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Since my ex had her implants, we have had sex a couple of times. I know I was too clingy. Not being around her means I see my son less and now that she (maybe) lowered my visitation days, I will see him even less. Last Weds, I was talking to her and mentioned that I would think it would be...

Ok, I saw a therapist 2 nights ago. I debated posting here, but I figured I would at least give a follow up. The visit wasnt bad and I never thought it would be (just not sure it would work). She let me sit where I wanted and said I could talk about what was on my mind, even if it was a...

Yes Well, I say yes because me being an asshole is probably the fact that I lack confidence. I am an asshole because its my best attempt at fake condfidence.

The thing is, youre no savior. You know nothing about how I raise my child. Anyways, I took a few days to "soak" in what you said and there are a few things I realized, but the most important one is this: You really dont know what youre talking about. There are things I used to put before...

She isnt giving advice. She is telling me how my son will turn out. I dont care if she bashes me or my mom, but I have said before- My son stays out of this. She brings him up EVERY fucking time she has anything to say about my situation. I dont talk about my son because he is a part of my life...

You "LOL" while eating another Hostess cake, you fat bitch?

To Dabamf: I am not looking for someone to blame. I am man enough to admit my mistakes and did so almost 2 years ago when I posted about my marriage failing.

Ok, some quick background on my mom (what i know). My sister actually knows more of what happened to my mom than I know and she is 10 years younger than me. I am pretty naive to shit within my family. But being that way has also kept me pretty close with all of them. My family doesnt get a...

Well, I dont have shit to say to that. EDIT- Look, Im sorry, but I fucking cant get past the fact that I really think its going to be a waste of money. They fucking could care less what happens to you once your hour is up. I cant bring myself to make someone richer because they fucking make...

Why, because I am trying to take advice and use it? Fuck off. I NEVER played these games when I was younger. I didnt date as a teenager, got into my first relationship with my ex and got married at 24. I was married until I was 30. I was always honest about my feelings and that shit doesnt...

Unsure of it working. My mom has seen shrinks and it has done nothing for her. Anyways, my ex wanted me to come over today. I told her No and she actually got angry. When I asked why she was angry, she said she wasnt. Than she started asking when I was going to come over and I told her I...

Well, one of my closest friends has been talking to me recently about "professional help". He has even admitted he has gone in the past (the death of his mom and here recently, the death of his dad). I had no idea he had gone. He supports me going. I will look into it, but I am still unsure.

Well, until her words change, I am not going to change. Her actions do not follow what she says. Those are games. I do care for her and do want things to work, but I have put forth a large amount of effort. What has helped me here recently is what Debamf said- "You" havent changed, but you...

Yes. Plain and simple. BUT, I am 100% tired of her games and childish attitude. This is the reason I have avoided talking to her in text and really do not talk to her at all unless I have something positive to say. And even then, I really hardly say anything at all. I dont mind listening...

I am pretty sure I already know the answer, but I am posting because I want to know if I am right. I am trying to learn how to cope with this shit and stay strong, without giving in to shit: Since we had sex, I have left her alone again. She has texted me a couple of times, if it warranted an...

Word. Would you like your internet as a + or a -?

Because at this point in her life, she has everything being offered to her, pretty much. edit- Well, at least what I see from my ex. She has about 4-5 women that want her to go party and dance with them. She has about 1-3 guys at any time (that she would actually consider dating) wanting to...

Glad to see I"m not the only one getting Grobbee"s love.

32, my ex is 27. My mistake was marrying her way too early. Married when i was 24 and she was 19.

There is no reason to spend 3k (or more) on a lawyer to fight something that hasn"t happened yet. As of right now, she says she has no intentions of getting child support, but she also told me 2 years ago that as long as I take care of my son as i should (seeing him and paying half of his...

I agree with what you say. I still dont think a shrink would help me, but I do agree I have issues. Bottom line- I try and be the man she begged me to be years ago and it does no good. I dont know what to do or how to handle the situation. My attitude and responses are based off of 2...

She uses my son as leverage and I dont know how to break the cycle when it comes to him. If I call her bluff, then I see him less and I am one more step away of her getting child support payments out of me. I support my child now. I refuse to support HER through the guise of child...

I get to see my son less unless I "Do what she wants".... I dont really know what else to do. Thats why i posted. I dont want to see my son for only 26 weekends of the year..... (keep in mind, I work on Saturdays, so its even less) And before I am bashed about "Not wanting to pay child...

So, I fucked my ex-wife tonight. Since I have seen her she has: Got new boobs (they look amazing.) Got a new tattoo. She told me the story behind it- Her and 3 of her friends got the same one. Some stupid chinese writing that means Eternal Friends and some kind of Chinese flower. She...

Girl I dated about a year and a half ago called me earlier. Asked what i was up to. Didnt say much. Asked what I could do for her and she said she was just curious what i was doing. She asked if she could do anything for me and I said "Send me a pic of your tits" This is what i got. I didnt...

Or assimilated her so she can use their weaponry.

What I have learned that has helped me (at least when it comes to women) is: Its ALL or NOTHING. Either she wants you all of what you want or you give her nothing. It may be fucked up thinking, but its the only thing that helps me keep what sanity I have left. Dont respond to her at...

Can I subsitute flowers and a hand written sonnet with my right ear?

I dont watch the news, so I have no idea what you are talking about. but speaking of gyms, my gym membership was cancelled today for some reason. Guess I will need to go down and talk to them. Might have to use force.....

I have never really tried to have game. My problem has been being too much of myself. I constantly speak my mind and I really do not know when to keep to myself and when I should state my opinion. If something is on my mind, I let the person know to whom it concerns. My dating issues have...

I want to point out here that I am far from scared to get a girl"s number. I just scare them after we hang out once or twice.

Spork, I was reluctant to read your story because when i initially started to read it (a day or so ago), in the beginning, it started to sound like mine. I knew where it was headed, so I stopped reading it. Well, I just took the time to read it and it made me sad. i teared up some, actually...

So, last night I get a random text from my ex- "I will be going in soon for my consultation with a doctor for breast augmentation" I really didnt know what to say. I have never thought my ex had horrible tits. They are not big at all, but I always thought they looked nice. Oh well, maybe I...

Pussy is Pussy when youre in a dry spell. Especially if the pussy is hawt.

blueberry pickin to cherry stickin. +1 in my book. Youre still a ricer faggot though. You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to brekk again. Sorry, I tried.

The whole reason i posted- I have gotten phone numbers from women at my job before. So many people meet dates through work. My main concern was the fact that i cut her off. I guess we will see.

no, its not this. She is having a hard time because of identity theft. She has money. They didnt take her money, just fucked up some credit cards. And I responded by asking for her number because I was busy and wanted to continue the conversation/follow up on her ordeal when i had more...

Grobbee is right. Man, I fucking loathe admitting when you are right. She has her payments set up to me automatically, so that is only the second time I have seen her. She may not have wanted anything but someone to talk to, but I was only being honest when i cut her off. In my defense, I did...

Ok, I just ran into a situation that I am not sure where it might go. I am busy right now, so I felt kind of rushed. Anyways, I just had one of my tenants come in. She was explaining she was having a hard time because she was a victim of identity theft. She also brought up that she was just...

Thats a question. Dont ask her. "hey, text me a good time to call" because girls dont like to call... (and even some are getting to where they dont even like to be called)