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It's funny because his major contribution to this board is a thread that's 90% livestock.

It was supposed to be funny. Why Women Aren't Funny | Vanity Fair

Not attractiveness. Physics. It's not rape if you need to bring a crane. It's like excavation or something.

I don't necessarily want them to be punished. I want them to know that there are consequences for their behavior. If it takes an overhanging threat of punishment to push it through the heads of these 'young people' (who act more and more like children every year) to change their behavior, then...

Don't you only like chicks that are too fat to be raped?

The fact that I engage in what many people would call 'victim blaming' is frequently a point of contention between feminists and myself. That doesn't make it wrong. I'm not afraid of criticism from both sides of an argument.

I'm against this stupid fucking "generation #yolo" putting themselves in dangerous situations and then expecting everyone else around them (parents, school administrators, etc) to deal with the consequences of their rape/false rape accusation/whatever the fuck stupidity they got themselves into...

EVERY WOMAN who's EVER been raped partially blames themselves on some level, no matter what they did or didn't do that led up to it. That's a huge part of why it's so fucking painful. Just admit that you have no fucking clue what it means to be raped, and the closest comparison you can even...

Where did you pull this from? I'm saying people should take responsibility for their actions, and their consequences, and follow all appropriate precautions in all possible situations. I never mentioned anything about how anyone dresses. I'm sorry if it's unpopular these days to say...

You have plenty of options for altering your behavior if you want to lower the risk of being falsely accused of rape, in the same way that you have plenty of options for altering your behavior if you want to lower the risk of being raped. Explain how it's different. Raping, and falsely...

What're you saying? I was advising that men SHOULD alter their behavior if they're seriously as worried about being falsely accused of acquaintance rape as they appear to be in this thread.

I do spend some amount of time sometimes worrying about my stepdad breaking into the house to hurt my mom. But he's the one that trained me to shoot, he knows I'm armed, and he knows I'm a light sleeper.

People sure seem to have spent a lot of text worrying about it as if it was a serious life problem.

Yeah it's way more irrational than the constant fear of being accused of rape that you guys seem to have.

That sounds very similar to "just let it happen, if you don't struggle it'll be over faster." How about you just admit you don't have any fucking clue what it is like to be a woman. No one is going to hold it against you for admitting something you can't possibly be expected to know. But...

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This doesn't compute either, because society does want all women (really all people) to be whores. Men (actually all people in a position to leverage social or economic power) want transactional relationships so long as they think they're always the ones that are going to be on the positive...

The prison situation we have in this country is a tragedy that I think about all the time. One of my graduate advisers worked as a prison psychologist at a maximum sec facility when he was a doctoral candidate.

Fear? Not directly. But I definitely keep it in mind when thinking where I park on campus, what time I leave my office to go home when it starts to get dark earlier in the day, etc. Not so much in the summer obviously. Back when I was in college, I definitely chose to not do certain things...

Please explain the irony. Don't hold back. I'm being very honest and open with my opinions and trying to show as much transparency as possible with my thought processes.

Simple, and very scientifically verifiable cognitive dissonance. People tend to be less aware of their own thoughts and actions than they are for others.

I'm not fucking delusional. Ask her if she'd teach her (hypothetical) daughter any potential rape avoidance advice.

Any woman who says that she didn't spend a significant number of clock cycles of her brain trying to think of how to actively avoid being raped from ages 14-35 is either lying or oblivious. I'm gonna mark her down for oblivious because you said Asian. They have some weird cultural denial...

Yeah, it's funny how parallel that is to women who didn't do anything wrong not wanting to be raped.

How old/fat is she?

Yeah, and women are raped all the time by men that the trust too. Life sucks. Other people suck. Other people can do things to hurt you for no other reason than just because they feel like it. Deal with it. You men seem completely opposed to living with even the tiniest sliver of the...

Yes, but womenall of the timealter their behavior to lessen their chances of being raped. It can't be avoided 100%, but if you're smart you can significantly lower the chances. Yes, sometimes it means missing out on things that might be enjoyable or exciting or career advancing or profitable...

I'm not saying that many or even most of these 'drunk sex' rape accusations aren't false. I'm sure most of them ARE false. I'm saying that you open yourself up to FALSE accusations when you have sex with someone you don't trust.

Need an ad hominem emoticon too. Like maybe one smileyface spitting on the other one.

Explain how it is "hypocritical?" I'm advocating that both genders take responsibility for the potentially vulnerable positions that they put themselves in.

What I'm saying is that women have to alter their behavior all the time out of the danger of being raped. This is a very real and very practical thing that all women have to do. It's not FAIR but it's a fact we all have to live it. But when I suggest that men alter their behaviors out of...

A woman could accuse you of rape anywhere. Just about any woman is more emotionally manipulative than you, and could find you anywhere and accuse you of anything. Sucks to be vulnerable, I guess.

When did tight clothes and short skirts come into this? Women who get drunk with men they don't know well are leaving themselves open to the very real danger of being raped. Men who have sex with drunk girls they don't know well are leaving themselves open to the very real danger of being...

There really needs to be a strawman emoticon.

Saying that people shouldn't put themselves in vulnerable situations is not anywhere close to saying that all sex is rape. I don't even know what the fuck you're trying to say here. What *I'm* saying is that behaviors ALWAYS have consequences.

When did I say premarital sex? I said 'consequence-less sex' with 'someone you don't absolutely trust.' You made a big jump there. I also don't use those terms.

That's not what I said. I said that people should be aware of how much danger they're putting themselves in.

I've been pretty consistent. I've never said girls should act like sluts and think there's no potential consequences for it.

Regardless, there's wide spectrum between being BYU and what is basically infinite permissiveness. And that spectrum is not being used.

At almost all public institutions they're cop cops and they will arrest the shit out of you.