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So she doesn't want to have dinner and just meet up for drinks... Is this odd to anyone else besides me?

I went a solid 3 weeks without drugs/alcohol. I am going to have a craft beer tomorrow however. I will be with a friend so hopefully I will not get shit faced and just have a few. definitely not going to do drugs

True, true, I am just gonna do some burger craft beer joint and keep it casual I was being semi-facetious, I really didn't think she'd say yes!

Like now I'm scrambling trying to figure out a last minute fucking date on Valentine's Day THANKS FOH lol

@consensus ok your turn to tell us why grils got u down bud wut happened ?

~SHE'S THINKING ABOUT IT~ expected a flat out no tbh

idk what I'm feeling but it's definitely something Hang in there chum

Bro I have felt that way for a few years since my last ex To finally have feels again must mean something It's maddening but it will be more maddening if I don't at least get shot down

lol I'm just gonna ask her out fuck it

Aww shucks, I just wanted to get that thought off my chest before I hit the road... (ty) :smuggly:

I am having irrational feels about a woman I am not even dating. Annoying

Definitely been going with harm reduction lately. Hell I didn't even have the urge to get fucked up last night.

As I do every week, have the opportunity to go out and get shitfaced at a free open bar DJ party nearby. Instead, tonight I am home comfy ForumQuesting and vidya'ing instead. I did not have GO PARTY GET WASTED urges today oddly enough.

Nice, so all I need to do is stop finding her attractive or find a gf. Then we can be pals np. :smuggly:

That's exactly how I feel bro! Fuck.

Any one ever have a successful friendship with a relatively attractive woman? I've only ever had limited success being friendly with chicks I didn't want to fuck.

Control and drugs? I think that idea is delusion when a common side effect of drugs is losing control. Hell based on this thread everyone appears to have a story of "oh man that one time", a few times! Weed definitely less harmful than alcohol but anything hard should remain illegal.

I don't know either. Taking it one day at a time.

(lol) See the problem is, I do want to drink like a normal person again one day. So it feels so phony every time I go to these meetings. This dual hypocrisy is part of it. I definitely don't want to do cocaine any more though. Dumb.

You are right @Lleauaric. There are AA meetings all over. During my biggest sobriety stint (2 months in 2015), I am not so sure that I can attribute AA to that. I was in out-patient rehab at the time and annoyed at myself because they (rehab) kept pushing anti-drinking drugs on me. This sort of...

@Furious

Week 1 down. When I drink even one drink, I get the urge to do coke | or get into trouble like @TJT (solely for my amusement). When I don't drink, I'm pretty fucking cool and normal.

Shit, I get it - abstaining is fucking tough. Visiting the fam this wknd and there's fucking wine everywhere. Still holding off though.

Truly spoken like someone from Smalltown, USA. :smuggly:

Would have quit forums if I won after seeing that cuck avatar. Thanks for being top asshat! @Tolan

I haven't seen that clip in years. Still hilarious.

Wish Robin Williams asked for help. :(

I left the basement comedy show since I was bored and not feeling it. On my way out there was a girl too drunk they had kicked outside of the apt with her friends. "Can you believe they kicked me out?!" I heartily laughed and said, "don't sweat it, you're talking to the guy who used to get...

Too old to be having a coke problem. Studying for network certs.

So I'm doing something different in hopes I don't succumb to temptation. I'm studying in a coffee shop and while I'm bored out of my mind, it is comforting being a few blocks from home surrounded by hipsters reading on their laptops *correction MacBookS. (cringe) I'm planning on staying here...

I could have lived without the gay romance focus. Felt forced. Preferred Titus's single shenanigans tbh.

@Screamfeeder That's how it starts for me, the rationalizing. Oh I'll just have a few drinks, Oh it's walking distance, What's the worst that could happen? Some of the Space Dandy episodes are really fantastic. Towards the end, I agree it gets a little silly. One of my favorite episodes is...

I was avoiding this thread yesterday because I got invited to an open bar DJ party tonight and was going to go. I woke up today and really thought about it and decided that I am not going to go. This is the part where sobriety sucks, knowing I have to avoid this event because of what it will...