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I wasn"t that weird about it. I just mean i sent signals that I wasn"t looking for a buddy very early into us talking to each other. I mean as a girlfriend she was already coming across as needy, I can"t imagine how she thinks that"s acceptable levels of attention to ask from a friend... one she...

so tonight I"m leaving bike polo and get a text to come hang out at an ice house with new girl. I showed up an hour later and convince her and her friend to go meet up with my friends at a place with $1 wells. good times all around then I get the "want to make sure we both just want to stay...

hey if you like her and can deal with what"s going on, keep the door cracked at least. Just keep your expectations low and you should be okay

concur ^ to be honest, I wouldn"t even deal with that situation, and I consider myself one of the more rational and understanding people in the thread

oh I typed that weird. Her roommate and her roommates boyfriend came over. She doesn"t hang out with her ex anymore your situation sounds like a nightmare

Yeah actually the third day I hung out with her she told me that. She said he was really nice and stuff at first then just started getting angrier as time went on and was breaking shit or something. Anyway I don"t know enough about any of that to have a real opinion on it She asked if she...

lol what? Had I been invited out with a straight dude I would"ve thought it was way worse. Her gay friend lives in the same complex as her, wanted to go to miller outdoor, so she sent me a text to see if I"d come with. I"m starting to wonder if some of you guys have seen women before the sun...

Good point. I guess my expectations are pretty unfair from the getgo and should decide what"s what.

She did and as mentioned, I just got out of a 2 year relationship. I actually like the girl though so I"m not just trying to bang her, I have other people I can call for that. That"s why. She"s relationship material, I just don"t want one, maybe that"s why I"m pussyfooting. You guys are right...

Eomer share the details, you can update the story later! girl I"m talking to invited me to go watch one of those free outdoors movies with her and her gay friend again yesterday, and then a lot of people I knew ended up showing up and made a big crowd where we all were. Not that an outdoor...

Of course I have a gut. That"s why I don"t wear shirts that show it. anyway~ Met a cool girl. She"s roommates with my friend who just moved in (sorta friend, another girl who used to like me but is cool now) to my part of town. They came over and drank Friday, then we went out Saturday (as...

Sutekh is just preaching knowledge. She looks like she"d go to an ICP concert. showing her mid section while having a gut, big ass sunglasses inside, saggy tits and bud ice. I"m curious where the initial attraction came from

I wasn"t using it in a serious way, the same way I wasn"t literally telling anyone to seize the day. Text is a bad way to use that word jokingly. forgive me

^Exactly. If you"re not going to fuck a hot girl because you"re afraid, just go get married right now. seize the day, yolo, etc

There"s nothing wrong with that situation unless someone doesn"t know that"s what it is.

Do you only have sex with girls you plan on marrying?

unless you"re attached, I"d consider a friendship with some benefits. seems like you weren"t together very long. plus you could get us more pics

casually dating definitely means not exclusive. sorry you got burned, appreciate the sweet justice though

Antarius" move is a bit drastic, but he"s close. You"ve gotta do something now before it becomes total "oh my BFF Eomer is so super sweet. We can watch movies with no pressure and he walks my dogs for me anytime I want to go get shitfaced with Brody and James"

key thing is definitely a red flag for you banging her

You tend to write so many words but never have anything meaningful to say. Jesus christ. --- Slept with an old friend on Tuesday night. Felt better about my shit for a few hours, but that"s it. I guess it was a self esteem boost if nothing else. Not sure if 2 years is a much different...

How did her vagina compare to that of an 12 year old boy though

Again, he lives in Austin; we are in Houston. I won"t say she wouldn"t have done it again, because I don"t know shit anymore, but it would"ve been pretty difficult to pull that one off. Especially since she"s Filipino and lives at home (crazy parents)

A lot of your post rings true, but here"s what doesn"t. I"m not the jealous type and wasn"t giving any inclination I was slobbering over her at all prior to this. I think this actually stemmed a lot from her not feeling appreciated anymore and a lot of the "stop trying" aspect that comes with...

For clarification: she didn"t do more than kiss. It"s been the way she"s handled the aftermath.

said I"d come and fess up if you guys were right. you guys were right have at it

I always thought it meant tight ass

I don"t know if not making a movie was really such a deal breaker. For every girl that will go home wondering if he"s interested there"s one that would"ve thought he was too forward for trying something the first time they hung out. I would say he should trust his instincts but it seems he has a...

That"s not what I meant, and obviously this further illustrates my point that not everyone is the same. There"s a lot of white knights on FOH, but like it or not, men are assholes and heartbreakers too. And a massive amount of people, once they get bored in a relationship or realize it"s going...

I think guys are like this a lot too. I mean they may not have new girlfriend lined up, but they definitely seem to have someone else ready to fuck them

@gavinrad There"s some truth in that. When I started the relationship with this girl I actually talked to my ex who I had lived with, via email, about how things fell apart with us. And things basically fell apart here for the same reason. I"m not an affectionate person, my passive approach at...

I think the right explanation is often the easiest one: I"m in denial.

small update on my non macho crap: still dealing with shit with the ex. as many of you pointed out at the time, carrying on any sort of relationship this soon after the mess is going to be damn near impossible. I had lunch with her yesterday and it was extremely difficult not to rub her nose...

You"re missing the point that sometimes it does only happen once, Kirun. Saying all cheaters are the same is like saying all relationships are the same. Not everyone rationalizes it, and not everyone does it again.

Agreed. I never thought I would do it either, as I"m sure many who think you will never do it now are thinking (and some of you WILL do it). I"m bad at relationships in general, I don"t like to be exclusive and I don"t like the idea of being so invested in someone that when they fuck up (as in...

I don"t disagree with anything you said, but to pretend like we"re incapable of being dumbasses just because we"re in a relationship is naive. Obviously being drunk and thousands of miles away from the person is a situation just asking for trouble and nine times out of 10 decent people still do...

Never say never. It really can happen to anyone, good or bad, happy or miserable in a relationship. Now carrying on a hidden relationship and doing it more than once in the same relationship just makes you a shithead and takes it to another level, but it"s easier to slip up once than people are...

No she told me, her friends (two of them live together) told me about the lying. This group of friends is from Austin, so they"re people I never see, I"ve seen two of them once in my life, and the one I do "know" (FB) I"ve seen 3-4 times. I only know one of them really and barely at that, but we...

She was called every hurtful name in the book when I found out. My calmness on the boards is not a mirror image of how I handled the situation. Infact I"m a little disappointed in myself at how pissed I let myself get.

Fair enough. It"s exactly what I would be saying to someone else posting this shit too. Dabamf really hit the levels of cheating thing right on the head.