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Rofl, pretty much.

Strait up tell her that this is you and if she had a problem with it, GTFO. Obviously you two shouldn"t be together, i you can"t even respect her then seriously why the hell are you with her? Fear of being alone or not....I"m not even friends with people on any level if I can"t respect them...

Technically speaking, coulda been 30 seconds ago. Sorry I couldn"t resist.

She told her friend all about me and he thought I sounded cool, one day on yahoo I was talking to Michele and she brought him into a conference talk and he and I just kept talking after that. Gives me inside info and I don"t tell him anything I haven"t told her so it"s win/win for me in that regard.

I just misread what you had said, thought you were running back to her. My bad, carry on.

I know, I was reaffirming what he was thinking, welcome to how this thread works. The girl who was a long standing friend, I decided it was better to keep that way, she was upset at first but I think she realizes it was better this way. She"s cool as hell and I would hate to have something...

She"s probably just either not wanting to think about it or holding out hope you"ll change your mind. in 16 months if shit is still going good who knows, maybe she"ll want to follow you back over, how would that make you feel? Lord knows it wouldn"t be the first time something like that has...

She"s stringing you along, tossing you a bread crumb anytime you stray off course from being within her reach every now and then. You need to do one of two things, both were mentioned here. Either just flat out ignore her or flat out tell her you love her, either way it"ll end...

She looks good Brad, very cute. I"d post pics of Michele...but fuck posting pictures in this forum, lol. It"s cool you were able to get over your aversion to the whole kissing thing looks like whatever the issue was, you out grew it which is always a good thing. And I know where your...

well I -AM- an 07"er

Hand that fees him? LoL, I took advice from many people and I"m not ashamed to admit I followed some of Dabamf"s, he gives good advice for the most part, but my changes in myself and my attitude came before I started seeking advice on relationships and if I see him making what I think are...

Bad troll is bad... situation was handled and handled well, I fail to see the issue. First thing that went wrong he was supposed to say "yeah fuck the bitch" and dump her? Shit some people wonder why divorce rates are so high now a days, no one is willing to talk shit out, not even the small...

Well if she"s as cool as he says she is and he likes her then it was worth it for now, no one ever knows what long term will bring so you can"t really say if it"s worth it now or not....because honestly who the fuck ever knows what the future will bring. They"ve been together 3 months, long...

Not sure why so many people are wanting to nail Dabamf to a cross at the moment, seriously. As said before, had this been an American girl, yeah it woulda been grounds to kick her ass to the curb eventually, but with the language barrier, cultural differences and any number of other things it...

Dabamf you should know better then to respond to trolls. Also, I would like to see a picture of said asian girl friend.

yeah that"s a lot of time together but for the holiday you may have to make an exception to the time thing, she"s probably going to want to see you for family stuff if you"re at that stage ...on top of the normal dating time together you may have to just roll with it. how does she feel about...

I"m not pushing anything, I"m going at her pace and still handling things the way I have been. Also, there"s no real need for caution on anything I"m not going to tip toe and worry about shit right now, i just want to enjoy things as they are now and keep taking it as we have thus far. I may...

Spent almost all day with Michele, I"m really digging her so far...not much new to report that I haven"t said already...she said a lot more things today to really confirm she"s just as much into me as I am into her. We"ve planned to spend Thanksgiving together and we"re probably spending most of...

Pretty much this. I think Dabamf"s been handling things pretty great so far all things considered.

Rofl that"s both awesome and terrible at the same time, I don"t know weather to laugh or feel bad for you.

haha I LoL"ed at that last part Tenks. With Michele and I...we aren"t "official"...we technically are not exclusive...but at the same time, we are exclusive. I know how she feels about me, she knows how I feel about her...we"ve both been fucked over so much in the past though that we"re...

Yeah fuck her man that sucks, just keep that frame of mind if and when the split and she comes knocking on your door to "talk". You"re obviously better off without her and hopefully this can lead to you moving back into your place, redecorating and moving on with your life.

Eh, don"t listen to them, we all have our own reasons for doing things. I mean you really DO need to figure out what the hell is so taboo about her place, but I don"t think you"ve been blind to anything really. I"d be interested in more details personally. ..but share what you"re comfortable...

After 3 months I"d probably handled it the same as you, it"s not even a HUGE deal if she didn"t want to chill at her place often...but to all out keep you from it all all costs is odd. It"s like her ex lives with her or something and was supposed to be out by Halloween...and is still there so...

This....to an extent. I was with my ex wife for 8 years, from her being 18 to 26 and she hit her party phase she missed out on. Granted I wasn"t all I should have been either, but that in no way justified her affair/drunkenness and all out slutty/bitch behavior. Like I said, I was no where...

True enough and I thought of that... reminds me of my ex wife, but I"ll wait till i judge until he knows more and relays the information.

Yeah for sure, that"s pretty fucked up man. First things first, get the fuck out of there and don"t stay there for a few days at the very least while you clear your head a bit and figure out what the fuck is going on with her. And yeah you"re gonna have to talk to her to figure out just...

LoL at all the people who get butt hurt over this thread. Brad you need to get some hobbies my man, why you let her invade your space at the gym I don"t know but it would be a good idea to reclaim that as your own.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to brekk again.

a reply doesn"t mean a successful troll, that would include me caring and taking him seriously, same goes for you. Do not mistake my boredom for anything else other then that.

-shrugs- If you want my job all you need is the capital, an idea and location for it, anyone can do it and you"ll never hear me say otherwise. I own my own business and I"m here about 80% of my business hours. I have the luxury of being on the nets if I want but that doesn"t mean I"m not at the...

I post because I work all the time, get bored and have posted here pretty much for months, many have asked me to continue to do so, thus I do. I"ve went over this before if you"re gonna troll, be creative and exciting while doing so, at least make it worth my time to read and respond.

haha I lol"ed at #3, good stuff. Ultimately it"s up to you Brad what you do I know it"s hard when they know your schedule, lucky for me, my schedule and Michele"s are almost identical so this is the first time ever it hasn"t been a worry for me, which is nice. It"s tough when you"ve...

One of the rules is don"t be to available this isn"t just because you want to be aloft and what not...but because you can smother each other and not even realize it. I hold true to that rule more for the second part of it then the first. Two big things will kill a relationship that both...

LoL thanks, hopefully I am making progress, I like to think so anyways. I think the thing I"m having the hardest time with is every girl I"ve dated has been super needy and I"m seeing now that it"s given me the same outlook to a small extent. I didn"t realize how alien of a concept it was to...

There wasn"t any awkwardness about it really, we talked about it a bit late last night and things are okay. We both think it just got to heavy to quickly and want to take it back to the pace we were before, which I"m fine with. Incog, you"re 100% correct and she even said that same exact...

hummm, I think things got rushed a bit, today was great we both had a fun time but there was no intimacy at all, not even a kiss. This was technically only our second date so not a big deal assuming Friday night hadn"t happened...but she wasn"t in a good frame of mind and out and the shots...

Yeah this week shouldn"t be to hard to do that, like I said, we both work a lot. She told me last night she"s putting in a 52 hour work week, I usually hit around 60"ish so pretty much Sunday is our only day off together. And I wouldn"t say I didn"t give a fuck about her...I just honestly...

Oh...no, it was a joke, who compares sex to a sega genesis and gets taken seriously for crying out loud?

You"re quote then advice confuses me sir.