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  1. Grabbit Allworth

    Another Life

    I hadn't read this thread and I tried to give this a go today. As soon as the hostile takeover attempt went down I marched right over here to see if this shit was going to stay this retarded. Thanks for saving me several hours.
  2. Grabbit Allworth

    Watchmen

    So the main protagonist is a Black woman? Of course, it is. I really enjoyed the movie, but I know nothing about the source material. Is the character at least rooted in the lore?
  3. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Hormones are dangerous things to fuck with and I want her body to have an opportunity to heal itself. If it becomes obvious she can't reach homeostasis (or close) we'll reexamine, but things are definitely improving for now.
  4. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    An update on my situation: Finally convincing my wife to have a massive blood panel was a godsend for us both. Her company has its own doctor that will run tests for free and I literally ordered everything I could think of and we got the results back on Monday of last week. The tests/doctor(s)...
  5. Grabbit Allworth

    Greedfall -- Colonizers vs Magic Injuns

    I've read this game has a very Dragon Age feel and after watching the videos I can see the similarities. It looks interesting enough that I'll probably give it a shot.
  6. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Khane, Of course I asked. Maybe my wording was poor. Her not wanting to have kids wasn't an on-going mystery; for years we talked about it fairly often and we always came to the consensus of "not now." Finally, in my mid-thirties I went to her and said "Hey, now is as good as it's ever going...
  7. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It wasn't clear to me that she never wanted kids until about 10 years in and she wasn't always the way she is now. She was quite affectionate for the first couple years and even adventurous. Once, at a barbecue, she gave me blowjob in a folding chair outside while her best friend watched.
  8. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Oh, for sure..in the grand scheme my problems are pretty minor and I realize it. It's also why I have never cheated and been with her for 18 years. It just sucks. I absolutely know she cares/loves me and it's important to me. She's just terrible at expressing it in a way that I can really...
  9. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Agreed. Tired of talking about it too. If something interesting happens I'll report back.
  10. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Wombat, I'm not sure how much of the pertinent conversation you've read, but it's a little more complicated than that. I'm not going to rehash it all. She's dumbfoundingly lazy and selfish when it comes to sex, flirting, compliments, etc. I mean all the normal validation that couples typically...
  11. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    She does want it. She gets salty when I don't fuck her regularly, but she won't do shit about it herself if I am not the instigator.
  12. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Ya, I was decent looking, likable and athletic. I had sex with 70-80 women before I got married.
  13. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    And you're 100% wrong. My wife lets me do basically whatever the fuck I want, but suggests nor initiates nothing.
  14. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I honestly never expected the conversation to go this deep or long. What I expected (and was kind-of hoping for) was that half a dozen posters would tell me I have it (mostly) great, stop being a faggot, and suck it up. The time hasn't been entirely wasted. I've learned some things and I'll...
  15. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Maybe, but I suffer from the terrible -- 'if you dont enjoy this I can't either' disease. Though if that's what she actually needs I can try it and see what happens. However, you and Iannis have both pointed out that it's only a matter of time before the bandaid begins to reek and the novelty...
  16. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I She'd just finish whatever she's doing and go to sleep 99 of 100 times. I've tried everything including withholding any kind of attention to force her hand, but I never last more than a week. Besides, a week should be plenty of time to elicit a response from a woman used to sex 5-6 times a week.
  17. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    We're on the same wavelength man. Seriously, i think we could be friends in real life. It's the little things that matter and I'm so starved for them that I've gotten pathetic. For example - at the beginning of the summer we went to dinner and a movie. She was dressed in a slighty too-short...
  18. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Ya, until recently I really didn't understand kinks. I assumed it was just something odd or taboo. In many cases it is, but the part I didn't understand is that if someone really has a kink they don't enjoy sex nearly as much if they can't incorporate the kink. Maybe she has one that I don't...
  19. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It's almost like she's intentionally overwhelmingly coy because she knows I hate it and then wants to be punished for her bad behavior...
  20. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm not a Dominant in the truest sense of the word. I don't mind taking and being in control, but I want an active partner. Curiously though, I'm not at all in to the idea of being dominated. It's revolting to me.
  21. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Preaching to the choir, guy. The same day I discovered she got soaked when I was pissed at her I 'told' her she was going to suck my cock. She did and without warning I grabbed the back of her head and shoved my cock down her throat as far as I could and held her there for a few moments. When I...
  22. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    As appealing as some strange can, occassionally, be...I am committed to her and she to me. Maybe it's old-fashioned in a new era of ass-tonguing cuckolding soyboys, but I prefer it to be just the two of us. Granted, I'd obviously love her to turn the volume knob way up. Besides, the idea of...
  23. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Phaz, I've already answered your question numerous times. You're almost irritating me with the White Knight-esque tone. No, I don't want to cheat on my wife and I won't. That doesn't mean I'm not going to bitch about her.
  24. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It's infuriating. Again, I'm not sucking my own dick here, but I get a lot of attention from women. Most of it because I'm a full-time student at OU and I'm a decent looking, older guy. If you've got your hair (I do, thankfully), financially stable, lift, and aren't creepy -- being an older...
  25. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    This guy, fucks. Exactly. You get it.
  26. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Having opened up (relatively speaking) to you guys has inspired me to take some tangible steps forward. Last night we agreed she'd stop taking birth control, she'd eat more (she doesn't starve herself, but works too hard and eats too little in order to maintain her figure), and I'm sending her...
  27. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Noodle, You're absolutely right that I'm not completely forthcoming about my situation. It's because I'm not comfortable talking about my close-to-the-vest shit. It's not because I'm a bitch waiting for you to pull my teeth. I said what I had to say and only offered more when I had a couple...
  28. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Haha disgusting. I had no idea. When I said there was nothing on the mirror I had just come from the bathroom after looking and nothing was visible. I saw your post and checked again. Nothing visible. I turned on the hot water and let the steam rise and bingo. Apparently, my mirror was covered...
  29. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm not sure what you're seeing on the mirror, maybe lens flare from the sun? There's absolutely nothing on the mirror. My legs are fine. The picture isn't flattering. Not that I'm suggesting I have tree trunks. I've had three spinal fusions and I do what I can without making things worse.
  30. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    That's obviously my problem. I wish someone had told me sooner.
  31. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I don't agree that I'm behaving like a woman given the reality of my situation. We'lll just agree to disagree there. I do appreciate the rest of the hard line you took. I needed it and it helped. I do the same to my own friends occassionally. Q1: I told my wife the day after I received them...
  32. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    She likes being held down and choked. Maybe I should just surprise her and slap the shit out of her next time I fuck her.
  33. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Shit makes a little more sense I suppose when I open up, but i had hoped to avoid the grimy underbelly. *she bought them
  34. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Lendarios, I took this just before I got in the shower today. Bad lighting, no filter, no pump, and I only took the one picture..I'm 6'..~200 lbs at 13-14% bodyfat.
  35. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Of course I asked what about me. We argued about it. Also, something odd that I've recently noticed about her is that she gets INSANELY wet; I mean absolutely leaking when I am angry with her. She'll cry, but her panties will be dripping.
  36. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Zaara, I've been completely and totally honest with my wife about how I feel. She knows it's a problem. A few years ago things flaired up so badly I was ready to leave and she ended up sitting on the floor bawling, begging me to stay. Obviously, I did. I feel like several of you think this is...
  37. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    There's a whole lot of ridiculous assumptions here despite the fact I have posted specifics. Also, save the righteousness indignation. The suggestion that I'm a failure of a man because I have considered cheating on my wife is laughable. Because none of you have ever had a similar thought...
  38. Grabbit Allworth

    Raid: Shadow Legends

    Do you guys have a reliable site to recommend for proper gearing of new players? I've done some Googling, but there's a lot of conflicting ideas.
  39. Grabbit Allworth

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You're right, but it still doesn't feel great. I don't post a lot, but I've been around FoH for two decades, I read the board every single day, and I've come to respect the opinions of a lot of posters (though some of you are colossal wastes of skin and oxygen) hence the pride-swallowing...