If you define a "sandbox" as the ability for a player to basically do whatever they want to do within the realm of the game, i.e. freedom, then I'd say that EQ is more of a sandbox now than it was at launch. These days, as mentioned so many times already, you have gear that you buy off vendors, you join guilds that have gear stacked up to the ceiling and then have tank/healer mercs that are always on hand. You can two-box a tank and healer merc and run two of whatever the hell else you want and go to town until you hit lvl 80 or 90 or whatever.
So if sandbox = freedom, then my question is, the freedom to do WHAT. I keep on seeing these arguments back and forth about it and I'm just wondering what everyone's vision of ultimate freedom really is. To me, one of the most appealing aspects to EQ was the freedom and ability to develop your character into something that was unique, at least to a point. I remember feeling so badass, running around as maybe one of the 10 Wizards on the server that had their epic weapon. I was unique, and cool and THAT was fun. That's also one of the most unappealing aspects of games like WOW. That's just a fucking treadmill, with you running a marathon whose only destination is to look and be equal to everyone else running that same class. The marathon ends, and you're still right back where you started, just with more retarded looking gear.
Fuck everyone being equal. That's what sandbox means to me.