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My question is, why settle? Sounds to me like you"re having fun, meeting lots of different girls, sowing those royal oats... so why would you quit all that for someone you"re not even physically attracted too? The fact that she a) asked you out after you called her fat and b) introduced you...

So I"ve been dating this girl for about six months, and recently things have started to get strained. There are two main problems: 1. She is a Christian, although she doesn"t buy into much of the dogma that plagues modern Christianity -- she believes in helping the poor and disabled, not...

Seriously buddy, and I say this with love, but it"s not your face that"s killing you -- it"s that profile! I fell asleep three times before I even got halfway through. I"m going to assume that in real life you are fun and personable; you need to find a way to let that come through in your...

I"ve had my prostate massaged and it was the single greatest sexual feeling I"ve ever experienced. I came so hard I literally shook for about 20 minutes -- couldn"t walk, couldn"t talk, just fucking shook. To those that say that it"s homosexual to do that, I say expand your horizons and realize...

I researched this a few years ago and apparently once you get the procedure done the body stops naturally producing semen, so even though the procedure is "reversible" there is no guarantee that you will begin producing semen again. That pretty much put an end to that.

How are you surprised that this happened? This isn"t the second century, women are not bound to you by iron law you fuckwit. In unrelated news, does anyone have any experience dating women with drastically different religious beliefs? For example, if you were an atheist and she wanted to do...

I swear, I don"t understand women. I meet this girl and we get along great. We both share the exact same sense of humor, she"s really intelligent and pretty cute to boot. I ask her out and we meet up for a lunch date. It starts off great, really good conversation, we"re both going back and...

Had a date last night and I need to vent. How the fuck do you go 2 hours without asking the other person a. single. question. How is this even possible? I swear if I hadn"t told her my name when we met she wouldn"t have asked for i! And I swear to god if another date pulls out their phone in...

Marriage, and monogamy in general, was an evolutionary response from women towards the male"s tendency to want to sleep with as many women as possible. Through monogamy the female gained a safety net, the family, which camewith a nifty little evolutionary advantage -- social stability. Children...

Dabamf, you and I are going to have to agree to disagree here because I don"t believe that any of the things I mentioned are unattainable to the common guy. Take me for instance. I was an absolute mess coming out of high school. I had no self-esteem, no physical shape to speak of and I had no...

Eye contact, smiling and relentless positivity. I disagree with those who say that you can"t become a social superstar if you"re not born with the innate talent for it -- it is completely possible, you just have to work on it. Starting conversations with strangers is actually one of the best...

I have a question: I broke up with my girlfriend last week. I"m a writer and my career depends on my ability to productively create, but I haven"t been able to write a single word about anything since it happened. This has never happened to me before and I"m a little worried. I sit down, open up...

I feel this way after I"ve done something stupid, usually involving alcohol. I think we"re all built that way, to be constantly waging war against our better selves. I"ve found that my typical threshold for learning from a mistake is around 2-4 when it comes to relationships. I almost never...

Sorry man, but that dude was right -- you can"t control her. Even though he was really telling you that in hopes that you would get out of the way so he could fuck her (obviously mission successful), he"s no less right. She"s going to keep fucking you over. If you really, truly care about a...

Cam: You believe that you love her, but you don"t know this woman. You fell in love with an image -- you perceived the things in her that you wanted to perceive and without even realizing it discarded the rest. This is what we do, as humans. The chemicals that the brain releases when you...

Broke up with my girlfriend today and I feel like something very important finally sunk in: Just because I"m dating a girl doesn"t mean I have to turn it into a serious, committed relationship. I know, DUH, but this has caused me problems in virtually every relationship I"ve ever been in...

If you don"t learn to ignore the trolls you"re going to spend the rest of this thread"s life defending your decision to get married, and the more vehement your defense the more people will doubt that you are actually comfortable with your decision. I personally have no opinion on the matter...

Ravvenn, I would + you more if I could. Thanks for the insight. I think I"m going to go out today and do something special for the lady.

From my experience, significant loss of sexual appetite usually means she"s staring at the exit sign (this goes for guys too). Tenks is right: if you try and confront her she will reflexively deny it and you will come off looking insecure which will only turn her off even more. The only thing...

Sounds like she"s immature and completely unready for any type of serious commitment. At least you found out now rather than later, and now you"ll also be better equipped to spot that type of behavior in the future. Simple: don"t be needy, don"t be boring and don"t be dirty. Also, don"t sell...

Posting in soon-to-be HOS thread. Oh, and I have two good friends that have both been diagnosed with Aspberger"s and they have never had trouble keeping a job, one even works in customer service.

So I recently met this girl. I met her at this college party that my friend had dragged me along to. This girl and I kind of randomly started talking and realized we"re both heavily into the performing arts, and from there we just hit it off. She"s very smart, probably the funniest girl I"ve...

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This is the wrong move. You should be embracing rejection, not running away from it. Think of it like training - experiment, have fun with it and don"t take it so seriously.

She lies to you and then you apologize for YOUR behavior? You are so screwed.

Dude looks like he"s getting ready to serve a life sentence.

So the ex and I have seen each other twice in the past week, both times ending with a little hoo-hah. It"s incredible how much more interesting someone becomes when you stop dating them. In the last week both of us have experienced this phenomena with one another, but neither of us wants to give...

Not to defend Brad or anything but my parents got divorced when I was fairly young and they never resorted to a court for anything. Then again, they were still somewhat friends and my mother never played bullshit games if my dad wanted to see us, or vice versa. This is exactly what happened. Die

Ok, so what"s the ideal move here? Watch the show, not fuck her and then keep my distance? I don"t want to emotionally fuck over this girl any more than I already have.

So, I"m in need of some advice. Broke up with my girlfriend about two weeks ago. We had been together, on an off, for about 3 years. She was beginning to drop hints about marriage and kids and it kind of freaked me out a bit. And by a bit I mean a lot. I"m nowhere near a place in my life, either...

My advice to you is get out of that "relationship." The girl has issues and you were just unlucky enough to hook a crazy on your first cast. She using you to feed her own emotional needs. Real, healthy relationships are not that intense, not in that way anyway. I"m sure the sex is great and all...

They won"t. For all of your description about how beautiful she is, it doesn"t sound like you"re really all that into her. Women pick up on that shit, which might be why she"s acting insecure. Sounds to me like, for you, she would make a better friend than lover.

The fact that you"re having those feelings tells me that you don"t really want to be in a relationship with DG. Let me see if I can sum up your relationship: comfortable, nice and boring as fuck. Am I close? Be honest with yourself and be honest with her - you"re young and you"re in a situation...

Your friend sounds like a smart cookie Eomer. I would do what she recommended.

At the start, sure. As time goes on though, you"re gonna want someone with a great personality and sense of humor. I can"t think of anything worse than waking up one day and finding myself in a relationship with a complete dud, or even worse, a huge bitch.

/shrug Looks aren"t everything.

That advice is a little out of context, so let me explain: confidence and being self-actualized is the key to all of this. Massive insecurity drives guys to use these gimmicky little mind games in hopes that they can leverage a woman"s insecurity against her. They basically trick her into...

I don"t think she"s playing hard to get. I think she"s just confused by the mixed messages Eomer has been sending. I"m pretty sure that if you wait a week and give her that macho, "we"re gonna do this my way" line, not only will she reject you, she"ll probably throw you in the lost cause dump...

Yes, after one date. You broke up with Anne after only one date with Brit, did you not? You"re coming off as ambivalent towards Brit when in fact you really like her. Just stop trying to come off as being so cool with your busy lifestyle and blah blah blah and take a chance with some good old...

Hah! That"s what you get for playing games. Sounds like she kinda likes you though, for some inexplicable reason. I bet if you are honest with her and stop treating her like another one of your whores, she may just give you another chance. Try this: Tell her you are sorry about the mixed...