone you think is worth it, someone you"re willing to change yourself for (not necessarily for the better in general, but for the better for the relationship). Putting it bluntly and saying it"s for sex is...

Well, just as far as this notion goes, he actually broke up with her, so I"m not sure that comes into play.

Roger that. I"ll go wipe the eyeliner off.

Ok, so something recently resurfaced for me, and I"m kind of confused...hopefully you guys can figure this out because I"ve got no clue tbh. It all started with some pictures on facebook of my significant other and an ex-boyfriend of hers. I"d seen them before, and in the earliest stages of...

I thought she was blatantly asian. The lips really set me off.

Methinks extracurriculars might help..? Especially now that you"re moving offices. Maybe I"m alone in this, but I personally wouldn"t want to touch other women if I"m already in love with one...but hey, if that"s no trouble for him, by all means.

Yeah, are you saying that all first relationships are doomed to fail?

Man, by the sound of it you had it a lot better than I do. She lives in Cali, and I live in North Carolina. Neither of us have the money necessary for weekend visits. (Seeing as a East to West coast flight will cost me like 200 dollars per, at the cheapest) I"m planning on hitting her up during...

Heh, I suppose I"ll just focus more on school...never thought I"d have free time as a Pre-med student... I think I"m fine with routine. I love waking her up and going to sleep with her...but it starts to take on a different light when that"s all you have for months on end (not even a decent...

It"s not 6 months apart, it"s 6 months left. It"s been about...12 months already. It"s just been getting worse, albeit very slowly. I"m willing to chalk that up to long distance personally, since none of these problems are there when I"m with her. As far as what the relationship means to me, I"d...

Well, again, it"s about the amount of time she can actually spend with me, not necessarily that the methods we use aren"t working. If she"s not taking 4-6 hour classes, she"s in the lab, focusing on homework. Outside of her schedule, she"s as invested as she can be. I"d hate to think it"s not...

She is, actually. She"s currently majoring in 3D animation, so she loves playing games. And while your idea has worked for us in the past (and it was great), her skype connection is often shitty, and half the time she"s disconnecting, the other quarter she"s cutting out nonstop if she"s...

Can anyone give me some tips on how to keep a long distance relationship going? I know, I"ve heard time and again that these don"t last, but I just need to keep it together until March, where it won"t be a problem anymore. It"s not really an issue of trust or infidelity, but more of an issue...

Lol. What a tweest.

From what I remember, he"s just afraid of some potential retaliation if she goes psycho. He mentioned his new car.

Someone continue this at the bottom of the stairs with paladins armed with holy fire. NOW.

I"m basically working under the presumption that he can"t work out some sort of deal with Kenny about no name dropping. If it is possibly, however, then by all means, stick it to the bitch. EDIT: My main point was - YOU come FIRST. As far as I can tell, this hasn"t been some spectacular...

I"d say if Kenny is already fading out of your life, just let it be. You don"t need that kind of drama. However, if you do start feeling guilty for letting it slide, I say think of the car and all shall be well.

Starting out in the gutter allows me to build up, with no way down. :?

Fuck bitches: Have sexual relations with bitches. vs Who the fuck needs those bitches?