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LoL yeah wow...though its nice to see the calm and cool Dabamf can get all giddy over a chick like most of us. Good luck man, hope it goes well for you!

I would just rather not have sex at all then do that...fuck. Honestly, no shame to getting some pills/gel or whatever to get you to last, I"d just go that route.

Women reading this thread would do well to pay attention to that last post by Heylel. We aren"t assholes simply because we want to be, we are assholes because you want/need us to be.

Fuck bitches, make money esquire

Welp, final transition complete, my son was born this morning at 2:20am.

Man the guy had one foot in his mouth then just went ahead and put the other one in there didn"t he?

Well done sl4ck3r, the cool thing is is that you let her parents know everything whithout coming off as a revengful asshole. Obviously it wont be long before her parents forget the whole thing and move on, but its nice to knwo you got out with every single upper hand that was available to you...

This was your first post? While you bring up a good and valid point I still can"t help but feel dissapoint.

It means you are not fucking anything. There"s no real "other way" to take that.

Well grats to you good sir.

I think it has to do with getting older....being with a dick who has no life and "lives on the edge" makes it more thrilling and spices up what it normally a boring life for them and makes them feel younger and more alive. That"s just my take on it though, I"ve found a lot of newly divorced...

Yeah...I kept it a general question to avoid sounding like "hur dur i am the only one here who has done anything guyz?". I was just curious if anyone actually took anything out of this and applied it in a way where it helped them achive something relationship wise. I"ve got a lot of flack...

Has anyone went from dumped and broken hearted to in a good, strong lasting relationship since this thread started 2 years"ish ago? It"s crazy this thread has been around for that long.

Cant live with em............yup.

Keep banging her till something better comes along. -shrugs-

I dunno that just seems odd because just because you have a kid doesn"t always mean you pay child support, I know pleanty of dads (Brad is even on this list) who pay no official child support and as far as the court is concerened, that"s all that matters is court ordered. So what"s to stop...

In the case of MN and MI at least you can"t get nailed for back child support if you were never court ordered to pay it to begin with...not sure why that would be different anywhere else. The rest of your point though stands.

Thread lightly...you"re dangerously close to getting a +netz from me.

Yeah dude, your researched statistics and factual information don"t mean jack, get that shit outta here.

Ah well then I misunderstood your point (my bad )and I agree with you 100%

It"s a thread about women, women breaking hearts and relationships....how are those two things ( Custody battles and Marriage) not related or a byproduct of the things i mentioned? Also Cut...dude you"re always raging, take it down a few notches man.

People are what makes it fucked up, not the marriage itself. Best piece of advice I ever got after my first divorce, when you date someone, imagin what kind of ex they will be before you picture what kind of partner they will be. I think I made a great choice this time around but as with...

When I file my appeal I can appeal for it to be taken to the county seat....which I do, but I"m denied every time for reasons of there is no valid reason or proof that I am getting unfair treatment to justify it. In order to go higher with the process I have to first win the first appeal...

I"ll go point by point for things you asked. My judge was male, they would never allow a woman judge up there i"m pretty sure. The whole area is a mining area, men have their roles and women have theirs. They have two judges in that court, I"ve dealt with both. I could afford my lawyer...

Thats how the Iron Range (Northern Minnesota) seems to be. My lawyer flat out told me he"ll never be involved in another case up there again after the last time. It"s a pretty fucked up place....hence why i don"t live there anymore.

Nope, I"ve tried...it has to take place where she and the kids live and through the court we went through for the divorce and where we did the custody hearings through. I"ve tried on every appeal to get it to go to a higher court (I this case, the district family court at the county seat) and...

Grats to you, but it"s not the norm no matter how much you have your shit together. I run a successful business, granted I"m not pulling in a ton of money, not trying to say I do...because I don"t...but it"s more then enough to live comfortably off of. My life is orderly and set, my kids love...

Glad to see you"re finally getting aroudn to getting everything in paper Brad, I know what you"re feeling and thinking and all along I got your reasoning for doign what you did....because I did all of it too. I"m glad you came to your senses over something minor like t-ball pratice instead of...

LoL we actually talked about that the other day. She was sick and yeah canceled like 2 hours before we were to meet up the first time. I texted her back saying if she was really sick it"s cool, but I don"t like being ditched so if"s that the case she could forget about it. She says that is...

Thanks! It"s kinda crazy going over the very first post I had in this thread...reading where I came from and seeing where I ended up. I"m a whole different person now, pretty nuts.

Thanks Even for the condolences.

Well, I"m married.

They were all married BEFORE the baby was born or after, because if it was before then yes, it was initiated by a pregnancy. If they got married after then I wouldn"t classify it as that at all. I know a ton of couples and off the top of my head I can only think of 2 that got married...

And when that child was born and he thought it was his, he signed parental forms declaring parental rights of the child. That"s not the systems fault, it"s (depending on your point of view) his wife"s fault, or his for signing those forms without proof of them being his. Does that suck...

Then move the fuck out of Cali, that state is all kinda of fucked up.

I"m pretty sure i"ve been through family court more times then you"ve typed the words out. Unless there is some extrme precedent I"ve never heard of, you are under no legal obligation to support children that are not legaly yours regardless of the living situation that has been going on. I"ve...

Yeah I don"t know why ANYONE would do that right away if at all.

Only if you sign off on parental rights

Mageling, there"s really no reason to NOT go for it dude, so just keep taking things slow like you"ve been and see where it goes, there"s honestly no harm in it and you"re gonna have to put yourself out there at some point anyways, may as well be with her being you guys have a lot in common and...

Why give them back other then to show you"re still owned by her? They are only letters, who the fuck expects a letter back when they break up let alone over a year after the fact. Man the hell up and throw them away dude....did going over to her place where her and her man (husband?) live and...