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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I don"t know if not making a movie was really such a deal breaker. For every girl that will go home wondering if he"s interested there"s one that would"ve thought he was too forward for trying something the first time they hung out. I would say he should trust his instincts but it seems he has a...
  2. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That"s not what I meant, and obviously this further illustrates my point that not everyone is the same. There"s a lot of white knights on FOH, but like it or not, men are assholes and heartbreakers too. And a massive amount of people, once they get bored in a relationship or realize it"s going...
  3. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I think guys are like this a lot too. I mean they may not have new girlfriend lined up, but they definitely seem to have someone else ready to fuck them
  4. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    @gavinrad There"s some truth in that. When I started the relationship with this girl I actually talked to my ex who I had lived with, via email, about how things fell apart with us. And things basically fell apart here for the same reason. I"m not an affectionate person, my passive approach at...
  5. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I think the right explanation is often the easiest one: I"m in denial.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    small update on my non macho crap: still dealing with shit with the ex. as many of you pointed out at the time, carrying on any sort of relationship this soon after the mess is going to be damn near impossible. I had lunch with her yesterday and it was extremely difficult not to rub her nose...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You"re missing the point that sometimes it does only happen once, Kirun. Saying all cheaters are the same is like saying all relationships are the same. Not everyone rationalizes it, and not everyone does it again.
  8. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Agreed. I never thought I would do it either, as I"m sure many who think you will never do it now are thinking (and some of you WILL do it). I"m bad at relationships in general, I don"t like to be exclusive and I don"t like the idea of being so invested in someone that when they fuck up (as in...
  9. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I don"t disagree with anything you said, but to pretend like we"re incapable of being dumbasses just because we"re in a relationship is naive. Obviously being drunk and thousands of miles away from the person is a situation just asking for trouble and nine times out of 10 decent people still do...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Never say never. It really can happen to anyone, good or bad, happy or miserable in a relationship. Now carrying on a hidden relationship and doing it more than once in the same relationship just makes you a shithead and takes it to another level, but it"s easier to slip up once than people are...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No she told me, her friends (two of them live together) told me about the lying. This group of friends is from Austin, so they"re people I never see, I"ve seen two of them once in my life, and the one I do "know" (FB) I"ve seen 3-4 times. I only know one of them really and barely at that, but we...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    She was called every hurtful name in the book when I found out. My calmness on the boards is not a mirror image of how I handled the situation. Infact I"m a little disappointed in myself at how pissed I let myself get.
  13. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Fair enough. It"s exactly what I would be saying to someone else posting this shit too. Dabamf really hit the levels of cheating thing right on the head.
  14. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I left her for no real reason other than my own selfishness. I was busy with school and work all the time last spring and was just exhausted all the time. I didn"t want to deal with having a full time job, full time school and a full time girlfriend, so I left her. Reading this article it seems...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That"s what I"m doing right now and that"s why my decision looks foolish, I"m trusting my instincts with her. I may end up with egg on my face, but I have the same bad experiences in the past with thinking someone will change and them proving you wrong. The board is right about me being too...
  16. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You"re not reading things clearly. I ended things between us and I am trying to see if I can have a normal relationship where I can eventually forgive her, as in something I won"t hold over her head until the end of time. My concern right now is not being with her. If my goal was to look cool...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I don"t know in the sense that I wasn"t in the building when it happened, but I feel fairly confident that"s all that happened. I know forgiveness is frowned upon here, but I"m trying a new way of dealing with this. Normally I don"t believe anything my exes or girls I say have to say after they...
  18. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Fair and valid points all around.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Fair point all around in the thread, but this is what drives it home for me and the reason my anger levels went where they went when I heard. I"m trying to handle things calmly and rationally, because I was seeing red pissed last night, and holding onto that anger wasn"t doing anyone any good...
  20. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    she was 20 when we started dating
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You guys realize good people make bad decisions, right? I"m about as jaded as it comes to relationships. I"ve lived with a GF before, been cheated on before, dealt with way too much drama, etc. I"m only recently 28, but I feel like I"ve been around enough women to tell which ones are really just...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I know she"s the one to blame, and I"m not actually going to punch the guy. I"m pretty sure some of you have punched your wall when you were pissed even though it wasn"t the reason you were mad, easy target. She"s really not being manipulative. She"s flat out told me it"s her fault, and I...
  23. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"m told it was a kiss, not even a make out, and no real touching. Her "friends" were so eager to throw her under the bus that I"m sure they would"ve spilled the beans if more happened, and if something more comes to light, that"s it. But I was told he would always reach over in the backseat...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Had she slept with him, it"d be another story. I"m definitely battling on what the right move here is, but I think the cut ties stuff isn"t a real way to handle problems. Either I"m going to be able to forgive her one day, or I"m not. Think I mentioned it before but I was 90% certain the dude...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Totally blindsided me. We had normal couple fights but both of us are very easy going and we never had a "real" problem by relationship standards. Yeah she told me we had been fighting more, which had been bugging her. Put that in her head, throw her on a road trip to the grand canyon and the...
  26. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    She"s 23, about 101lbs. I broke up with her when she said what she had done, but didn"t get the "pls forgive me" speech that normally follows that
  27. ham

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    GF of two years (broke up last summer for a bit, but been back with her since) cheated on me during her "road trip". I"m not the jealous type, so didn"t put up a fight that some guy who I knew liked her went along and I wasn"t. Day before she gets back to town she kisses him, and her friends...
  28. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    you still using YLH?
  29. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    noticed YLH was still working right after I agreed to let the gf borrow the macbook :/
  30. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    macro pls sir
  31. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    please do, and then share the macro again
  32. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    youlikehits is removing facebook likes by tomorrow
  33. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    im at 11.5k points or so on youlikehits. I used one of my fiverr accounts a lot before it finally wanted phone verification again, going to wait until a few more go bunk before emailing bakers_dozen to either get new ones or have those reactivated. not sure what I"m going to do with all my points
  34. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    Tyen are you running multiple scripts at a time and just farming as much points as possible? I"ve set my points to 5 and after not botting at all for a day I only used 700 or so I would say. Not even breaking 200/d. How are people getting thousands in a 24 hour period? You can buy 8000 likes...
  35. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    Tyen can you show where the "edit likes" part of the page is. The accounts I"m using aren"t using timeline and I can only see unliking each page individually as an option. p.s. Bakers got me those accounts. no issues so far p.s.s. had someone make a logo for me for $5. worst shit I"ve ever...
  36. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    so bakers dozen never reactivated my accounts. he asked for another 24 hours and I said sure, then he asked for another 15 and I said sure, then another 24 went by and I asked for an eta and he didn"t respond :/
  37. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    I can"t imagine how doing some of this stuff for $5 is worth it for people on fiverr. Bakers asked me if he could delay giving me my stuff because some guy needed 47 accts recoded, I assumed it was Tyen
  38. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    True, but the perception of success can also be useful depending on what you"re doing. I definitely wouldn"t recommend trying to profit off people who *think* they"re getting a real social media strategy and likes, but some people are also okay knowing that they aren"t reaching a real audience...
  39. ham

    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    haven"t been registering any accounts myself, just the 1 yesterday and then the ones today that I bought, but they weren"t registered by me
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    Defrauding Facebook blackhat thread

    i got my 5 accounts this morning from that $5 site, so that"s going to be a great $5 if this works out. I also had someone make a hamcycles banner for $5. not exactly what I"d want but for $5, not bad. love that site edit: well 15 minutes in and facebook wants it to be phone activated...