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  1. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Having opened up (relatively speaking) to you guys has inspired me to take some tangible steps forward. Last night we agreed she'd stop taking birth control, she'd eat more (she doesn't starve herself, but works too hard and eats too little in order to maintain her figure), and I'm sending her...
  2. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Noodle, You're absolutely right that I'm not completely forthcoming about my situation. It's because I'm not comfortable talking about my close-to-the-vest shit. It's not because I'm a bitch waiting for you to pull my teeth. I said what I had to say and only offered more when I had a couple...
  3. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Haha disgusting. I had no idea. When I said there was nothing on the mirror I had just come from the bathroom after looking and nothing was visible. I saw your post and checked again. Nothing visible. I turned on the hot water and let the steam rise and bingo. Apparently, my mirror was covered...
  4. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm not sure what you're seeing on the mirror, maybe lens flare from the sun? There's absolutely nothing on the mirror. My legs are fine. The picture isn't flattering. Not that I'm suggesting I have tree trunks. I've had three spinal fusions and I do what I can without making things worse.
  5. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    That's obviously my problem. I wish someone had told me sooner.
  6. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I don't agree that I'm behaving like a woman given the reality of my situation. We'lll just agree to disagree there. I do appreciate the rest of the hard line you took. I needed it and it helped. I do the same to my own friends occassionally. Q1: I told my wife the day after I received them...
  7. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    She likes being held down and choked. Maybe I should just surprise her and slap the shit out of her next time I fuck her.
  8. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Shit makes a little more sense I suppose when I open up, but i had hoped to avoid the grimy underbelly. *she bought them
  9. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Lendarios, I took this just before I got in the shower today. Bad lighting, no filter, no pump, and I only took the one picture..I'm 6'..~200 lbs at 13-14% bodyfat.
  10. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Of course I asked what about me. We argued about it. Also, something odd that I've recently noticed about her is that she gets INSANELY wet; I mean absolutely leaking when I am angry with her. She'll cry, but her panties will be dripping.
  11. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Zaara, I've been completely and totally honest with my wife about how I feel. She knows it's a problem. A few years ago things flaired up so badly I was ready to leave and she ended up sitting on the floor bawling, begging me to stay. Obviously, I did. I feel like several of you think this is...
  12. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    There's a whole lot of ridiculous assumptions here despite the fact I have posted specifics. Also, save the righteousness indignation. The suggestion that I'm a failure of a man because I have considered cheating on my wife is laughable. Because none of you have ever had a similar thought...
  13. Grabbit Allworth

    Raid: Shadow Legends

    Do you guys have a reliable site to recommend for proper gearing of new players? I've done some Googling, but there's a lot of conflicting ideas.
  14. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You're right, but it still doesn't feel great. I don't post a lot, but I've been around FoH for two decades, I read the board every single day, and I've come to respect the opinions of a lot of posters (though some of you are colossal wastes of skin and oxygen) hence the pride-swallowing...
  15. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I appreciate the thoughtful response. It sounds like our experiences in relationships couldn't be more different. In truth, I really don't have much to complain about with my wife other than what's already been stated. I know my singular complaint seems superficial, but vanilla sex is really...
  16. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    My wife is a 7 and definitely hot for being 40ish, but not 'picturesque -hot.' She's multi-orgasmic, but I honestly have no idea if it's more her or me. Likely just the way she's built, but I know which buttons to push. I do treat her exceptionally well and my body is easily provable with a...
  17. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Which is my fundamental concern and the very real problem I am wrestling with. Deal with it or go? Part of me says I am just being a giant faggot.
  18. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Hyperbole? Regardless, I'll bite. She hates it when I touch her in public -- "Someone will see you." I occasionally do stick my finger in her ass while eating her pussy or fingering her and she, very obviously, just tolerates it. I suppose I should be thankful that she does enjoy being held...
  19. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I absolutely make her feel loved/needed. I literally shower her in attention all of kinds. I always have and still do (which is where a lot of the resentment comes from because she doesn't reciprocate). There is absolutely no question in her mind that she is loved and that I find her incredibly...
  20. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It is a lot harder when you've got legitimate, high-quality opportunities. I'm a firm believer in that both men and women are, typically, only as faithful as their options. Ignoring those options is where the 'real' men and women are. I've always prided myself on my fidelity. Especially in a...
  21. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I've been with my wife for almost 18 years and she's honestly a wonderful wife. Gorgeous, loyal as a dog, fiscally responsible, intelligent, etc. We even have sex regularly. However, despite the fact that we have sex all the time, our sex life has been a point of serious contention between us...
  22. Grabbit Allworth

    Raid: Shadow Legends

    I just started playing this game a few weeks ago. I don't have much experience with mobile games, but this one is pretty fun.
  23. Grabbit Allworth

    Mutant Year Zero: The Road to Eden

    There aren't a ton of games that I have the patience to play start-to-finish in a reasonable amount of time these days, but I finished the base game over a single week. It's fun and not overly complex. I'll definitely be playing the expansion at some point.
  24. Grabbit Allworth

    Baldur's Gate 3 by Larian Games

    I've looked at it in the past, but a lot of people in the reviews are saying it's slam-your-dick-in-a-door level of difficulty. *Fuck it. It's 3 bucks. I'll try it and report back.
  25. Grabbit Allworth

    Arkk's Weight Lifting / Fitness Thread

    I wasn't necessarily advocating for "touching the chest." In fact, I don't do it myself. However, I do typically come within about 1" of it. I lift heavy, but I'm also really protective of my body while doing it. I make sure I keep my shoulder blades pinned, elbows reasonably tucked, etc. I...
  26. Grabbit Allworth

    Arkk's Weight Lifting / Fitness Thread

    No hate Brahma, but if that's you in the incline video, your range of motion is incredibly suspect.
  27. Grabbit Allworth

    Arkk's Weight Lifting / Fitness Thread

    Any of you have any experience with Citruline Malate? I've never used it, but I bought some today. There's a ton of research that it actually works and it's far more effective than L-Arginine because it's taken up a lot more efficiently after conversion.
  28. Grabbit Allworth

    Arkk's Weight Lifting / Fitness Thread

    I've plateaued at 245x8 on my working sets for the last 5 weeks, but ive been on a 750 calorie deficit and on Keto for 2 months so it doesn't bother me too much. My max is 290ish. I just want to hit 315 again and then I'm done with giving a fuck about getting any stronger.
  29. Grabbit Allworth

    Baldur's Gate 3 by Larian Games

    I played and beat the entire Black Isle line as a teenager back when they were first released, but I haven't touched them in 20ish years. I honestly don't remember too much about them other than I loved them. Are the enhanced versions really worth playing now? I've seen a lot of mixed/polarized...
  30. Grabbit Allworth

    Cyberpunk 2077

    The YouTube AI converts all content to a transcript and indexes the 'trigger' words. Content with those words in it is either immediately demonitized through algorithm or reviewed by human eyes for wrongthink (and demonetization.)
  31. Grabbit Allworth

    The Division 2

    It's a great game. I played it continuously for close to three weeks and had a lot of fun... until I didn't. I don't think I've ever had my enjoyment of a game fall off so precipitously.
  32. Grabbit Allworth

    The D&D thread

    Thetrove.net
  33. Grabbit Allworth

    Baldur's Gate 3 by Larian Games

    This is probably heresy, but I have always thought Minsc and Boo were lame as fuck.
  34. Grabbit Allworth

    Baldur's Gate 3 by Larian Games

    I'm not surprised in the least. We can only hope that the woke mafia has minimal influence.
  35. Grabbit Allworth

    Baldur's Gate 3 by Larian Games

    I'm incredibly excited about this. The next few years are going to be a gaming orgasm for me. BG:3, the Vampire sequel, Wasteland 3, and obviously 2077.
  36. Grabbit Allworth

    Baldur's Gate 3 by Larian Games

    I'm actually excited for them to be heading the project. DoS: 2 had some pretty glaring issues, but the game was amazing. I do hope that the BG:3 retains the gritty feel of the first two. Some people really enjoy campy RPGs, but I absolutely hate them.
  37. Grabbit Allworth

    Baldur's Gate 3 by Larian Games

    I actually find Critical Role quite palatable (at least in the 60 or so episodes of season 2 that I have watched) relative to a lot of other work. Granted, I completely avoid getting to know anything about any of the CR cast outside of what I learn through their weekly stream. It's just become...
  38. Grabbit Allworth

    Baldur's Gate 3 by Larian Games

    Related YouTube videos, WotC employee/affiliate interview transcripts, social media posts, etc. There's just so much noise. For example: a few weeks ago, D&D Beyond published a YouTube video about racism/inter-sectional bias (lol..........) on their channel. They interviewed a Black woman about...
  39. Grabbit Allworth

    Baldur's Gate 3 by Larian Games

    I'm going to wholeheartedly disagree about WoTC. The entire company is infected with rampant SJWism. If you don't see it, you're not paying enough attention. Good for you though. I wish I could have stayed ignorant to it, but I love D&D and I consume a lot of extra content. So, for me, it's...
  40. Grabbit Allworth

    Health Problems

    I've never used Kratom, but I've learned a lot about it and I'm not an advocate. Much of the information floating around (including much of the Netflix documentary) is false or half-truth. In addition to being completely unregulated, it IS addictive. Granted, it's a lot less potent than...