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Oh, I know.

I know. thats what the last three days was- me standing up to her and not letting her control me anymore (or my time with my son)... Anyways, this is the kind of shit I have to deal with:

Having a lawyer isnt going to keep me from "exploding". Knowing that i can control myself is what keeps me from exploding. The therapy that you guys pushed on me for the longest time has helped a lot. One of the biggest things is a string of questions I ask myself to get to the root of my...

Getting a lawyer really wont help me. She is a good mom and the only way I am going to really get what I want (custody), I would have to prove she is an unfit mother. Getting a lawyer for any other reason will only put me into the category of other dads that were given cookie cutter court...

This thread has really helped me decipher what is bullshit and what is fact. I met my ex"s soon to be husband tonight. Funny story, actually- She manipulated me through my son this weekend. Used my guilt against me which made me cancel plans I had with my son so my ex could take him to do...

Are you genuinely interested in her?

I have already accepted that. I mean it when i say it- (and I have said it to my own parents and her) I hope he doesnt hurt her like I did. I hope she doesnt feel the need to look for love outside of her marriage with him. I mean that with all of my heart. She deserves it. She was a perfect...

Do you not read? My marriage was lost due to lack of communication.

I dont plan to tell him anything. One thing I learned (recently) is that things will come out in the wash eventually. This past summer, my new assistant that was hired was only with the company for 2 months and was telling my boss lies about me. Some pretty severe things that were straight up...

Oh, I knew it was before I ever posted....

The cheating is what brought all of our issues to the table. Our reason for divorce was the lack of communication. It was still our reason for not reconciling the 2 times we got back together. Even though i was willing to talk, I"m not good at telling someone how I feel and she wasnt willing...

I have not arranged a date, but I will be meeting my son"s soon-to-be step dad. My ex informed me that he doesnt know she cheated on me.... I want so bad to tell the guy, but I know its not my place. Life was a million times easier when I was naive and dumb to the "real" shit that goes on...

Any woman (or man) with sense wouldnt cheat.

Just something that happened this morning that I wanted to get out. If youre one of my haters, dont click it and spare yourself. Spoiler Alert, click show to read:A lot of what i do in life is based off of gut feelings or dreams that i may have had. a few days ago, I had one of my ex. I...

This is too true. I have a had a taste of this and I dont want to be single anymore. It"s one of the reasons I have such a hard time with things now is because being single doesnt compare to what was said above.

Fuck you. I should make you look for it because youre not at default settings.

Here is a PM I received from her before she had access (4-2-2009): Went ahead and looked it up since I had the date. Starts here:

Isnt the one you got for keeps an unwanted preganancy? Shut the fuck up... I await your rebuttal.

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Things didnt get "fucked up"... But whatever. She wanted to move home. I didnt want to make the drive anymore. Things ended. Anyways, went out with that 20 year old last night. It was fun times, but I didnt have fun. Friend sent me an email last night asking how things went. This is...

Dont hate because Im not burying my face in your tits.

Then here is a belly buster for you- I got 2 phone numbers today. One from a woman that is 34 and one from woman (girl) that is 20. Going out with the 20 year old tonight. What better way to drown my sorrows than in between a pair of tits?!

You cant. She has to do that herself. Just reassure her you are not that type of person and hope it establishes trust. She has to trust you (or anyone)

My ex is getting married.

I have no problem treating women like that. My problem is being too nice to the ones I like. I cant fucking keep from being the nice guy around them.

But he is getting mad sex and a chance for a threesome. He wont dump it until it dumps him.

This is the first year I have spent Valentines Day alone (since I was 20)... Kind of sucks. I havent been doing shit when it comes to women. I havent gone out and have stopped eating out as much too. I am banking a good chunk of change. Someone in here mentioned something about "Focus on...

Lots of Arby Q and one of these-

Just make up a fake account and go look at other guy"s accounts. Then make it different than those. make sure there is some funny. My best successes were the ones that made them laugh, but be ready to bring the funny when you take them out. The ones I liked were the ones I was too serious with...

Ok, first I said Cream Pie"ing as a joke and left it... But I came back in, ninja edited and added that what i was saying WAS a joke... Then I informed you that I over looked where you said you pulled out. Calm the fuck down, man. I actually had a huge paragraph typed out, but I said I...

Then stop cream pie"ing her... internet joke, btw... I have nothing against you, Tarrant. I make a point to read every word you, Eomer, and Ronaan have to say, so I dont see how I over looked it, but my appologies, good sir.

The mistake was not pulling out, mang. But I will stop beating this dead horse. Im done talking about it. As for my train of thought- I really dont know what my problem is. I have these inner battles in my head that I cant seem to get under control. One part of me loves her and wants the best...

Now youre just being silly... I said the same shit you did, but I didnt wrap it up in a nice little bow. The guy made a stupid mistake. I could care less if I am "in the cellar" on some random message board. Go eat another twinkie, you delusional cunt. EDIT- Going to have to add that the...

Not sure why you keep bringing up my "Happiness" as a reason that I am calling you stupid. Of all the people on this board, you can go through every one of my posts and I NEVER had anything bad to say about anyone. I dont feel my state of mind is a reason to unleash on others. I am not a bully...

No one said you have to be upset. No one is really telling you how to feel in any way, form or fashion. Youre acting like she is "The One" when you have no idea other than you got some hair dresser pregnant and youre hoping for the best. You know what? I was hoping for the best and pretty...

Touche, but it still doesnt change the fact that you fucked up. Getting a chick you have known for 4 1/2 months pregnant, thats stupid man. Plain and simple. No matter what you say, that was the most ridiculous thing you could do. She JUST met your kids and you havent even lived with her to...

Or there is the third that uses more than one condom. It takes like 15 seconds to roll one on....

Tarrant, I dont know what to say... I will gladly accept a 3 month ban for "is really fucking stupid" to be put under his name. Permanently. *edit* The more I fucking think about it, why the fuck werent you pulling out anyways? You should have learned from the first break. Dude...

Wow dude.... That"s not a "el oh el" situation.......

I dont have a Google account. Just have it as my home page.