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I"m confused. edit: lol

So she"s not only crazy but overly demanding. Poor you.

Shrug, I"m 24 and my gf is 19, its not that big a deal.

so have you tried searching for her name on facebook?

I forsee within one year"s time. 1. His ex demands child support. 2. During the proceedings they discover his side income while collecting unemployment. 3. He end"s up owing child support, back child support, and back taxes. It is Brad after all.

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Drinking at an Outback, and a motel. Classy.

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Way to fuck it up. Is that the graph for fun or life expectancy of women around Aych.

CONDOMS. Hell, you can even hold onto the condom and save it as a to-go snack for later.

She decided a long time ago. Friend Zone. Just move on.

Has it been that long already? /tear

bite me.

Being in it for the relationship, not just the quick fuck. I don"t get off on one night things.

The end goal is to project that you are interested, and that they are lucky you are. Ambivalent confidence without something to show that your also interested in them isn"t good enough. Nor is making it clear from the start the you are interested, but overdoing it to the point of looking...

She found someone else she wants to bang, and doesn"t want to cheat. But she also doesn"t want to lose future opportunities with you if he doesn"t work out. Everyone knows about the Friend Zone, but there is an equally insidious place to get stuck when you ARE in a relationship with that...

Brad, you are a piece of work my friend. lol

Women go for the assholes. Guys go for the crazy.

Yeah playful banter like that with some clear intelligence is probably the number one thing I look for in a girl. (This is assuming a certain baseline for looks) It shows a lot of confidence. I used to know a girl who tried to make jokes like that or be "smart-assy" but anytime the joke was...

Exactly what I was thinking.

That"s what you"re letting it ALL ride on. A woman who has divorced you and moved on sitting idle for 14 years and not at any point thinking, "I want more money. OMG! And I can fuck over Brad at the same time."

Oh I didn"t miss the other posts. I just don"t know why you felt the need to carry on that retardation to more threads.

seriously

Well no system is full proof, but from the person paying the child supports point of view at least he can see how the money is being spent. The zero accountability of how child support is spent is the largest issue with the standard system.

Keep VERY GOOD documentation of that whole system. Just in case she ever goes the "he doesn"t pay child support" route. Just to cover your own ass. But I"ll definitely give you kudos for coming up with that system, quite superior to the standard child support system.

Never meant to be a dick about it. I didn"t realize there was a lack of child support, yes that does give you a lot less power. Just be warned even bending to her wishes now doesn"t protect you from that. If she decides one day to demand it there"s not much you can do. Best I can say is just...

That"s really mature. This is true, if you"re trying to get soul custody. You have joint custody and it"s well within your rights and the courts powers to make sure you get ample fair visitation rights with your own child. The one thing that will fuck you over, is your showing up at her place...

Oh I know, when my parents got divorced my mom did some really vindictive shit well into my teen years to try to get back at my dad. For the most part they handled it well and stayed civil, but a few times shit hit the fan.

This. You guys aren"t concerned with whats best for your kid, you just using him as a medium to fight with each other. You guys need to sit down with a neutral mediating party (either a lawyer, or a therapist) and work this shit out.

Because Lawyers and the Government are evil and he doesn"t want to prepare for battle. Brad, how old is your son?

He didn"t get played, he got free sex with no strings (except the STD"s)

Enjoy your diseases.

Sucking cum out of a cooter. - Priceless

Yeah, just go along with her saying I love you and keep hittin it until something new falls into your lap.

Don"t tell him for you personal benefit, tell him to save your kid from going through another shitty divorce.

Well if she wasn"t honest with him about your divorce then that relationship is already in a shitty place.

Was the cheating a cause of your divorce? I"m sure its been mentioned in the thread but I dont remember.

Isn"t flaunting that you don"t need to flaunt about your relationship because its so awesome, basically flaunting about your relationship. sigh, i shoulda been a lawyer.

So your relationship is fine and you"re VERY insecure about being a Lawyer. got it.