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  1. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    So, these pics were taken after I'd been out of the house for 5 months. It was never *that* bad while I was living there, because I'd do something about the parts of it I could. But, this is a great example of what she's like when she's left to her own devices. The kids hated every minute of it...
  2. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    The one year we had the pool open, we dumped 55 gallons of chlorine into it. It's 20x40, 12 feet deep. It's a lot of fucking expense just to keep running, let alone rehab. Although, I will admit that the decision is going to be made when I see who I'm with then and how many hot friends she has.
  3. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Fuck the pool. Waste of time and energy. My recent home appraisal stated "Pools provide no value at this latitude." Filling the fucker in and I'll build a gaming gazebo there or something. Just gotta take care of some other shit first. Probably, but I haven't so much as seen her since...
  4. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    One year ago yesterday I got back to my house after I nasty separation which my ex now claims she never wanted. Sucks when all your communication is via text, it's pretty hard to keep revising history when I can just scroll up to the part where she asked me for a divorce. My oldest turned 18...
  5. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    This is most women, I think. They're completely detached from reality. And really, it's no one's fault but men's, who let them get away with doing absolutely nothing simply because they have a vagina.
  6. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    And yet kids who grow up in a 2 parent household outperform single parent kids in every metric. My parents are still married, and my childhood sucked too.
  7. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    They did. For a long time. You can live with someone you don't like. Quite easily. You can fuck someone you dont like. You can definitely be married to them. The point is that it's not always about you. There are times where your personal happiness is a fragment of the big picture.
  8. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Sure. Now, think about your kids suffering as a result. Your kids only being able to spend time with one parent at a time. They don't get mom AND dad tucking them in anymore. They don't get mom AND dad at the dinner table to tell about their day. If all you're doing is thinking about yourself...
  9. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Sometimes it's not that simple. Kids and finances make what you think would be an easy decision like that much more complicated.