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You should ignore her and move on. Dabamf is right - she just wasn"t that into you. Just forget about her completely and chalk it up to experience.

Listen to this man. It"s amazing the things that we fail to notice simply because of our proximity to the situation. Until you can begin to admit to yourself that there may be some truth in what some of us are saying (regarding insecurity issues, acting a little strange sometimes, having...

Brit sounds like a keeper. I"d cut Diane loose.

I can"t decide if you"re a troll or not. I"m just going to back away from this discussion, very slowly. Boobs in spoiler as consolation prize for wasting everyone"s time. Spoiler Alert, click show to read:

Same thing just happened to me, although she"s coming back later tonight. I knew that I would miss her but I completely underestimated just how much her being gone would affect me. It"s a strange feeling being so quietly attached to someone in that way.

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She"s probably lonely/bored and looking for some easy fun. Limited profile? Really? I would have defriended her on the spot. You should really think about, in the future, standing up for yourself a bit more and not being so willing to talk to and please all of these girls. It makes you look...

I hope to god you used protection.

See, that"s kind of what I was picking up on. It doesn"t seem like you"re super into her, more like just trying to pass the time until you meet someone better. Women pick up on things like that, and you are not being especially subtle when you do things like "forget" to call her for two weeks...

Not trying to attack you, but why didn"t you call her? She obviously likes you, otherwise she probably wouldn"t have slept with you, why would you play games with that? Unless you don"t really like her but can"t force yourself to admit it?

Do whatever you have to do, just get out of that relationship.

That audio clip was hard to listen to and it"s a perfect example of why I don"t listen to those shitty morning shows. I"ve been on both sides of that conversation and both times it was some brutal, soul-rending shit. I have no clue as to why anyone would want to broadcast that type of private...

You"re not helping your own cause here. While you may certainly enjoy having a wife and kids (and I commend you for that), that doesn"t mean everyone is going to want that or derive the same level of pleasure from it once they have it. You need to tone down the "I"m happier than you are"...

I"m looking forward to your continued input in this thread. Seriously.

Almost the exact same thing happened to me and believe me that bitch is crazy; gtfo now while you still can.

The Ancient is right. Don"t worry so much about whether you"re going to end up getting some or not. Who knows, maybe SHE won"t want to sleep with you on the first date (generally a good indicator of "nice girl" status, but not always). I would go on the date, have a good time, drive her home...

Gotta love moral relativism. Tarrant: I don"t envy your position but I think you"re handling it well given the circumstances. Forget the haters, go and live your life and I really hope that things work out for you. To all the haters: let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Some of...

I have say that if this really turns out to be the case, what in the world are you doing with her? When I first started seeing my girlfriend (about 2 1/2 years ago), I played that same game as well. I did the whole push/pull thing, the teasing, the backhanded compliments, the next-next-day phone...

Watch out for Grass is Greener syndrome. It"s a real tricky bitch.

Brad, I think this is a bad move. Admittedly, it"s impossible to know the full scope of your situation with her, but strictly from what you"ve written it seems to me that she is jerking you around. She"s using your child to blackmail you into paying her bills - that"s ludicrous man. Again, this...

Be yourself. Don"t change a thing. The worst thing you can do in this situation is to try to be someone you"re not - remember, she is attracted to YOU, not to some fake you that you made up to try and impress her. Also, don"t make the mistake of thinking that just because you "know each other"...

I took up ballroom dance. I met a lot of really amazing girls there, my ex-girlfriend included, and it also provided me with some much needed confidence. 3 years later and I can pretty much dance just about every style of dance there is whether it"s Tango, Swing, or just moving to the beat. I"ve...

It doesn"t mean a thing, don"t pursue it. Shit like that happens to everyone during the holidays. I think it"s just one of those unfortunate actions that come about when you mix holiday cheer/loneliness with alcohol. You did the right thing by responding, but now you have to forget about it...

I used to talk for 8+ hours with my first girlfriend over the phone. After she dumped my boring ass, I swore pretty much this exact thing. I don"t think I"ve had a phone conversation with a lady friend pass the 10 minute mark since and I"ve never regretted it.

I"d set the date and if things go well just let her know you"re going out of town for a bit but that you wouldn"t mind seeing her again when you get back. There"s a very fine line here that you have to walk, otherwise you"ll come off sounding desperate. My relationship ended over the weekend...

I"ve been on both sides of this situation and my advice to you is to move on. You will never be able to fully trust her again and that will EAT at you for the rest of the time you"re together. Little, innocuous things that used to be no big deal will become the bane of your existence, i.e. who...

Unless I fail horribly at copy/paste, I think I have the right guy. It doesn"t, and if anything that might be worse.

She"s not all that into you, and it"s time to move on. The first sign was her not hugging you; the second was her handing you her drink (you shouldn"t have taken it); and the final, most absolute sign that she"s JNTIY was her attempting to pawn you off to another girl. -edit- apparently I do...

If you"re talking about getting her off with your fingers then just make sure that 1) you"re keeping a steady rhythm and 2) you"re actually making contact with her G-spot. Don"t just start off slamming her either, start off slow and build the speed and intensity over time. If you"re talking...

I think that is what people are having problems with. The fact that you were even slightly considering doing the above implies that you haven"t learned your lesson yet. Your best bet here is to delete her number from your phone and never have any contact with her ever again. Having read most...

Dating is a lot like that except the numbers never change and you can always play another ticket. Assuming you don"t keep playing the same numbers you should eventually hit the jackpot.

Seriously, I"m tired of all this "oh this girl is a slut for leaving me, I can"t believe she would fuck me like that, etc.". We all know damn well that at some point or another we"ve done something kinda fucked up to a girl, and if you haven"t just wait a while. I don"t believe there is anything...

Dabamf: In this situation you have every right to be angry, but in my experience getting mad and freezing her out until she gives in is an ineffective way to go about trying to deal with these types of problems. Ultimatums only cause hostility and bad feelings towards the other person. Don"t...

Dianetics: sounds like you"re doing the right thing. Be strong, don"t give in if she comes crawling back (unless you really, really, really like her and think there"s an actual permanent future there). I think drowning yourself in pussy is the worst thing you can do, especially if the...

I think you might have come on a little strong and now she"s not sure if she"s really into you, thus causing all of the mixed messages. Your best bet is to draw back, show her you"re not some needy whacko and let her try and reconnect with you. Honestly if she calls or texts you after 9 or 10 PM...

You aresofucked and you don"t even realize it. Having once been in a position similar to yours, let me give you some advice - move the fuck out as soon as possible and stop fucking the girl. Shit will still probably hit the fan eventually but it won"t be the F5 Shitstorm that you"re currently...

I think you may be overreacting. Just don"t bring up your ex and you"ll be fine.

Eomer: To add to what Dabamf said, it doesn"t seem like you"re being enough of a challenge. You are giving these girls instant access to you and your lifestyle, without ever really bothering to find out if they"re worth it. I"m not judging here, but the chick with the bf was a bad move - even if...

Noooooooo. You"re 6 weeks into the relationship, neither of you is out of the "Endorphin Zone" yet. Do not trust your emotions because they are a product of some seriously sinister brain chemistry. Give it at least 6-9 months before dropping the L word - enough time to be **really** sure this is...

I think the implants look excellent. She could have easily gone for a bigger jump and ended up with some nasty looking, right-angle tits. Grats Brad