Why do men keep putting me in the Girlfriend-zone?
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Lejina
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Sexual peak at 30 is a load of shit. Just like men they obviously get more experienced at time goes, but the whole peak thing is about women who see they are about to hit the wall and they realize they don't get as much attention as they used to. It's a desperate attempt to get the males of their age to give them attention instead of looking the way of the younger, hotter, women. File that with "real men should look for older women because they are more accomplished".
Dashel
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I don't know that it's that I'm better at it, although that's probably true just from more experience. I think I just never realized how huge a deal financial security and confidence was until I got older. Youthful looks and being a good guy only takes you so far. As a teen I was all about sex 24/7, and came off as too try hard. When you're less sex obsessed it's an advantage. Ironically.
Kirun
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Nope. It's a social convention invented by women to preserve their sexual "power" as long as possible, scared of their quickly declining looks and fertility.
The Sexual Peak Myth
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i thought the peak was around 20ish to late 20ish for women. not 30 or 40. for men, it's 40-50 (wealth and experience). wtf.