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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I wouldn"t worry to much about it. I think as long as she is initiating the "hanging out" at least 1/2 the time you are fine. Any time I"ve gotten into a new relationship, it involved seeing a lot of each other when it first started. While they may not have worked out in the long run, the fact...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Ya, I don"t get this either. My wife is my best friend, and our friendship is the foundation in which our relationship was built. If you were trying for anything resembling a serious relationship you"d WANT it to be with someone who is your friend.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Paycheck with FoHSS written on it or it didn"t happen.
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    Home buying thread

    My wife and I had all kinds of problems dealing with Chase. We were buying a house that was a short-sale and the sellers had a first and a second through chase. Over a period of 3 months we got the biggest run around from Chase. We were basically waiting for them to assign a negotiator to get...
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    Home buying thread

    If he"s worth his price at all he WILL find things, that is his job, nothing is perfect. I"d would get concerned if he DIDN"T find anything actually (in the realtors or builders back pocket for example).
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    Home buying thread

    I would be concerned that the person doesn"t leave on their own. If you agree to let them stay once you take ownership they really become your tenant. I believe if they stay past the agreed time the only way to legally get them out is to evict them which takes time (up to 3 months) and money. I...
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    Home buying thread

    I actually had a bitch of a time dealing with lenders and this. They kept asking our price range and we"d be like "well we are looking in the 250k-300k range but we don"t know what our max range is?" We weren"t too worried about going for our max price because both of us will be making a lot...
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    Home buying thread

    Yes we have our own agent. Not sure what made you think we were locked in, but, we can back out of the offer if we find something else and/or get sick of waiting for their bank. We just haven"t found anything else in our price range that compares to the house we have the offer in on.
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    Home buying thread

    My fiance and I are in the same situation. We put in offer in on a short-sale. House is 5bd 2.5bth 3 car garage 2800 sq feet. Built in "05 I believe. Sellers were in 360,000 (310k mortgage plus a 50k 2nd) asking 299,900. We offered 290,000 (our absolute max) and they accepted and now we are just...
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    Denizens of FOH I call upon thee!

    What the hell do we ask for after this round? Voted