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  1. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    What are people"s opinions on how much is too much in terms of seeing someone when first starting out in a relationship? Just kinda curious. Obviously it changes from situation to situation, but just in general terms. I hung out with Jill, the new girl, last Tuesday, Saturday, Tuesday, and...
  2. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"d say after she"s nailed about 3-5 other dudes. Kidding! But seriously, if it"s a long term relationship that she"s coming out of it could well be 6-12 months before there"s any hope of her falling in to something meaningful or lasting, unless she"s marriage/baby crazy which brings up it"s...
  3. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So. Um. Seriously, who suggested giving used lingerie to a new girlfriend? I mean really? Spoiler Alert, click show to read: lol, things went pretty goddamn sideways with this. Keeping it as short as possible, went to Canmore to hang out with a bud, Diane, and another friend. We ended up...
  4. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I was literally in the bathroom about to get my wank on when she called and was like "hey! I"m 15 minutes early and out front!" I knew better than to even try after the call, since the pressure would just make it that much harder to achieve. I"d probably have walked out the front door still...
  5. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I think it"s really dependent on the circumstances. I hadn"t jerked in a couple days, haven"t had sex in a month or two, and was horny as shit because it was the first time messing around with a new girl who"s really attractive. Add all that up and it was a recipe for blue balls. Or a 30 second...
  6. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah, but then if you click on one of the external links (Discovery Health "Blue Balls") and go to the second page, and you see shit like this: FUCK YOUR FEELINGS, MY ENTIRE PELVIC REGION IS THROBBING BECAUSE YOU ARE A COCK TEASING BITCH edit: to be clear I"m not saying I was pissed last...
  7. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So, I want to fucking know who is telling chicks that blue balls don"t happen and that it"s just a myth for guys to try to pry their way in to girl"s pants? I"ve had a handful of girls mention that to me and it pisses me off more each time. Especially since I was in the midst of a lovely case...
  8. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Hulu be all banned in Canada and shit. Cole"s Notes version? Nah, I think it"s pretty simple. As half a dozen guys have said, just listen and make appropriate "uh-huh" sounds and if she specifically requests your opinion, give it. Otherwise just listen. I can get a good rant and rave up from...
  9. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No surprise there, he"s likely been cheating for years. Sucks the kids will lose their surrogate dad.
  10. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I don"t think so, no. From what I can tell, Tom"s getting bored and wandering, and Sabrina while not handling it well isn"t exactly off the mark when she accuses him of cheating or flirting. I mean, the dude DID cheat (errr, re-reading, it appears that he didn"t with Hope but did with someone...
  11. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Unsure if serious. Sometimes it can help get your mind off the ex, sometimes it just reinforces the feeling of loss. I don"t think there"s any surefire way or steps to get over a break up other than time and not wallowing in self pity by staying active, whether that"s with friends or chasing...
  12. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    fixed
  13. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Video Girl - Home - Barbie.com> * What?
  14. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This. If she"s a decent, independent girl she"ll WANT to pay from time to time, even if it"s not exactly 50/50. Frankly I don"t care who pays and will generally grab the bill first, but if they want to pay I just say "okay great thanks for dinner" and leave it at that.
  15. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Fuck, we"ve been over this. She already has the kimono!
  16. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    <3
  17. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Second part, fuck yes post nudes of your ex. However for the most part the thread is a livejournal of dating failures. First part, it don"t mean much. We"re now up to 18 months of her occasionally fishing for attention, and me most often giving it. I just responded that was amusing and that I...
  18. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Hate to be a combo breaker, but I feel obligated to provide Anne updates when they arise. Out of the blue tonight I get a text from her: "Had a weird dream last night that you and I went out for dinner in Disneyland. How are you?" Smilies. Bitches love smilies.
  19. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Actually I didn"t end up doing anything about it. Call it thinking out loud or whatever, it certainly helps me to write my thoughts out both so I can evaluate for myself and also see what people have to say. The consensus of course is that I"d be wasting my time and effort. And no, I haven"t...
  20. Eomer

    Home buying thread

    You could well be right, I went through setting that stuff up 5 years ago and things have certainly changed since. Regardless of it being home equity though, everyone should take the time to set up a line of credit for themselves even if they never use it and it"s only a couple thousand...
  21. Eomer

    Home buying thread

    It would depend on your specific mortgage whether or not you can get a line of credit on your equity, so ask your bank or mortgage provider. Yes, of course you pay interest on the line of credit when you withdraw money, but that shouldn"t be an issue as it should only be used for emergencies...
  22. Eomer

    Home buying thread

    Answer: get a home equity line of credit instead of having $40k sitting in a GIC or savings account losing money after inflation. Look at it this way for a house worth $245,000 and ignoring anything but the mortgage interest and principal: 3.5%/$8,500 down = 236,500 principal @ 20 years @...
  23. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Hung up isn"t the right phrase at all. I just think she"s a cool chick and we have fun hanging out, and I thought that perhaps I"d picked up some signals that she was interested in trying things again. I haven"t had any strong feelings for her since I got involved in the whole Xerxes/Anne thing.
  24. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Alright, gonna make a separate post to request opinions or advice regarding Chuck. Back story if you care to refresh the more recent happenings: So other than the texts immediately after the game, neither of us has contacted the other. When we had parted ways, the last thing she...
  25. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I really disagree. Is it an indication she may not be worth keeping? Yeah, I"d agree there"s some correlation there. But just because she puts out fairly early doesn"t mean she"s a turbo slut/whore. Isn"t this kind of the definition of putting the pussy up on a pedestal? You"re fairly young...
  26. Eomer

    Stock technical analysis software

    Since a couple people have put their money where their mouths are, I"ll post a couple screens of my RRSP. Not sure what the American equivalent is, but basically it"s a registered account where you can make contributions (18% of income up to a max of around 23k for 2010 I believe) that are...
  27. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Honestly, you guys are over reacting. I called her on Saturday when I hadn"t heard back becauseI regularly don"t get fucking texts. Or they show up 12 hours late. Two days before plans with a buddy had been fucked up because I didn"t get his texts, and I"ve found that the texting issues tend to...
  28. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Thanks, I"d been noticing that myself but wasn"t sure what the problem or solution was. Went back and fixed.
  29. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So I texted her last week and said I had forgotten to call her that weekend because of the excitement of my sister having her baby, she said no worries and congrats, and I asked her if she"d be up for a hockey game on Thursday. She said sure she could and "yay" because she was on day shifts, but...
  30. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah but if the bitch keeps intentionally killing you in Little Big Planet, you"re fully justified in giving her five across the eyes.
  31. Eomer

    Adventures with lyrical - buying a business

    There"s ways around it, I"m sure. Isn"t the Oregon coast chock full of brew pubs? There"s at least one chain of them in Alberta (Brewster"s, how original) and a lot of smaller ones, none of whom sell their beer outside their establishments. I"m sure they just pay tax on the liquor at time of...
  32. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Do not want.
  33. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    And all of that is controllable in the privacy settings. The only people who can see pictures I"m tagged in are ones that are in them as well basically. If someone can just google your name and find shit out about you that"s embarassing or damning, chances are you"ve got bigger worries than...
  34. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I don"t think I spend some inordinate amount of time either trying to get with chicks, or dedicating time towards behavior modification or something. Nor do I try to be someone else. I"ve never read one of the "gaming books", other than some articles here and there. I"m not consciously trying to...
  35. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Nope. That pic last page is just a link to the original attachment.
  36. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Not down with the asians... strange I know.
  37. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Oh no I realize I was the first time around, of course. I meant currently. At this point I figured I"d go dark for a week or two and see if she gets in touch (haven"t texted or talked since that night). Perhaps I"ll try some of the games, I dunno, that shit just isn"t my deal. As far as...
  38. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Chick being spanked. Called her last night, left message, she called back 30 min later, we agreed on lunch Saturday since she"s working nights this week. Kept the conversation brief, asked her what time to call on Saturday so I don"t wake her up, she said after 10am, I said great talk to her...
  39. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah probably. I would imagine its the same dude she was "figuring things out" with back when I met her in August. Whatever though, I will quite happily be her revenge lay if that"s all it turns out to be. Reminder:
  40. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yup. All love, all the time. Never got around to calling the paddle boat girl, however this was her FB status update the other day: " some people just never ever change....too bad for u. happy thanksgiving!" Rebound. Ah yeah....