I feel you on this. THIS is the scariest thing ever. Have your doctor write you out a script for asthma. Your insurance will cover the nebulizer and the meds that go in it.
I used Net Nanny for a few years. It works. Kids didn't even know it was on their computers. All sorts of filters and alerts. I'm not sure how it works now, but I put NN on the kids PC. The adult version on mine. Every time something inappropriate was even typed I got a nice red warning.
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