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I didn"t mean to imply that it takes true love before they end up getting married at that age. What I think it is is that we aren"t really taught the skills or tools needed growing up in how to communicate, or interact in a serious long term relationship. These are things most people sadly only...

Exactly my point. Look at the % of Divorce by age at which they get married. Once you hit 40 years old you"re looking at a 5% Divorce rate which was what I was getting at. Which was that by the time you get into your 40"s you tend to end up with the person you spend your twilight years with and...

How many single mothers do you know in the age range of 45 - 80 do you know of today? Personally I don"t know any that aren"t single because, like I said, their husband passed on. I would wager that whatever the number is it is very small. I would also bet good money that 10 - 20 years from now...

I laughed, loudly.

1/2 my life in Colorado, other 1/2 in Utah. I"m 32. I don"t think women here (Salt Lake City currently) stay married anymore than anywhere else, though I"m only going off people I know. The women in my circle of friends range from mid 20"s to early 30"s and the ones that are mothers are almost...

Right, I know a lot of single moms too, but at what age range? The ones I know are all in their 20"s and early 30"s. The ones I knew that were in their 30"s when I was growing up are all married now and have stayed married. What I was getting at is how many little old ladies do you see that were...

Single moms in their 20"s and early 30"s maybe. Single moms in their late 30"s and into their 40"s? Not so much. All the single moms I knew of growing up ended up meeting some guy and getting married and all the ones I can think of off the top of my head are still happily married including my...

You"re right she isn"t pushing 3 Bills or anything like that but based on her personality as you say she doesn"t deserve any sugar coating when you call her for what she is. She"s fat. She isn"t obese or anything, but no matter how you "stretch" the denim or how much you grease the thighs... fat...

You"re right, my bad. I"ll give GV this, he isn"t just taking one for the team he seems to be trying to take them all... So kudos to you for that I guess. Keep it up?

I"m hoping she isn"t stupid enough to breach near boats?

Someone go roll her back into the Ocean before she gets harpooned in a tragic case of mistaken identity

She"s Snarting

Not necessarily, but you need to take a break that lasts a lot longer than a couple of weeks. Take some time to process the relationship and see if there is anything you would have done differently so you can work on it for future relationships. Try and grow a little and hopefully she will do...

How in the bloody fuck (pun intended) would you know what does or does NOT constitute quality material?! Go stare in a damn mirror for 30 minutes until it finally sinks in as to just how horrible a catch you are. Then go stare at the post you made with all the names of the worthless...

Upper arms look Huge. Never a good sign.. I agree take a break. But get laid a lot, it helps. You have to be damn careful though that you don"t latch onto something that should be purely sex because you"re emotionally vulnerable. But damn man...if those upper arms are any indication that girl...

All of that is true but you forgot one very important thing... He BRED with her!! Her DNA will continue on in this world.

Om nom nom nom...

Did you eat them?

XVII. Deliver the "Package"

I"m going to play Devils Advocate here and say DO be this guy. When you begin you have to promise to keep a LiveJournal on here and update it daily with your trials and adventures.

Are you happy now? Because it sure seems like you aren"t... This is her true nature, it"s the nature of addicts. She has plenty of history that you"re aware of (let alone the history you aren"t aware of yet but seem to be finding out more and more) to support the claim that this is the truth and...

Your watch is apparently worth more than their "house" ... quit being cheap and pony up the other $15 already

This is probably the long and short of it man. It sucks but there it is. She probably meant it when she said she didn"t love you, and as cold as it is, may never have really loved you. You just don"t get involved with someone fresh after a serious relationship split, it just doesn"t end well...

For the love of Christ go back to school and learn the English language, your grasp on it is entirely lacking

Right it works both ways. Which is why in the end, unless you both are really in love, it"s probably better to break things off.

I disagree somewhat. If she cheats while he"s overseas then I would argue he does in fact lose something. Unless he"s a particularly rare individual mentally I would argue that being cheated on will leave its mark on your psyche to some degree. It could cause trust issues down the road in a...

I"m inclined to agree here. All girls love flowers, not like flowers.

Public transportation? Call a cab? Make a friend drive you like Miss Daisy? Shit...I wouldn"t let the lack of a car stop me from going to a concert, but maybe that"s just me

A puppy. Then bring in a girl wearing nothing but a bow and tell her that you have started buying your own gifts now too.

Orangutan syndrome

That sounds better and you shouldn"t fight over the details, but I think if you can"t notice when someone cleans the floor you give up the right to bitch when its dirty (unless of course it was their mess). You"re right we"re not going to notice every single thing just like when we do things...

Couldn"t disagree more with that ^. That may be what a lot of guys do but don"t make excuses for us. You have every right to expect us to notice the little things that you do for us and the family. It"s a lot of work taking care of a home and guys, if raised right, should take notice of shit...

I really enjoy reading your posts like this. While it"s nothing new or groundbreaking it still is nice to hear from the other half and see things from your point of view.

This will only end well

First maybe you should have given the long story after all cause if I"m reading this right you"re at fault here not her...correct me if I"m wrong. You fell in love with a friend who was not single. You obviously told her in an attempt to be with her. You don"t think the boyfriend at the time has...

I am the same. It"s much simpler when the girl comes up and starts talking, and I also prefer a girl that can hold an intelligent conversation. For me it"s ok for her to ask me to dance, or for my number, and I also kinda prefer it that way a lot of the time.

A+ stuff Ravv

I"m with him ^ on this one.

So the Ex that I posted about a couple months back and I had our final chat the other day to work out her getting the last little bit of her stuff out of my apartment. Lasted about an hour during which she was super angry, arms crossing and uncrossing, hopping from one foot to the other, all...