This is all a bunch of provider lies and bullshit. The calls work inside your network and don't work when going out to the PSTN.SBC is on the carrier side, we don't have one. However the carrier claims the 180/183 messages don't come from the SBC, but once it's passed through the tandem switch to say, Verizon or AT&T. However, they say what is supposed to happen is in the absence of 180/183 progress messages, when the switch sees the 200 message, it is supposed to set up two way audio anyways. Carrier says you can't artificially inject 180/183 messages at the SBC. Basically they are saying there is no RFC obligation to present 180/183, and it's an avaya bug where it is ignoring 200 progress messages.
What is the actual path between the provider and the conference phone? Provider SBC -> ? -> ? -> Endpoint.