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-shrugs- we"re both against abortion as a means of birth control (it"s fine in the case where pregnancy would endanger the mothers life) even if we weren"t we wouldn"t want to go that route. We feel we both have a lot to offer to the child and it"s not like we"re some young kids who don"t know...

That sucks man, other then going out with you though, what signals was she giving that was leading you on?

Which I"ve said, even if we were upset, what would be the point in actually being upset, it wont change anything. So we are taking the positives and running with them and we"re happy. -shrugs-

Again not bashing on Brad, I"ve said multiple times I don"t expect anyone here to know the full extent of the situation I"m in, I"m fine with that. Tenks, same thing happened with my ex wife of 8 years, shit was fine then it tanked in a matter of months. That can happen at any point. Also...

The situation the child is being brought into is a stable one, so by your very definition it"s not a fuck up. The kid will come into a stable home, be loved by both parents and be able to be taken care of...how is that a bad situation. You can"t judge my situation because you aren"t in it, you...

Thanks, I"ll need it I"m sure. I"m not pretending it"ll be easy so I"ll take all the well wishes I can get.

I"m aware, and her and I have been through those shitty times that you described. I"m not going to go into detail about them, but trust me when I say it there was some fucked up shit that went down. We rolled out of it stronger then ever. You forget I"m experienced on both ends of the spectrum...

In all honesty Brad, every day people meet people that they know are it. Is this one of those situations? I think so, can I be wrong? Sure, it happens. But I"m level headed enough to be able to assess a situation, step back and look it over. As I said, was it the ideal time for this to happen...

Can"t know someome after 4 1/2 months, not toally no, but then again I knew my ex wife for almost 8 years and look how that turned out...obviously didn"t know her as well as I thought either after all that time. Nope I don"t know every aspect about her and honestly I"m okay with that. A lot...

Okay for one, after the first break I was pulling out. And second, brad I guess thats the difference between you and I. I still love my situation, I"m with with the chick that by all reasoning im going to be with for years to come, probably my life. I"ve no problem with my situation what so...

About 4 1/2 months, not overly long no, but I was pretty sure she was it and that"s after all the "honeymoon stage" crap, when you know, you know I"m old enough and responsible enough to be able to look at things objectivly I think. Yeah I make alright money, I run a small business and while...

Ooooo, that"s where that statement came from, yeah I was referring to condoms .

-shrugs- Honestly I"m fine with it, I love the girl and I don"t see that changing at anytime and I"m fully prepared to have a family with her. I "lol"ed" because honestly I was happy and so was she (a bit freaked, but happy). Dabamf, not sure who you"re talking to, but no we"ve been solid...

Lol, early test show I may indeed be a daddy, more to come as I find out more information.(yes I bagged it every time during the time in question, we had two breaks though)

Dabamf, how goes the reunification?

Well the girlfriend met the kids this weekend. It was my sons birthday and the kids took to her very well and...well not surprisingly...but I guess to a very large wave of relief, Michele took to them very well also. So much so that my kids go home today and she"s pretty upset that they have to...

Also when it"s termed you are official, it means a relationship, granted he didn"t say exclusive but that"s who I was taking it. If I"m wrong then cool. I know about playing the field, I did so some months ago before I got with the girl I"m with now as anyone who reads this thread knows. As...

.....I don"t even know where to start other then saying dont follow any of that advice. Lol If you are official you obviously don"t want to go out and find another...just get some hobbies and get out more. To touch on what someone else asked, seeing each other once a week...is that her...

Yea grats and good luck with that.

*shrugs* I always got more responses when I used a response tailored to their profile, and I"ve done pretty much nothing else other then online dating for the last 2 years. Then again, I"m not all about sending out 500 messages a night when I had time to sit down and do it, I actually cruised...

With my girlfriend that I met on OkCupid in her "contact me it" section she had a part in Swedish that said something like "if you"re a special person" I Google translated it and then wrote her a message saying something like "I would like to say I was special enough that I was able to...

I"ve never fucked a chick with a guys name....but I"ve fucked chicks with semi deep voices....I think that"s much creepier then mannish names.

yikes.

No where in there in that description did it seem to me there was a positive or redeeming quality. Maybe it"s just me but I"d look elsewhere.

This is pretty much what I was getting at but just more directly. And yeah Dabamf, things are pretty good....we"ve had our moments. Michele is an awesome girl, but she has a short temper at times but most women do...hell most people do at times so it"s not a big deal. We have a ton of fun...

Brad I"ve been there and I"ll give you the same advice that was given to me and that I didn"t believe until later. It sucks not being there to raise your kids every day. I have a son who will be 7 on the 23rd of this month, my daughter will be 4 in April. The guy my ex wife is with has been...

I"ve noticed this as well, I backed off my updates after a choice few became douches about it.

This. I work a ton and have no time to go out and meet people, OKCupid I found works pretty well, it was by pure chance I met the girl I"m with now. You don"t need a special place to meet women, the girl I"m with now cut my hair...women are everywhere we just fail to see opportunities most of...

My girl has self esteem issues but they get less and less with me over time, At one point she wouldn"t change clothes with me in the same room, now she"ll hop in the shower with me and things are just fine now. She still has issues on how she see"s herself and how others see her but she"s aware...

Not all of us came out of this thread messed up or in denial.

F you, my advice rocks.

Thanks, I"m pretty happy about it myself. My son is almost 7, my daughter is 3...turning 4 in April. I"ve wanted to take my time as far as introducing my kids to her, both for the sake of our relationship and for the sake of my kids. I want to be sure the relationship is going to be long term...

Whyme, anyone who wont support you in a decision like that is one of two things.....scared and thus the only thing they can do is distance themselves by running from it as fast as possible....or a selfish bitch. If it"s the first one, she"ll be back, she just needs time. If it"s the second...

way to be observant, it"s only been here over a year.

Never tried it myself, no interest in it either. My g/f has expressed minor interest in trying it and seemed shocked that I wasn"t all to interested in the idea.

Meh, that never bothered me to much personally.

No one matures that quickly in a week, something seems to be going on behind the scenes with her that we aren"t aware of, be it something she thought might be better didn"t pan out or something along those lines. I would need to know more about the situation before opinions, there isn"t...

I thought the language barrier was to much for you to handle? has that changed suddenly?

There are rare instances where if shes busy...she"s actually busy. When Michele and I first started talking she was busy as hell with work and just getting over being sick on top of it. At one point I didn"t hear from her for over a week. You always want to walk away with plans regardless, in...

First off, shouldn"t have went through her shit, you don"t "get curious" and start going through personal things. That"s like saying "I wanted a piece of gum so I got some from your purse...then was curious as to what else was in there." Sounds like to me you didn"t trust her on some level...