The fact is, that is how youshouldtreat the person you"re in a relationship with. However, if they aren"t reciprocating, then you probably shouldn"t even be with them. That"s a lot easier said than done(as evident by the length of this thread).
No that sounds worse.
Not having a serious relationship in 10 years, but dating regularly, can be pretty normal. Not having any type of relationship in over 10 years could very well be an issue.