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I dodged a bullet with the crazy Russian girl. God loves me.

I can kind of sympathize. There was this chick who I had a crush on for quite a while but she was always in a relationship and she was foolishly devoted to her jackass of a boyfriend. I met her in the States, but she was from Kazakhstan, and even after she returned to Kazakhstan we kept in...

It could easily be your tone of voice or word choice when giving your input. Sometimes it"s more important how you say something than what you say. Another thing to think about is whether or not you"re acknowledging the other person"s opinions as valid. If you listen to someone"s opinion and...

I tend to agree with Brekk. Movies are fine if you plan something afterward. My personal favorite are those Dave and Busters type of places. There"s alcohol for loosening up, a nice, casual atmosphere with lots of opportunities for talking, and the games give some relief from the...

Solar Plexus is serious business. Don Gato died after breaking his in a fall from a roof.

I"ve never heard of or known any guys who were paranoid or intimidated by toys. On the contrary, it"s always seemed like a good thing when a chick has tons of toys cause it means she"s got a crazy sex drive and you won"t get stuck with a dead fish in the sack.

<iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/svt06ZJHieo" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> Crazy is global.

One of the first things I did after coming back was delete her from all the social network sites I use (which I think is a good move after any break-up). One of the Russian social network sites I use shows who visits your page, and I noticed that she visited my page a few days after I got...

I think asking for more implies enjoyment.

I will say this thread was extremely helpful to me (Kazakhstan guy). Advice from friends was good, but having input based on facts without any emotional attachment was invaluable for helping me with my situation. Honestly, I probably wouldn"t have done it without this thread.

I think it"s common knowledge that outside the USA girls are not nearly as fat and thus much hotter. We"ve got them here in the states, but they"re diluted by the obese black chicks who think they"re hot and the fat Mexican skanks with the sharpie eyebrows. That said, the grass is always...

Small update since many seemed to be interested. I"m back in the States now. Haven"t heard anything from her regarding the letter/money, and at this point I probably won"t as she doesn"t know my US cell number and I severed most means of Internet communication (facebook, etc). I"ve got a...

This thread has been pretty dry of drama lately, so I"ll post an update on my situation. Fast forward for TLDR version. Full version:Last night she wanted me to have sex without a condom, and I explained to her that while I love her, I don"t think either of us is ready to risk involving a...

As you said, you"re not with a crazy person. This approachreallydoesn"t work with true crazies. Unfortunately, I know.

Ask and ye shall receive! After we fought and I ended it I got pretty sick and for several days she tried to comfort me and bought me medicine and made me tea and food, all of which I refused and basically acted like an asshole towards her, telling her that we were done and I didn"t need/want...

I understand all women are a bit crazy, but there are various levels. In my opinion and experience, this girl is just too sensitive and gets irrationally angry far, far too much about far, far too many trivial things. Am I wrong in thinking that? Let me give another example. I really don"t think...

Ok, so I tried talking to her about it. We sat down last night and I explained that I can"t continue to live life like I have been. That is, to feel like I always have to walk on egg shells around her for fear of her getting offended and exploding due to some offhand, harmless comment/question...

Thanks for all the insights. Thanks for the link. I looked over it, and a lot of it does sound like her. Although she"s never done anything in extremes (doesn"t drink, doesn"t smoke, doesn"t really have any vices) and she"s never actually hurt herself or tried to hurt herself other than that one...

She"s had tests done, and physically her heart seems to be fine. It"s all related to stress, and it almost only happens when she"s in a very stressful situation. It began, for example, when she was preparing for her Thesis defense at the end of her master"s degree a couple years ago. One of...

Background: I live and work overseas and have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years, and we"ve been living together for about a year in the apartment rented for me by my company. We met each other when I was in another city (her city) and a couple months later she came to my city. The...

and in the fucked-up mind of a woman you"ll be the bad guy for putting a keylogger on the computer.

Just stop looking for women in America. As has been brought up before, ridiculously expensive wedding rings are a cultural thing, particularly American and "Western" cultures. Go find yourself a nice Eastern European girl. I know that for Russians earrings are actually considered the...

It all depends on the girl. You"ve just got to gauge her and decide if she"s the romantic-comedy type who will think flowers are a romantic gesture, or the more pessimistic (realistic?) type who will see it has trying-too-hard/creepy. There are even some girls who enjoy things like "The Package".

I don"t have any advice to add, but I wanted to say something about foreign girls. Judging interest in you from American standards when you"re not in the USA can be a huge minefield, cause the cultural differences are so different in so many ways. Dabamf has been in Korea long enough to...

Don"t worry man, it"s a recognized psycho-medical condition. <object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/qnUXZg55DR8?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess"...

I"ve had a very similar experience to Dianetics08. Girl claimed she had never masturbated because "she never felt like it and didn"t know how anyway." I didn"t believe it at first, but her low sex drive and inexperience with everything "down there" convinced me. Turns out she just had a very...

What are some opinions on hanging out/spending time with female friends when you"re in a relationship? (And from the other side, your girlfriend hanging out with her male friends). I have a few really good female friends, some of whom I"ve known for many years, and this came up a while ago...

I"m curious, too. I"m in a very similar situation myself actually, as I"m living abroad temporarily and in a fairly serious, comfortable relationship with a local. Interested to hear your plans, if any.

Assume you cheated on a girlfriend in the past. If your current girlfriend asked you if you"ve ever cheated, would you be honest? Also assume it"s more than a piece of ass and she"s actually someone you care about (your current girlfriend, I mean).

Always a hit with the ladies:

I"ve been in your situation (I"m sure most guys have, actually). Like you said, it depends on the specific people involved. Without knowing you two there is no answer anyone here can give about it being salvageable or not. When (if...) you make a decision, you should go into it assuming that...

For anyone interested, I wasn"t (nor will I be) fired and deported. Sorry to disappoint. After our lesson on Friday she invited me to go to a club with her and her girlfriend. So we hung out there for a while, dropped off her girlfriend, then went back to her apartment (where I had left my...

I"m contemplating a situation that could (hilariously, for you guys at least) explode in my face. Spoilered for length, I wrote way more than I expected. Spoiler Alert, click show to read: I"m currently living abroad and teaching English. This past week I started teaching a new class and...

"Nice guys finish last" really is one of the truest sayings ever. Honestly, being nice gets you jack shit, not only in relationships but in general. It fucking sucks to be a nice guy.

I"ve been reading this thread since its inception, and I guess I"ll finally contribute a little story. Started dating a girl back in late February, someone I met at work. We began by going out for drinks as friends/coworkers a few times in January/February and took it to the next step towards...

I mean the deal, not the thread. I figured Papa Johns would be all over something like this. The headache it caused is probably pretty severe after letting it go unchecked for several days. Not only did they give away a lot of free pizzas, but they now have to deal with irate customers who...

I"m shocked at how long this lasted. I expected a day tops.