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  1. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    So you agree, acceptance is the key. What most of you seem to be missing is everyone communicates. Literally everyone. 5 year olds communicate. Information is always being relayed. Some of us have just never grown up and still stick our fingers in our ears and scream "lalalala I can't hear...
  2. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You're proving my point. If you can accept each other's point of view it will work, if you can't then it won't. It's about acceptance, not communication.
  3. Khane

    Gravy's Cooking Thread

    Slow cook it or smoke it for hours, but if you want cuban sandwiches don't pull it. Slab it. That's a really cuban right there.
  4. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Eh I can't help it. I'm not actually being hostile, I'm just from Long Island.I don't agree with The Master and I think "communication" as the key to relationships is a bullshit copout that doesn't actually mean anything. Honestly, do any of you who have been divorced or had failed relatinships...
  5. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm communicating my objection in perfect iambic pentameter. You aren't nearly as smart as you like to pretend. Go dance it off.
  6. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    He isn't saying anything controversial. He's saying nothing of substance. He's regurgitating sentence after sentence of words that mean nothing. His entire quoted diatribe is akin to saying "The color green is green because that's what everyone says is green"
  7. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You are more full of shit than Ayn fucking Rand. You are literally saying "If you don't talk, nothing can be said". Thanks Columbo.
  8. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Again, that's acceptance. Not "communication". You can "communicate" until you're blue in the face. If your partner doesn't accept your point of view it's a moot point. I know plenty of couples that scream at each other. They have no problem "communicating" their views and beliefs. But they...
  9. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    This seems logical but in practice it isn't. Communication when it involves almost nothing but "I don't approve" is not communication. Which is why I emphasized acceptance over communication. Trust me, communicating "I don't agree with you" over and over again doesn't get you anywhere.
  10. Khane

    IT/Software career thread: Invert binary trees for dollars.

    I think the greatest point those "market saturation" graphics drove home is.... you have about a 50/50 shot on your education being meaningful in your career. If you get into non managed code, your degree will help you immensely. If you get into managed code you'll piss and moan that your degree...
  11. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm starting to think you're full of shit. An open relationship has nothing to do with "communication" and everything to do with acceptance. I think you're a big bag of holier than thou wind after experiencing it myself.
  12. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You aren't being taken advantage of. People need all kind of different things to feel fulfilled and it's impossible for one person to fulfill all of those things. Don't feel slighted. It really is impossible to expect one person to be everything you need, yet we still do it. It's a lesson in...
  13. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Would you leave her because you want to feel like a strong human being who won't be taken advantage of or do you want to leave her because you honestly feel betrayed and can't even look at her anymore? Those are two very different things and one allows an amicable parting of ways if the two...
  14. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    The hardest thing that I ever had to come to terms with was that it's OK when people change and relationships don't work out. It's not anyone's fault when two people don't work romantically. It really isn't. I tormented myself for close to two years over a woman I thought I would never get over...
  15. Khane

    The Beer Thread

    Tree house is very good. But it's not worth salivating over. In my opinion this brewery is much more worth salivating over: OEC - Please Verify Your Age
  16. Khane

    The Beer Thread

    East coast has to import the hops to make good IPAs but there are a few out here that are worth talking about and none of them are from DFH. Lawson's Double Sunshine (actually I prefer their single IPA, sip of sunshine) and New England's Gandhi Bot are both really good. And if anyone wants...
  17. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I used to have very idealistic, strong views on relationships with sex and fidelity being the cornerstone of those relationships. Over time I've come to realize that I really don't think it's important to expect another human being to give up any portion of their autonomy just for your own sake...
  18. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Is this your wife's sister or your wife's sibling's wife? I need to know how turned on I should feel.
  19. Khane

    Which Index should I use for my 401k?

    Looks like in the past 5 years returns have been a bit better for FSEVX. /shrug You should be able to see the performance of all funds available to you directly through your 401(k) website or portal.
  20. Khane

    Which Index should I use for my 401k?

    Is the Vanguard total market index available in your 401(k) program?
  21. Khane

    Whats rustling your jimmies?

    What the fuck are you talking about? Where did I suggest being a dickhead and fucking the place up? I simply told him to figure out what his rights as the tenant are. Also, you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. Paperwork and lawyers magically make your shit theirs? Quick...
  22. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    So much conflicting information. Some of you say that's just not how it works anymore, others say the woman still gets half of everything AND the kids. If she's an alcoholic freeloader and you can prove she's drinking and driving when picking up the kids will they still seriously give her...
  23. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    If that's true how would she get custody instead of him?
  24. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Welp...
  25. Khane

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Nah bro, it's just that women did all the household cooking in the 50's-60's and women fucking suck at cooking. Be thankful men can cook a meal at home without being treated like a pariah nowadays.
  26. Khane

    Whats rustling your jimmies?

    Check the HUD website for your state to see if he can legally ask you to leave. There are a lot of factors that can play into whether he can legally evict you.
  27. Khane

    Weight Loss Thread

    Nice dude.
  28. Khane

    The Beer Thread

    I'm jelly.
  29. Khane

    League Of Legends

    I don't know... with how mobile he is and how easy it would be for him to get in/out of enemy jungle it seems like he COULD be a really good jungler. Especially for junglers who prefer farming (Meteos). AP ratio on meeps suck ass but they stack infinitely along with slows and re-appearing...
  30. Khane

    IT/Software career thread: Invert binary trees for dollars.

    I gotta be honest. I had no idea Python had such a large share of the market.
  31. Khane

    Sleep Studies / Sleep Apnea

    I suffer from both sleep apnea and sleep paralysis and let me tell you... I KNOW when I'm having a night terror and sleep paralysis is occurring because it's entirely lucid 100% of the time and it's creepy/scary as hell. The scene in the terror is always in my bedroom, I feel like I'm asleep...
  32. Khane

    League Of Legends

    I think it's way too easy to not give a shit about his ult in team fights. I feel like it's gonna be just an AE Zhonya's. If it was single target or enemy only (or friend only) it would be a different story but that shit is gonna be hard to use well even for pros. The only thing I see it...
  33. Khane

    Sleep Studies / Sleep Apnea

    I have sleep apnea and have a CPAP. I can't wear the damn thing because even with Ambien I'll fall asleep with it on then be awake an hour and a half later and not be able to fall back asleep unless I take it off. I'm sure it would help if I could wear it and sleep with it on but I tried for...
  34. Khane

    Men's Fashion

    If you want to order a good suit online there are a lot of travelling tailors. This one has gotten good reviews from what I've seen, though have never personally ordered from them: Custom Suits, Men's Tailored Shirt, Bespoke & Custom Made Clothes By MyTailor.com
  35. Khane

    IT/Software career thread: Invert binary trees for dollars.

    Haha, I can just imagine the intellisense on JSON. Actually, no I can't. Does it literally just open and close brackets for you?
  36. Khane

    League Of Legends

  37. Khane

    The Fast Food Thread

    Isn't that what you're supposed to do with frozen burgers? They always taste better when thrown on the grill still frozen.
  38. Khane

    The Beer Thread

    That's how I feel about Dogfishhead.