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I"m aware he"s a bit of a legend around here, but I don"t think I ever saw any of his stuff firsthand. Here"s the thing though... it"s likely in his case more of a habit thing than anything. Lately I"ve been the same way actually, I"ve had almost as many one-nighters this year as I"ve had...

Maintaining sexual attraction with your long-term partner is not a given, it has to be worked for. There will always be highs and lows (lulls!) but the lows can be mitigated quite a bit if the partner is aware that it"s something that has to be maintained. As long as both partners are aware that...

That"s hardly a universal. I"m sure for some couples, the better choice would be a familiar third party, and for other couples, an unknown third party.

Haha this thread rules! I"m pretty sure several of you are just failing on the simple point of knowing wtf people are talking about in here. The ability to have multiple orgasms and sex drive are two completely different subjects. I could elaborate but I"m tired and want to pass out. Good...

No she"s not.

The "dating scene" is nothing more than the line of boys and girls at opposite sides of the room at a middle school dance. Ideally you pair up and get the fuck out on your own asap. The shitty part is spending too much time sifting through the garbage before you find one worth dating more than once.

I wouldn"t want to get too sciency in here, for fear of people wielding torches and pitchforks, but no, masturbating does not actually accomplish the same thing as sex. It shares something in common, but no, sorry.

When people say stuff like that, its usually because they"re trying to act like they have any choice in the matter. Celibacy is for nuns and monks. If you"re not getting laid its because you can"t. edit- Or there"s something chemically wrong that"s bottoming out your libido. I"d say in that...

So what do you guys think is going on when you ask a girl out, she initially says yes, gives you her number, etc, then when you go to make concrete plans she flakes to the tune of "You just caught me by surprise is all", or something very similar. I"m guessing plenty of initial attraction...

Hey genius, this is how basically every woman in the world works. It has nothing to do with her being Korean. I"ve been on upwards of 20 internet dates this year, of which roughly 80-90% resulted in first night sex. Back here in the "western world" with all the white chicks. Only a minority of...

I"ll take she"s a slut for 500, Alex.

Yeah I have to say at least she gave you a counter-offer for a hangout time. I"ve dated a ton of chicks recently, and you can always tell the flaky ones / not interested in further dating ones by if they simply do that or not.

I would agree with Cutlery somewhat, although after getting "shut down" already once (were you sharing the room with other people, as well?), I would make it completely clear to her on your next hang-out what your intentions are. And if you"re going camping or whatever with other people, make...

Grab her and lead her out the back?

Yeah one could argue that if youcouldeasily detach yourself emotionally long enough to troll her, you yourself could be described as sociopathic. If you cared about this girl at all, you"re probably hurting somewhere in there. Might as well just get out and move on.

Who the fuck cares? It depends on the gf"s relationship with the parents. If she"s close to them, it will break the relationship at some point. If she hates them and can"t wait to remove herself from their insanity, then it doesn"t matter and you can move forward with the relationship knowing...

Heh, white women are by and large the best looking at older ages.

You speak of culture differences being the reason you"d like an Asian woman. Because supposedly they"re supportive and deferential and whatever else you want. I disagree that the culture is what creates that. I think its more of an inherent personality trait. I then went on to point out...

Of course it happens here. I"d be willing to wager it happens more in their culture, though. Ours seems to have started to grow out of it, a bit.

Yeah except that actual quality isn"t related to culture, its just a personality trait. There are chicks of any culture who truly enjoy deference, as you put it. Your Asian women though, are simply taught not to voice their opinion/discomfort/dislike/disdain/diswhateverelse. It doesn"t mean...

Don"t fool yourself into thinking that"s a culture issue and not simply a fact of being human. Every single human being on the planet is "in it for themselves". The most benevolent giving caring "selfless" person in the world does it because it makes them feel good. The main reason...

Yeah pretty much that. The only asian I"d ever consider dating seriously would have to be at least half-white and Americanized.

Yeah I can"t imagine 69ing dudes would be that fantastic there, buddy.

Nope. In fact females tend to benefit greatly from polygamy. They can get a mate several sex ranks above their own, whereas in a monogamous society this is highly irregular. Monogamy benefits males more than females in overwhelming numbers. When dealing with polygamy, only the top Nth(use...

Dude Ghorus did you suck at english before Uberman, or has your brain melted from your ridiculous sleep deprivation?

Yeah I used to be horrible at making small talk, and was very shy, and hated approaching. Then I did what I"m suggesting, and now I pick up chicks with no problem whatsoever. I"m sure it helps that I"ve been in the gym for 3 years and finally feel confident about my looks (apparently I"m very...

Yeah I wasn"t the one telling him to just say hi, I was telling him to start conversations.

Yeah, or maybe you can just put on a genuine smile, say "Hi, how are you doing? *smile*!), and go from there. If you think that makes you look like a weirdo, then you have more social issues to get over than just shyness. (Chicks respond to smiles)

1) Realize that no girl is "the one" and there are TONS of cute/hot/interesting chicks out there, so being rejected by one, or even ten of them is completely meaningless 2) Initiate conversation and/or ask out as many chicks as possible, all the time. Just fucking talk to them, even if you...

I know at least for me, assigning a #1 to someone isn"t even really possible, everyone is different. As long as its good and fulfilling, then who cares? And sex with the same person can vary and fluctuate, too.

Roses almost always imply commitment and love and such, especially more than one. A single rose can go either way I guess, but chicks be crazy so who knows.

Work on yourself. Hit the gym, take up something new like the guy before me said. The only thing you can possibly do is to make yourself more attractive. That, and possibly suggest counseling of some sort. But the best thing you can do is basically focus on yourself, and to ignore her somewhat...

It"s actually the definition of alpha behavior. You are doing what you said you were going to do. The definition of beta behavior is folding and letting her fuck around for 40 minutes while you sit impotently waiting around for her. This bump-back is not the proper response for the first time...

I"ll go ahead and post this here in the off chance that any of you can get anything from it. In addition to a couple of great books, I"ve learned a lot from this blog:Married Man Sex Life Just like this guy my natural tendencies used to be largely beta. For guys like that you have to train...

Or some people misunderstand a suggestion and automatically assume you"re supposed to be a dick about carrying out a plan of action. I never said you need to be a dick, I said you need to do what you say you"re going to do. But it seems like most of you are content to say you are going to leave...

Yeah on second thought I"m probably posting this stuff in the wrong place. The ones of you who actually do have successful long-term relationships are probably the gender-neutral outliers where perma-beta works just fine. And you"re crazy if you think for a second that shit tests will ever...

There are subconscious factors that she has no control over that are going to see your actions (or lack of action) of allowing her to dictate your schedule, and she is going to lose attraction and respect for you. Those same subconscious factors will see your willingness to stick to your guns...

The girls taking forever and making you late thing is actually more often than not just a shit test. Bump back on it and tell them look, I pride myself on being punctual, I"m going to leave the house/apartment at 7:00 on the dot, so I can be there on time, and I"m leaving with or without you...

Or the third option is to start turning on the alpha male attraction characteristics. If you have a solid foundation in a relationship and she"s simply "bored", and there are no huge underlying shitty issues, you should just be able to crank up the alpha and get her sexually interested again...

Its more being concurrently desired by other girls, than just being someone who"s slept with 100+ chicks. It"s called pre-selection.