That's an easy trap to fall into. You think "surely the market can't go up anymore" and then you're wrong for 2 years in a row and even though on year 3 it pulls back 20% in a bear, you're behind because you missed the massive run up to it.I have $30k sitting in a retirement account looking for a place to call home. Problem is I already have $20k in the S&P and would rather put it to work at a bottom than a top.

Same strategy I use for my penis.Yah just shove it in or do a chunk every 2-3 weeks if you want to dollar cost average.


The mistake here is thinking you know when there's a bottom or a top. You don't.I have $30k sitting in a retirement account looking for a place to call home. Problem is I already have $20k in the S&P and would rather put it to work at a bottom than a top.

Man I had a nice short today using a put spread on 0dte and they got me to close right before the payout. Going to bug me for a bit, I'm pretty stringent about not letting green trades go red and this one cost me.
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It's a problem I bitch about but ultimately it's rule following for me. The trade had already been given a little room to go red, once I was back green the rule goes into effect that a red->green->red flip is not allowed. The reason I use this rule is that in these circumstances usually means the entry was suboptimal and once that has been seen to be true I don't use hope to try to correct my error.I have this same problem and I have not really gotten better at it
especially on shorter dte options trade which I do often, it’s super easy to be up 5% from small movements and spreads alone. My “gut” would tell me let it run only for it to drop to -5% and then I’d end up taking a loss or holding it way longer than I intended
I started removing emotion and putting in trailing stops or conditional stops based on underlying. In a sense it worked! My loss rate went way down but the size of my wins shrunk too as I continue to struggle with how much room I give things to bounce. SPY or other high option volume tickers tend to do better, but on anything light in option volume or with lower attention my stops get hit immediately.
I keep telling myself that 3-10% wins with the occasional 20% are better than losses but there are times(maybe 25% of time?) where if I row out the turmoil my 7% gain could have been 40%
FYI as blazin said this is an options problem. With pure shares the movement doesn’t tend to be as rash and you can use guidance of minute or day ATR and DMA to take pretty good guesses at trailing sell ranges. Options fluctuate so damn fast I find it impossible to do anything other than just take profit
For those that done trade options often there could be a .50-.80 spread on a 2 month out call on some random stock. I might land a buy at .65 so even a 50cent move now allows me to sell at 70/75 cents.
if I take that it’s a solid win in under 2-3 days. If I “let it ride” the underlying may loiter in a range for 1-2 weeks and I may break even. Used to happen to me all the time before I started setting my trailing sell at the time of purchase, again removing emotion.
edit: I absolutely love spreads. I often do far OTM bull and bear spreads for well defined 5-7% trade goals with defined risk. Theta is on my side instead of against it!
Now after I wrote that I see you said 30k not 300k, da fuq just invest it.
S&P 500 index or a Wilshire 5000 if you want to be more broadLol. Yeah but where?
Hello sir it is me your long lost cousin, prince Abu Jabubudu, crown prince of majestical Nigeria…Lol. Yeah but where?

If I were truly doing an account for my infant I probably wouldn’t use target date and just go full SP500 or VTI and let it compound for 50 years or whatever but I’m probably just going to cashflow a car when they’re 18Starting an investment account for my newborn. The plan is 50$ a month into the account until he hits 18. ChatGPT advised to just keep putting the money into Fidelity Freedom® Index 2045 Fund (FIOFX), basically set it and forget it. This would be separate from his college investment and to be used for a car or living expenses when he turns 18. Any advice?
Yep: do the same thing but with the equivalent (or nearly) of Silver. A coin or small bar or something.Starting an investment account for my newborn. The plan is 50$ a month into the account until he hits 18. ChatGPT advised to just keep putting the money into Fidelity Freedom® Index 2045 Fund (FIOFX), basically set it and forget it. This would be separate from his college investment and to be used for a car or living expenses when he turns 18. Any advice?