They need the 20-28 year olds. These days 20-28 year olds do not want to play everquest. If we'd had facebook, we wouldn't have played everquest.
We've aged out brother.
I would guess that the majority of 20-28 year olds had WoW as their first MMO. They have never tried a game with the design philosophy of Everquest. Odd to say they would not want to play it. I started playing EQ at 19. When I was 26 both EQ2 and WoW had released and been out long enough for me to know I agreed with people who missed "the feeling". Since the years have passed since then, there has been no game with EQs design to make a community build around a harsh world with actual penalties for screwing up. Knowledge of psychology has made it clear that "the feeling" was little more than cognitive dissonance. Rewards were felt greater due to the increased risk and the attachment you got to the rewards attached you to the character and game. Combine that with the community that built to counter the various hardships in EQ, and you had investment in the character and people around you. Once you feel you have invested in something, you tend to stick with it. You already described that in the example of asdfgh. Facebook could indeed counter the community aspect of it, and might have shaved a year and a half off my sub. However, what made EQ different for me was that I also felt attached to the character and not just the community. All the items, etc. It was hard to quit EQ. Any other mmo I have just quit outright after not having logged in for a while. Never knowing where I logged off. Droigan was retired outside West FP.
Todays mmo demographic can hardly be asked if they wanted a game like EQ, they would not understand concept of it and what came with the downsides. Because nearly everything that made it stand out from todays market sound absolutely horrible on paper. No maps, death penalties like exp loss and de leveling, much harder level progress, less emphasis on solo (solo play comes after mastering your class). The only people who would want those features are old crazy EQ players who were put face to face with them without knowing MMOs could be made without them. But from a much smaller gaming market, EQ became huge for its time. Now the market is much bigger. Simple and none accurate numbers. If 1/1000 players liked EQ back then and that was enough to make it a success out of a market of 10.000.000 people who played games, why should not the same 1/1000 like it in todays gaming market of 100.000.000. A new EQ would never cater to everyone, but should certainly still draw enough to be sucessful.
Sometimes developers need to not listen to what gamers want and rather give them what they need. A big STFU followed by a slap in the face. I mean, you can not even accidentally attack NPC characters anymore. Whatever happened to NPCs simply informing you "That was a mistake" and then hitting you back?
Demon and Dark Souls are very popular games. They became so in the west despite what the developers originally belived. There was a market for it, and these games are undoubtedly popular with 20-28 year olds. EQ is the only game in the PvE MMO landscape that can even remotely be compared to those games (in the west, no idea about all the asian mmos). I honestly belive we are at a point now where people want something like EQ, they just do not know it can exist. It is the perfect time for a game like it. Could even build on the Dark Souls 2 hype, giving the same fear only in an MMO. EQN can quite possibly give todays 20-28 year olds what it gave us. A new experience compared to what is out there, because to them it would be a very different type of game compared to their previous MMO experience.
That being said, it will not happen, because EQN will not be what old EQ players want it to be. They will ask the kids what they want, and not knowing better, they will ask for more of the same, and EQN will be a Norrath wow clone with fancy dialogue trees put together in a similar way as Vanguards diplomacy.
Denis Leary needs to be the PR guy of every gaming company. People write comments on what they want, and he just replies "You are 18 years old. You don't know shit about shit and pull up your pants".